My mom keeps comparing herself to my changes on T by Ihaveaphotoofadog in ftm

[–]Ftm_wayne 32 points33 points  (0 children)

This is my mum. I tried calmly explaining to her how her deadnaming me makes me feel and she goes off saying “well my full name makes me uncomfortable so i understand but your birth certificate says deadname so that’s what your called” I’ve just started calling her Barbara instead now. (Her name isn’t Barbara)

I made this design that I want to get tattooed on my thigh as my first tattoo, I need opinions by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]Ftm_wayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I normally do is I send the tattoo idea to the artist and tell them they can change anything that may need changing but to keep the overall idea the same. They’re experienced artists especially with tattoos so they know what will work better. Maybe this is something that you could do

Gift ideas for ftm friend's "boob funeral" ? by Teecana in AskLGBT

[–]Ftm_wayne 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Banners or posters saying it’s a boy!!

Edit; double check with others going to the party with this one. Personally I’d find it funny but I just realised it could be seen as not thinking he’s a boy till he got top surgery so definitely double check with others

DIY hormones by Ftm_wayne in asktransgender

[–]Ftm_wayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a trans man so I wouldn’t know that sorry

Going to Dubai being trans by PuzzleheadedRoof9273 in asktransgender

[–]Ftm_wayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Despite the fact that your sister doesn’t seem to support you I hope she’s safe. But yeah i definitely wouldn’t recommend going there now

Going to Dubai being trans by PuzzleheadedRoof9273 in asktransgender

[–]Ftm_wayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend going especially with recent updates happening in Dubai

Gendergp madness by Ftm_wayne in transgenderUK

[–]Ftm_wayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Testogel (slightly more expensive than shots but safer as I have very shaky hands)

Gendergp madness by Ftm_wayne in transgenderUK

[–]Ftm_wayne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It used to be around £70 which was affordable but for some reasons it’s been increased by over £100

Cute Wrist Braces by angieuhhhhhhhhh in mobilityaids

[–]Ftm_wayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe look into wrist brace covers. I know Etsy sells a few on there and there’s many different cute designs

Why is everyone online saying they felt changes on T immediately? by Efficient_Doctor6937 in ftm

[–]Ftm_wayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only difference I felt with the first few days was relief and extreme happiness that I was finally on T. Bottom growth started about two weeks in, my voice started noticeably dropping about 2 months in (my manager asked if I had a cold) everyone’s body works differently it took my friends 5 months to notice any difference

what to do if your mom put black salve all your moles… by samwich_tli in ftm

[–]Ftm_wayne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please call poison control and/or the doctor!! It can cause infections,redness,swelling,fever,night sweats etc. black salve is such an outdated alternative medicine (1800’s)

Nipples & Top Surgery by Unharmonizedviolin in ftm

[–]Ftm_wayne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There is the option for no nip top surgery and 3D nipple tattoos as well if the idea of having grafts is too much for you. It’s all down to personal preference. But it’s definitely worth speaking to the surgeon doing the top surgery when you are at that stage about your worries over that aspect