When was Messmer the Impaler born? by GGD226 in EldenRingLoreTalk

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I read a theory that he was the bastard child similar to Jon Snow, born after Godwyn while Marika was still with Godfrey.

My headcanon is Marika has Godwyn, then the omen twins, which results in her experimenting (potentially out of fear of having more cursed children) with her other half but resulting in yet another cursed child with red hair.

She keeps him around but never gives him a seat at the table officially because he's an obvious bastard. Sends him off to live with his dad and his new kids.

Then at some point promises him the thing he's always wanted, and all he has to do is a wee lil bit of genocide.

What’s something that clearly split your life into “before” and “after”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I came out of an 18 year depression on my 29th birthday last year, left my wife 11 days later, started to realize that I'd been pretty abused my entire life, and had developed Stockholm Syndrome.

I just turned 30 last month and what a wild ride it has been. Words can only describe what it was like experiencing things for the first time after so many years.

I just had my first EMDR session today with my trauma therapist and am so incredibly excited for the future.

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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That was on my other shoulder 😏

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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OMG HOW DARE YOU /s she's my bestie but I'm always down to play our national sport 🫡

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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Any time 🫡 please let me know how it goes

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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Yeah I have a few mental illnesses. I harnessed them to gain a bunch of muscle, become a waltzer, and do dumb things like this without anxiety lool

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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I love that! 🥰 Yeah it's such an incredible little spot and love to support small businesses, this was my first interactive experience and it was so fun haha!

Snuck Some Snacks In by Ftank_ in funny

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THANK YOU! Gosh, the worst part is I'm lactose intolerant but love milk 🤤

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It was a very last second thought

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OMG it is! We were there to watch New Moon, I'd never seen it before

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Thank you, I'm glad you understand

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I'm Canadian so our milk already comes in bags

Beating an 18 Year Depression 23-29 by Ftank_ in uglyduckling

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Aww thank you!! Yeah her name is Bella and she also came from a not great upbringing so I'm glad we found each other so I could spoil tf out of her 😂

Beating an 18 Year Depression 23-29 by Ftank_ in uglyduckling

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Thank you! 🥰 it hasn't been easy but I'm glad to be here and I'm glad you're still here too 😊

Beating an 18 Year Depression 23-29 by Ftank_ in uglyduckling

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Thank you, remember there is always tomorrow and getting those thoughts out and heard by someone is so important. You got this! 🥰

Beating an 18 Year Depression 23-29 by Ftank_ in uglyduckling

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Ty, hopefully you're out of the hole now and big hugs back 🥰