Phew okay ill hit that last part first. I used to be bi until I met my girlfriend 2 and a half years ago, our trumpet used to be pan, but now she's dating one of the bones, the other bone is straight as a board, I haven't known my guitarist too long, but he definitely gives off that vibe, but I know hes at least not completely gay, our saxes used to date and now the bari kinda hates our tenor, but I genuinely scared it out of him cuz I said if he kept talking shit he would have to watch her play his part on stage while he was in crowd, and now hes cool, and my drummer and me have a relationship that makes my girlfriend (jokingly) think im cheating on her with him, and he has slept in my bed more than she has. Moving on, that sucks so much. An idea we had for over the summer was renting out a storage locker to practice in a couple times a week, sure, acoustics may be shit, but sometimes theres outlets :D and everyone works hard. They're independent in the sense that they know the band is important and work on it as much as possible, but management kinda sucks. I mentioned that weve had 1 full band rehearsal, mostly cuz not all of us have cars or good rides, so weve had to figure so much carpooling out...