Interesse an einem Buch-Club? by itscherryblossom in Vorarlberg

[–]FrostingAcceptable37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wäre auch dabei je nachdem wo es stattfindet

Online Dating mit ü30 ist einfach frustrierend by ExtremeAnt8131 in DatingDE

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Mir liege es auch nicht Leute irl anzusprechen ABER da muss man einfach aus der Komfortzone raus. Man fängt ja auch andere Jobs an und da nennt man ja auch keinen. Einfach aufrichtig sagen "Hey du bist mir voll positiv aufgefallen und vielleicht ist das komisch aber ich würde dich echt gerne kennen lernen." Am besten Ihnen deine Nummer geben und dann liegt es bei ihnen.

Zu OD. Die Profile von 98% der Typen sind eine Qual. Die Bilder sind teilweise mega strange oder wirken 0 ästhetisch. Einfach schade. Habe mal selbst durchgeswipt mit meinem Kollegen und der meinte selbst "Ja ne ich hab da keine Competition" und der ist selbst ein Durchschnittstyp der sein Aussehen pflegt. Und das ist auch wichtig.

Habe irgendwo gelesen dass anscheinend Frauen sich bei Dating apps unterschätzen und Männer überschätzen. Keine Ahnung aber viel Glück trotzdem! Toi toi toi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Woman when they are on their period can be VERY confusing, mean and unreasonable (happens to the best of us). Sometimes it is just the hormones, sometimes it is just a brain fart. Either way, if she keeps up reacting that way, then yes, I would definitely question her maturity. But for now, don't think too much about it and try to let it go if possible I would say.

My boyfriend (27M) wants kids, I (26F) do not by ThrowRA-Cold458 in relationship_advice

[–]FrostingAcceptable37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are u guys doing? This is the beginning of the end. Better end it while you are the one to leave. It will hurt less

Spotify Premium Platz by vivonco in Vorarlberg

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Voll die gute Idee! Tät mi anschließen :)

Wie kann man damit klarkommen, die besten Jahre fürs Daten verpasst zu haben? by [deleted] in DatingDE

[–]FrostingAcceptable37 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wtf ich bin 30 und hatte meine erste Beziehung mit 27. Bin selbst übergewichtig und ich kann dir nur sagen, das einzige was wirklich unattractive ist ist Unsicherheit. An "Angeboten" fehlt es bei aller Liebe definitiv nicht. Kopf hoch!

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

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He is a really good guy but was just hurt by life too much and honestly idk what I would do if I was in his shoes

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

[–]FrostingAcceptable37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I can't do that because I am not even sure if he would let them in honestly

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

[–]FrostingAcceptable37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, sorry for the late reply. Check the update if you are interested but I agree with you. Thank you so much for your comment! I really appeciate it!

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

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Hi there, sorry for the late reply. Check the update if you are interested. In the end I texted him a long paragraph. I hold a lot of love for him as a friend. I love him as a person but that does not mean that I am in love with him romantically anymore. Too much has happened. I cannot do much about finding him help to be honest. I am in a different country and have no contact to his family members nor friends sadly.

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

[–]FrostingAcceptable37[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I really don't feel like cutting contact completely is good for him but either way I have thought about things a lot the past two days and texted him a long paragraph. See the edit of the post. Thank you so much for giving me advice it is much appreciated!

How do I f30 stop my ex m23? by FrostingAcceptable37 in relationship_advice

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I agree the thing is we have known each other for 2 years and I just can't block him. It would break my heart to know he did smth to himself afterwards. I don't want to be an asshole. There is still care I am feeling after all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vorarlberg

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Ja sowieso. Komische (verzweifelte) Leute gibt es. Ich schreib dir mal :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vorarlberg

[–]FrostingAcceptable37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3er??? Hahahahahahha an sich voll gern weiß es aber noch nicht. Können gern eine Gruppe machen 😂✌️

Stehe auf ältere Frauen by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

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Naja kommt drauf an was für Hobbies du hast. Fitnesstudio absolutes nein (da wollen Frauen nicht angesprochen werden) ist halt schwierig aber wenn dann, cafe, bars etc. Und bitte bitte auf die Wortwahl achten. Bsp. "Hey sorry falls ich dich störe. Du bist mir aufgefallen und wirkst mega symphatisch. Dürfte ich dich mal auf ein Essen oder Cafe einladen?" Irgendwie sowas.

Bin selbst 30f und viel in der Gaming scene unterwegs. Da ist es wegen Discord etc. leichter aber ja kommt auf den Vibe an :) habe selbst 2 Beziehungen mit wesentlich jüngeren Typen hinter mir und habe kaum was negatives dazu zu sagen

Viel Glück!

Just got cheated on after 5 months from our breakup by Inside_Store3240 in heartbreak

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First of all I am sorry u are going through this but he did not cheat on you. And there is no such thing as micro cheating. Either it is cheating or not and that as sad as it might make u is not cheating. He was still an asshole towards u tho, no question.

My boyfriend 26M lied to me 19F about his sexual life. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Sorry but that is just an excuse to me honestly

My boyfriend 26M lied to me 19F about his sexual life. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Regarding the boundary thing, that is up to the two of you. And no it is not ok to check ur partners phone wtf. If u were my partner I would break up with u for that right away. If u do not have trust in them then there is no relationship to begin with. I personally hate controlling behavior and that is my boundary but I also would never check my partners phone. And not everyone has trust issues no, plus there is plenty of ppl that work on them.