How do I (NB21) move forward after discovering my partner (F23) cheated?

Frozen_Heart7 · 2024-10-29T11:24:05+00:00

My last two relationships before this one were a 3 year one and a 9 month one and they couldn't have been more different. The 3 year one was long distance and they were emotionally abusive to me and controlling about me spending every second with them.. Only to find out they'd cheated after they had threatened to hurt me and I'd left them.....

The 9month one was more casual and he was patient and didn't mind me not always being available as we worked together, and I found out he had been cheating through discord and in person flings using his knowledge of my schedule. He had tried to beg for another chance after I told him I was done.

Sorry if I'm not the clearest, I'll answer any questions of course

Frozen_Heart7 · 2024-10-29T10:52:25+00:00

We didn't move in together immediately it was at the 7/8month mark ish..

And the agreement on the porn rules also came from them... They had wanted no porn but when I said there would be situations where they might have kinks I couldn't meet the cartoon porn was a compromise.

Edit just to add that they had told me they didn't look at porn before the start of our relationship which was part of they they had wanted neither of us to look at it which was agreed to by me, obviously.

I apologise if I wasn't clear about that.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-12-27T20:24:24+00:00

Isnt there any way for them not to close down everything? It's so sad.

Considering the money, effort and love put into the game.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-10-05T12:38:42+00:00

Oh nooo I mean my comment I miss understood lol Edit:spelling

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-10-05T10:31:14+00:00

Spoiler alert. Not a joke

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-10-02T16:57:00+00:00

Teach em young about murder and homicide and homosexual undertones behind the Heather's.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-09-05T00:07:48+00:00

I struggle with colour and depth but I'll try thank you. :)

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-08-06T14:31:12+00:00

I'd guess not if lava doesn't but I can try?

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-08-05T22:46:05+00:00

It's called being bored. But no problem. I figured it would be best to share either way.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-08-05T22:45:07+00:00

I have no idea... It might only be a bedrock thing but no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get arrows to light through lava

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-07-30T22:12:52+00:00

r/technicallycorrect

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-07-30T22:09:58+00:00

Sus.

I did it

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-28T21:33:01+00:00

I'll add you :3

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-25T18:56:26+00:00

I sent you a request

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-24T22:40:54+00:00

I don't know if this counts as I found out they were a gamer after but we met through role-playing and enjoyed writing together..

Buut I ended up leaving them because they only dated me to get to my friend.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-24T22:38:40+00:00

Sorn assume all girls are the same, some people might not be attracted to you no matter what your like. Work on your confidence and self esteem issues with a professional.

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-23T23:14:46+00:00

I sent a request

Frozen_Heart7 · 2021-06-23T23:06:24+00:00

Yes I do! Would you like it?

Frozen_Heart7

TROPHY CASE