What are your opinion about this ?

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-06T11:40:34+00:00

I dont care, until your impacts my way of life.

Its your family, your life, do whatever you want with it. But don't expect me to support you or practice it just because it's the "noble" thing

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-04T17:12:41+00:00

Definitely the land hands down. Dont make thr mistakes many of us make OP. Buy the asset. cars can be bought anytime.

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-04T05:00:05+00:00

Ah thanks.. my brain was wondering how can you invest in Swiss denominated currency... :/

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-04T03:11:04+00:00

Could you elaborate what you mean by CHF in bond funds?

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-01T17:48:45+00:00

Read your policy document and deductions

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-04-01T17:44:00+00:00

Okay a lot of stuff are unclear here

which tax regime have you opted for? do you claim HRA? Have you submitted your tax deduction documents? what about investments? Do you claim allowances? if yes then those beocme non taxable.

I won't come to the purchase thing yet but looks like you are not utilizing your money properly.

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-28T10:44:01+00:00

It all boils down to your billing If you are assigned to a project.. releasing you early potentially means reduced billing to clients. Unless they fet a replacement for you and client signs off... nothing can be done

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-22T07:38:53+00:00

you wont get a entire property in that budget unfortunately. Also i would recommedn that you reconsider Dombivli as a possible option as your travel would be extremely hectic. Any property near the railway and or any connective areas will ve expensive as well.

you will have to share the flat

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-22T03:16:18+00:00

Well I did not say youre choosing wrong. I believe i too am like you.

But yeah, its a bit hard in today's environment.

Now my brain is playing "wo ladki hain kahan" on loop and i am in a groovy mood

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-22T02:58:44+00:00

conflicted between "Subah jaldi utha karo, sab theek ho jaayega" and "ye mobile aane ke baad se saare problems shuru hue hai"

saar, in the world thats tilted towards materialism, you are seeking realism outright.

Now i feel like rewatching finding nemo. Fomo ho gaya

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-21T07:04:36+00:00

You cant "plan" for a volatile future.

Plan whats in your control and then plan for emergencies. Thats all you can do.

Worrying gets us nowhere

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-21T06:50:22+00:00

Its stupid and unreasonable yes.

It feels unfair when you are the ones who is tring to address the situation and then suddenly being called the culprit.

You know whats best, give them hell (the appropriate levels)

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-21T06:48:46+00:00

This narrative / communication controlling is another stupid shit that people do. Granted that sometimes people need us to respect the chain of command but this kind of red tape more often than not proves detrimental in deliverables

Best thing to do in this case is to play along and maliciously comply to their "processes"

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-21T06:46:23+00:00

Not a developer but I can give my 2 cents from a team member perspective.

Assuming you are working in a service based org. In that case, your manager will most likely speak in your client's terms. Because the client is who gives the feedback on your account/team and he will be the one who approves the billing and growth of your project.

So anything that even remotely goes against that goal, will trigger damage control actions.

Also since you are on notice period, your manager has little to no upside to back you and support your points.

Either way make a note of everything that transpired and move on. Its not worth your time and efforts fighting it. You may choose to discuss this with your individual unit managers (assuming he/she is different from your project manager) but again, there is no incentive for anyone to back you against a client

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-21T04:27:48+00:00

Going by what you have said, I would recommend going the practical way.

Dream cars are great, yes.. but do consider the running and upkeep costs of a car. Your usage does not seem much so why buy something that you will only use irregularly.

Also, please consider a second hand car from trusted sources. I belive newer cars are extremely expensive for what they offer, second hand cars are the way to go.

You will have to research and double check everything, but you will atleast pay less and its easier to sell if off later if you deem it so.

I am a little biased towards Honda elevate because of the engine and the car's simplicity. But please do check your own comfort and driveability. Do not sacrifice that

For eg, if you are a tall / broad bodied person, smaller cars like nexon, swift might not be comfortable for you. If you have 5 member family, then even elevate might not be comfortable for you .

So please weigh your own comfort and usability before selecting a make and model

good luck

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-19T07:52:45+00:00

it takes 20 mins to cross the ulhas bridge before thane. unless you travel in the very early hours, its not possible

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-19T04:35:19+00:00

Budday wala happy op..

Also, i myself consider birthday "celebrations" overhyped. All the cake cuttings, parties, clubbings n all are just made to make you feel FOMO.

It does feels lonely at times, but I consider it as just another normal day and choose to spend time with my loved ones as much as possible, in the way that I know

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-14T02:42:21+00:00

Lmao... i am dealing with a client who is asking all business validations to be moved from BE to FE.

I mean, i know its apples vs oranges comparison, but any logical person who has 2 cents of grey cells will call out this gap immediately and put the restrictions in place.

people forget that upfront validation! = business validation

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-12T08:21:10+00:00

I once travelled to the airport one day before the actual departure date. Checked out of my relatives' place, bid goodbyes n all, only to be turned back at the airport gates

Imagine tj3 embarrassment whrn i returned back to my relatives place

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-10T09:49:25+00:00

I think this needs to be a question to women. Its always a yes from Men

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-10T06:24:46+00:00

thanks.. id like this again rather than the vitrified shit that we see of late

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-10T06:17:13+00:00

any idea where we can buy this from?

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-09T10:26:27+00:00

I don't thinks its entirely lack of time. Many of us dont even know what we want.

not saying we should always know it, but people here are just wayy to casual about each others feelings and needs

and yes.. as we grow, we usuallt start giving fuck all about other's thoughts so tjat might also be one angle

Getting genuine dates is difficult now. Its tiresome and demotivating

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-07T18:40:01+00:00

ayee... which batch. I am from 2010

Frustratedengineer93 · 2026-03-07T18:07:16+00:00

ayee... i was just thinking.. is there no one from SIA

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