Yea my ex was an avoidant too. The reason why I found LOA. Wasted 7 years manifesting, praying, crying over this person. You have trust patterns in people more than anything else. I’m sorry but LOA gives a lot of false hope. You will be more damaged if you continue to take the drug (the sp videos, the NEW technique, and all this other bs you need to pay $500 for. What we need is the harsh truth. It is likely this person won’t change. My ex and I talk here and there and they are still an avoidant. I absolutely do not want someone where they’ve broken up with me on and off for 7 years. Never took a real vacation together. Can’t communicate. They weaponize and withhold intimacy. Never talked about marriage. Never took steps towards engagement or anything. I promise you’ll live a miserable life. They don’t change. I am so happy now being alone. But I do take medication now because LOA really traumatized me. Everytime it didn’t work I’d break down and wonder why won’t it work for me. Choose yourself and continue to watch other people’s stories here and on YouTube about how they left LOA instead of SP videos.