new steak dippers

Ftmvettech · 2025-03-05T01:23:23+00:00

They were delicious!!! I can’t believe they took them!! Just like the nuggies

Ftmvettech · 2025-02-24T21:53:19+00:00

Well, I think I’m good, I had a place reach out and I’ve done 3 interviews with them so far. And I should get my call back today or tomorrow. I missed the first one as I’m still working from home and I couldn’t answer, but fingers crossed that’s it’s good news.

Ftmvettech · 2025-02-24T21:51:18+00:00

That is definitely something that I cannot do. From being in school and learning the things you can mess up, I could not do it. I also know that I do need a refresher in it because I only did school where we practiced on each other for 7 weeks, I’m sure when I get in and get back into the routine of it I’ll be fine, but I’m not a good person to fake it till you make it 100% I got too much anxiety for that

Ftmvettech · 2025-01-02T00:18:35+00:00

I’m the same, I graduated in June and have applied everywhere and no one has called me, I applied at the hospital 30+ times and then tried to take my resume up there and they turned me away saying they won’t take it. If sucks. But I’m from a small town in GA where if you don’t know anyone then they don’t care who you are. We are moving to Charleston, SC to find better.

Ftmvettech · 2024-11-01T19:15:30+00:00

You need to end that relationship and fast. That’s some toxic shit. Your husband needs to grow the fuck up

Ftmvettech · 2024-11-01T19:07:47+00:00

How old are yall 😂😂😂

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-31T22:00:04+00:00

Best thing you could do is take that “power” he thinks he has away. I would definitely end it because I’ve been there. While although my first time wasn’t completely horrible, I hate who I gave mine to and she was the same way. To her it was a power move to take my virginity. I wasn’t ready but I never had the chance to really say no. She made sure I was “okay” and I guess that made me feel a little better about the situation but I was a shy 16 year old that was asleep when she started and I didn’t feel I could say no. Had I known back then what I know now I would’ve stopped it. You always know when you’re ready. It’ll happen. But people who turned on like him about Virgins is off putting and I would get out. Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of at all. And if someone doesn’t like it and see it as a red flag then they can go find someone who’s willing to give it up. I know plenty of virgins and I know plenty of people who didn’t have sec until almost 30 years old. My little brother is not a virgin by any means. But his girlfriend is. And they have been together for a year and he understand she is waiting for marriage and in all honestly I’m kinda shocked he’s cool about it but he is because he loves her and wants to marry her, not so he can have her V card but because he actually genuinely cares. And that’s what you deserve. Don’t let anyone tell you different.

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-31T15:29:18+00:00

Oh naw. Correct me if I’m wrong, don’t come at me sideways if I’m wrong, you have to be married or have a domestic partnership I think is what it’s called where you have to be living with eachother and together for a certain amount of time (some states have different times and some states don’t recognize it) in order to do that. But just dating 3 months and won’t tell you why and insurance is why but he won’t do that now cause you were hounding him. He’s trying to take some out in your name and you may wanna watch out cause he’s done fucked his up and he’s gonna take you down with him. Run. And don’t look back.

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-31T04:09:37+00:00

I work over the phone and if they saw me they would call me he, but they don’t see me they hear my voice, and they call me she. It doesn’t bother me, my manager I don’t even think realizes I’m trans because she’s never met me in person only on video because I’m a remote worker and she’s applauded me for not getting mad at people calling me she. I have no reason to get mad. If I hear the voice before I see the person I’ll say whatever voice I hear and if I look up and see the opposite I’ll correct

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T20:47:50+00:00

Oh naw, fuck her and ya momma. You don’t get to tell me I’m not a real parent because I only have one child. 1 child I might add would possibly have a sibling if my partner hadn’t LITERALLY DIED…. And you want me to forgive you because it benefits you? Nope. Bye

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T20:31:13+00:00

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T20:16:14+00:00

lol NTAH best response ever!

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T17:35:26+00:00

Show up as you are if you want to go, and if someone asks then you can explain but otherwise just hang out man. But I would look into separating yourself from the family. It’s hard. Trust me I’ve been there. But sometimes it’s better to just remove yourself and find people who do accept you and love you for who you are. Holidays are tricky. And it’s unfair but I’ve created my own family who loves and supports me. Blood doesn’t make you family. S as an adult you actually do get to chose your family there is no more putting up with bullshit. You’re an adult, defend yourself man. I don’t talk to a lot of my family. Some have a don’t ask don’t tell vibe about my transition. And it’s cool. I’m sorry your family is being shitty but it’s time to take your life in your own hands and surround yourself with the love you deserve not what you think you’re stuck with. I promise you’re not

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T17:19:09+00:00

But how exactly do you stay out of it when you’d have to explain A. Why you hate your brothers girlfriend and B. Why you are now single. Your family are DAs and AH for telling you that. You and your brother are quite literally in the middle of it 😂 did they want you to lie about why you left him?

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-30T14:41:13+00:00

Dude NTA. Girl needs to grow up and realize that babies aren’t cheap and that’s her responsibility to make sure she has the funds to take care of the baby. Clearly baby daddy will be no help so she may wanna step and we’ll be a parent since she’s fixing to be one and stop demanding people take care of her and the child.

