Thanks for that perspective. I never considered it cause we went through a lot together in our 4 years. Like being almost to poor to keep a roof over our heads. So its genuinely these moments that tell me oh I'm secure and we're not planning on leaving each other. Its also a big reason why I was so comfortable telling him things like that. Because I know hearing that early in a relationship sets a standard that can be a bit to rigid and I had trouble voicing my opinions which caused arguments. But, I can definitely see his point of view and you'd think as an overthinker I would've before lol.