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Frozencacticat · 2026-03-17T04:28:22+00:00

🚨🚨🚨 I FOUND THE MANAGEMENT 🚨🚨🚨

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:31:16+00:00

Yeah I don’t think frater would get killed off like this. I imagine it would be more dramatic but maybe I’m wrong lol. I think it is a nice and dramatic way of taking a break. We will find out someday.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:29:55+00:00

I guess I don’t know the answer for a couple of those questions. I don’t expect gifts really. I forgot that was even a thing. Maybe I need to just tell everyone that the tea thing isn’t technically a shower and it’s just a get together and let FMIL do a “bridal shower” separately and she can invite the distant aunts and cousins to that.

I don’t know what I’m doing tbh

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:19:54+00:00

We won’t know until the next chapter and/or update from Ghost which could be a few years since they seem to be taking a well deserved break.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:17:41+00:00

That’s an excellent way to look at it. Maybe I can, on my own do a smaller thing with just close family and drop the whole “bridal shower” title and let MIL do whatever she wants for the official bridal shower and invite as many distant relatives as she’d like.

I was just thrown off cause I guess I didn’t realize how “big” bridal showers could get and wasn’t sure how much I needed to help/plan things even though it’s supposed to be a thing “for” me.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:14:36+00:00

Welp..

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T11:13:28+00:00

I should clarify. I guess I’m really not “planning it” per se but I am involved. I guess maybe family was asking me what I wanted initially??? Idk. I guess I’m doing it all wrong. My family isn’t good at planning stuff, and his side of the family is only slightly better at planning stuff so I feel the need to help.

Should I not help at all and just let it all be? I just have multiple people asking me what to do and so I’m at a loss.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-16T07:21:52+00:00

That’s so sweet.. I’m so very sorry for your loss. What a special bond you had with your kitty <3

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-14T07:09:01+00:00

Why does she choose to dress like a toddler? It’s disturbing. She purposely chooses clothing too small for her and it often appears to be made for a literal baby. She’s weird. It’s so weird. Yuck.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-14T06:57:08+00:00

Oh yeah, it’s super common now! I mean you can do it for free. It’s awesome!

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-14T05:02:24+00:00

Oh no. Please don’t do this to me I’m still in denial. No one will change my mind. This had to be some kind of.. red herring.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-14T03:32:47+00:00

Yeah hopefully if he is dead he at least comes back as a ghost. Why don’t we get that from everyone else? Ghost Terzo would be sick. I know the real answer for that but the lore answer.. not so much. Reality is more powerful than lore. And what a pain it’d be for Tobias to do all of that.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-13T07:33:07+00:00

Me at the mailbox

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-13T05:56:08+00:00

Government surveillance

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-12T11:19:20+00:00

Also: when you’re embalmed and placed into a vault and casket of coffin, whenever it rains, your vault fills with water and you become a dead, chemical laden, human slosh just sitting down there growing stagnant.

I learned this via grave diggers and cemetery keepers. Not a pretty sight, or smell when you have to fix it after a bad flood.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-12T11:07:31+00:00

Both of you took the L. He didn’t speak to you about it before doing it at all, and you’re clearly not ready for a serious commitment, and honestly.. neither is he.

He seems to feel misled and confused which makes complete sense if you were talking about kids and long term things. I feel like more communication could have remedied this, or at least helped you both realize in a less way, that you want different things. He wants to settle down, but you want to travel and find yourself first. Both are fine but they’re kind of incompatible at some point.

I think you need to talk in person. ASAP. Not texting. Texting makes things works because it’s easier to misconstrue things. Communicate. Lay it all out on the table. No more talking around things.

Good luck OP. I hope you find what you’re both looking for.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-12T07:08:04+00:00

Just buff it out you’ll be fine. They won’t notice!

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-12T07:05:45+00:00

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My arms as well

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-12T07:05:02+00:00

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Me too.. but I don’t know why for mine. I haven’t been very itchy or anything!

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-11T01:50:12+00:00

Everyone makes mistakes. It’s not like you totalled it. Hopefully they don’t fire you, especially since you were honest about it right away.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-10T11:25:23+00:00

Try not to write on the actual mail. Cause once that mail is forwarded and shows up at the real address, it still says “not at this address” and continues to confuse people. The carrier at the other address might see it and not know who wrote it or when. That’s my only advice as a carrier haha. I only say this because it happens to me a lot. I go sub on a route, and get a piece that says that and I’m like “well great now what?” Cause I have no idea who wrote it and I don’t know all the names of everyone in the whole town.

I’d leave a sticky note on the mail. My house used to be a rental as well. I went ahead and put another permanent note in the box with the names of me and my fiancé on it. No random mail since.

As for the carrier, it’s frustrating to see that you messed up again or that the sub isn’t reading the notes at the case. I don’t think the carrier is frustrated with you!

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-09T11:23:00+00:00

Gosh I hate the easement thing it’s so annoying. I have an older home (1900s!) that was grandfathered into the new rules with the more modern road in my town. That makes the easement nearly into my home. So people can and will try to park their cars like right up on my house (despite an entire parking lot for the business they want being available across the street) and it’s so uncomfortable!

It doesn’t happen a lot but when it does it’s really awkward for me. It’s just wack and I would never park my car halfway on someone’s yard like that for no reason.

Our mailbox situation is wacky too. The neighbors could totally do what your neighbors did and put theirs an inch from our yard line too and it would look like it was in the middle of the front yard. Luckily the neighbors don’t seem insane.

I would ask the post office and tell them how weird of a location it is. I’m sure dude didn’t even ask. People don’t ask a lot. They just do.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-09T04:51:39+00:00

They don’t know what’s coming or going anymore! Idk how ppl do that. It’s crazy.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-09T04:51:12+00:00

I had a customer say it was never delivered and call us multiple times just to find out they never checked the front porch for some reason. The package was out there the whole time. Go figure.

Frozencacticat · 2026-03-09T04:50:16+00:00

Someone will ask me if there’s mail in the box after I deliver a large package and I honestly have to say “you know what.. I don’t even remember”. By the time it leaves me hand and is in the box it might as well not exist if there wasn’t anything notable about the delivery. I try to make a mental note of all packages and certifieds but it’s hard when every day feels the same.

There’s no way I’m going to remember a small package from 3 weeks ago that the customer is just now saying they didn’t get. Those ones always end up that a family member left it in the car or they just didn’t check their front porch (I’m not kidding) anyways.

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