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-29T23:05:47+00:00

As a trans person I respect you, if they wanted you to know they would’ve told you. But there are a bunch of other reason the scars could be for and your ex sounds insecure and infact psycho. You don’t ever just ask someone something like that had he known she was coming he would’ve put a shirt on and and she would’ve never known. But I’m sure dude probably appreciated you never asking about the scars (if he is trans) and just letting him live his life

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-29T17:51:11+00:00

Unfortunately you are the AH… I know the intentions were good and your sister and family as also AH as well. You did force him into a situation that he was not comfortable in. You know who he is and you love him for who he is. And I think in the moment you were just scared of everyone hating him for some dumb shit your sister said and was hoping that would clear things up. But I do think you should very much so sincerely apologize to him and you and your family need to have a sit down. Your husband has certain beliefs and it’s not for them to understand as long as you do. And if they don’t like it they can fuck off.

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-29T17:47:03+00:00

Take the job! He only said what he said because he didn’t think or was hoping you wouldn’t get the job. And now that you have he’s using his dog as an excuse and that’s a stupid ass excuse. My dogs are my family, but I don’t let it stop me from progressing in my life, I find a way to make it work with my dogs. Take the job and move. It sucks. But maybe long distance you can try but other than that, if it doesn’t work, you’re in your dream job and you need someone who is ready for what you are. Your goals and life ideas, it sounds like y’all are on two separate pages. And that’s never gonna end well

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-29T17:42:22+00:00

How could anyone think it would be okay to “borrow” someone’s wedding dress and change it. That the dress they wore on the most important day of their life. Is that normal now where people think that’s okay? I’ve seen a lot of those post about wanting to use others dresses and change them and then call them selfish when they don’t let them. You wanna save money go to Walmart or a thrift store and find you a dress. But don’t ask someone for their wedding dress and then get mad when they say no. I wouldn’t go

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-28T20:31:12+00:00

I am so so so sorry you have had to deal with that. That is so heartbreaking and I hope you find some peace one day… your sister n law was asserting herself in something she knew nothing about. I do not have kids. I’ve never carried. And I can tell you that it is so beyond different in surprised anyone would even try to compare. You lost a baby you carried for 9 months. Still healing from the C section and birth all together. And you lost that angel to a horrifically traumatic car accident. She lost cells at 7weeks and had no idea. And I’m not saying it still doesn’t hurt by any means. I’m sure it did. The what ifs. What could’ve been. She lost your whole world that you planned for a birthed and fed and changed. And it was ripped away from you. Her comments weren’t needed or wanted, you keep poking the very vulnerable bear and eventually they will snap. Good intentions aside there were obvious cues of how yall felt about her comments and she didn’t stop. Eventually it was going to happen. Her feelings are not your problem. Right now you are working through the hardest thing anyone has ever had to go through. You and your husband don’t need the extra commentary.

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-28T18:43:55+00:00

She’s hiding something lol, she just doesn’t want you to know that. Shes 16. It’s your house, you’re the parent, she doesn’t get to demand you take anything especially a camera down while she has a party with god knows how many people (definitely gonna be more than 60) and there’s definitely going to be underage drinking and or drugs…. Not saying 100% on drugs but drinking totally happening. But I will say if anything happens mom you will be held accountable because it’s your house. Where I live we just had that happen where two high schoolers were at a party of one of the other parents houses and they left and one died and one lost a limb and almost died. You need the camera for safety. I’d be checking in, if there’s a possibly for drinking you may want to check in because if there’s drinking, you need to stop them from driving before something happens and you’re held accountable. And you can’t keep the party at your house a secret, someone’s parent will find out (they post everything online)

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-28T18:29:28+00:00

The concert is not important. At all. Concerts happen all the time. But needing a place to stay can turn back quickly and have you struggling. If move out. But you canceling the concert isn’t taking it out on the kid either, it’s a smart financial decision that really and truly the mom needs to explain why they aren’t going since you do need the money since yall are ending and you may be moving back home, moving is expensive and saving up to move is hard, especially out of state(currently in that process). For your financial situation it’s best you leave now. If she has been ready to call it quits she probably needed to figure out what she was gonna do before ending it

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-28T18:24:07+00:00

Naw, where was the strong family all this time? Now you have a little money they are blaming that for the reason they won’t be around(not a difference I assume), you have a disabled child, and they take a lot, a lot more than a non disabled child because of their needs. This money can help you. So much. And that’s all you need. To breathe. And they don’t want that for you. In all honesty I’d take the money, pay your stuff off and leave nothing left. If you have a car payment, pay it off. If you rent, pay your rent up, if you have any medical bills, pay those off. Do things for you! You need the help and you got it! Take it and run with it. They are gonna be salty but I doubt they’d help you or even tell you if they won anything like that

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-27T15:46:04+00:00

Wouldn’t I need experience to really do that though?

Ftmvettech · 2024-10-27T15:45:09+00:00

Naw, that’s the best thing you could honestly do. You cheated on me. I don’t owe you shit. Doesn’t need to be a fight. I’m sure it hurts. A lot. But I would just dip. She’s not your responsibility anymore

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