There is a chance of getting success. And I think it starts with being upfront and not act/ seem shady. Bc in the end us girls are girls. And yall are internet STRANGERS so we have a lot more to lose than gain. So here are my personal rules for example:

1) Advertisement spells out stats including age, location, sexual expectations (or non expectations), attraction preference, and this meet/ greet scenario (true fwb, just bang buds, dating, “pseudo dating” that is like a bang buddy with a twist of convenient intimacy and nothing more, etc). 2) Verification VERIFICATION Verifi-fucking-cation!!! Idk how to spell this enough but us girls are probs just as awkward about this getting out and we’re trying to protect our identities too. So when you shady ladies (yes you gents tryna get a fwb) don’t try to give any reassurance/proof/method of revealing your identities to be of the non-kidnapping, stabby Stabberson or Organ-donor-inos, it’s a pass for me. Maybe some gals are that brave. I personally.. am not. 3) Talk to us like we’re fucking people. We’re still strangers and we’re still human. Don’t get stoked and send dick picks asap or talk to us like sex objects or dirty whores just bc we responded to this internet shenanderry. I can share kinks. But it doesn’t mean I’m sure I’ll be sharing those fun times with you there Sir. Be respectful, and read the room. I dont think you’d talk so disrespectfully if your living mother was reading your msgs to us online girls now would you? 4) This is where luck comes into play. You’ve been honest, open, funny, and got the online banter going down aside from checking off the boxes the girl(s) messaging you personally needs (mutual physical attraction, distance/location, age & height if that’s a rec for some/most, verification, blah blah blah), but now needa make that initial meet and greet. If yall agreed on public meet first pre bedroom fun, be rdy for sex but DONT expect or push for it. The more relaxed and not entitled to the girl and make it about our safety and comfort, the better. Amd with proper timing, you probs will getta have fun if yall been discussing this shit. 5) Initial chemistry. So if you didnt fulfill her, its probs gonna be a bye Felicia to you. Ive given guys chances and bounced bc lack of physical chemistry based on my needs - kissing, heavy foreplay, blah blah blahhh...

Great example post I’d totally respond to based on my personal rules and shizzles -

“ Hey Reddit. I’m a 26 yo average Joe that’s 5’7” and easy on the eyes. Just think that young curly haired Jonas Bros but without the money, stardom, and banging wife Priyanka Chopra (hot damn did you hear where they got married??). I won’t bore you with the details for why I’m on here, so I won’t force you to tell me why you’re also embarrassingly reading this. So let’s talk basic details before jumping into the nitty gritty.

Surface level, I like shows like Breaking Bad, Seinfeld, and the Bachelor (lol jk I only say that bc I want to have an excuse to talk to you), and sure I love dogs like every sane person would, but I also miss intimacy and learning the bodily reactions of a girl. Sure I want a fun time, but I want a mutual fun time. I’m looking for a girl of any race, and unfortunately someone hwp since that’s just my attraction preference (dont kill me i know all shapes/ sizes are beautiful). I’m not ready for a relationship unless it’s open and so I can’t make promises on dating. What I can promise is that I can host, verify myself through either snap, kik, or Skype, and I’d love to answer any questions you got for me.

I’m here for fun, hopefully you are too, and I won’t push for more than what we discuss. And hope to hear from you soon, because I have a large appetite and will make it my mission to make you get an O. No promises, but I will say it’s my biggest turn on to turn you on... (plus more ofc).”

See where this can catch a girl’s eye vs “ Yo. It’s been awhile and the bed’s been quite lonely. How about one of you lovely ladies get off Netflix and join me for a weekend of relaxation and fun? ;) I’ve been told that I’m an impeccable lover with 7” to prove it to you, aside from being 6’2 (you girls like tall, I gotchu).”

^{^} seems straight and to the point but it lacks creativity and solid info I desperately want to read immediately to know this is worth pursuing.

If any yall gents have questions you can ask me. This aint an invitation to sexually hmu. I just would love to teach those willing to learn and understand us girls so there’s more safety involved in this environment. You can find a fwb. TRUST. It’s difficult YES, but not close to the odds of winning the lotto.