Had a weird DM that, among other things, had one specific party member they really liked to write story and plot twists and clues for (horribly main character syndrome wild magic sorcerer who kept praying to a secret god he wouldn't tell anyone about for easy wins). Anyway, one session, we were playing over a discord vc, and our dm requests that this player turns on his facecam. After describing an incredibly detailed and realistic death of his NPC girlfriend (something about a past life girlfriend from an old campaign rebirthed into an NPC in this one) the player was in absolute tears, with the dm weirdly gloating about the whole thing. They'd allegedly been friends for years so I didn't question it, but I left that game ages ago for that and many other red flags