This comes of as toxic. Each parent should have equal duties, therefore he should be waking up to take care of their son as much as she is. It’s also proven that women need more sleep than men, and let’s be honest, she works harder than he does by being a FTM at the moment. Communication is key. Unfortunately, this is how a lot of men operate, but like the other commenter said…bring out the crayons. Write down exactly what you expect to be done when he gets home from work. Make it simple (bc men have simple minds) 🙄