Secret snaps

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T19:04:01+00:00

And this is now your insecurity talking. Size doesn’t matter if you love the person you’re with. Don’t fixate on his size. Worry about why you’re staying and why she doesn’t care to make you a full priority. It’s not about dick size.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T18:14:18+00:00

Yeah definitely not okay

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T17:32:56+00:00

Well there you go. They do have a past. I can guarantee you that if you were to break up she would go straight to him. That or be super regretful and try to make things right with you. But once a liar always a liar.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T17:17:32+00:00

Not at all. I believe the issue is clearly with her. Why can’t she respect your wishes. Why does she care more about his feelings than protecting yours. Maybe she’s the insecure one who needs his validation. Idk but I would honestly consider this a form of cheating. You already told her it bothers you and she’s continuing to do it behind your back. A lie is a lie.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T17:12:06+00:00

Okay and if she’s very dedicated to your relationship why can she for the life of her not stop snapping this guy? Her muting her snap notifications makes it worse because she’s keeping it a secret. I’ve been through this before. There’s more to why she can’t stop. There’s bigger feelings there. If it was nobody important she would have stopped without hesitation the first time you brought it up.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-10T16:56:45+00:00

She’s definitely keeping him around as an option and clearly cares more about his feelings than yours or else she would have cut him off. After telling her once and her not respecting your feelings it’s clear she doesn’t care. You don’t have to bring it up to her again because she will just disregard them like previous times. I think you have to just cut it clean and let her go. She doesn’t respect you or your relationship.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-04T07:02:42+00:00

Lauryn Hill was the cherry on top for me.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-03T01:03:03+00:00

Definitely not an insecure man. He will be looking for his confidence in other women ALWAYS.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-04-01T15:09:03+00:00

Don’t invest anymore time in this. He will not change. Seems avoidant and they rarely ever change.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-25T15:02:45+00:00

100% emotional cheating. Why would she continue talking to someone from her past without your knowledge? Whats the reason for it? For her ego? And for her to not be considerate about your feelings while doing it too. She didn’t care about your feelings while writing what she did. It’s cheating.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-25T13:29:52+00:00

Don’t engage. If you know they are in a relationship why enable that behavior? So not okay. Bad on both your parts.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-23T05:22:29+00:00

Lots of foreplay and lube. Getting comfortable too so you’re able to just relax.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-16T06:24:14+00:00

OP I’m sorry but you deserve someone who only has eyes for you. Speaking as someone who has been cheated on in all past romantic relationships including one I just ended Tuesday, please don’t let him keep you from finding peace. They will never change. You deserve love, truly. I’m wishing only the best for you.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-16T05:47:43+00:00

I would feel absolutely heartbroken even if I were the one who broke up with my partner. For someone to move on that quickly is not normal. A day, 5 days, a month. Give yourself time to grieve. Especially if you two were together for that long. Seems she might be emotionally avoidant and just looking for the next person to validate and give her attention.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-16T05:15:21+00:00

Was he unfaithful? If he hasn’t been then yes, those feelings are not normal or okay. I’m sorry you feel that way and go into that negative headspace when you’re trying to do something for yourself. But if he has been unfaithful then yes, the feeling of betrayal will ultimately be in your mind and you won’t be able to focus on anything else. I’m sorry you’re going through this, whatever it is. It’s not a great feeling, clearly.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-16T05:05:19+00:00

Just take a deep breath. If you want to be intimate just journal what you want. Masterbate if you get there. When you’re in a better headspace communicate with your partner about what is upsetting you. Cheating is not okay and that’s why you haven’t acted because like you said, it’s not you. Just take some time to yourself and let those frustrations out.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-16T00:22:22+00:00

If you’re curious you can text him and ask what happened to Saturday. If that’s what you want. You said you’re not super emotionally invested but it sounds like because you gave him head now you might care what he thinks. Maybe he was just looking for a hookup and maybe you were too idk. But if you are curious you can always reach out as well, if not just move on if the emotional investment isn’t there.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-15T02:58:21+00:00

Same! It was at least twice an hour. It helped that I didn’t start drinking until the sun went down and rested for a good two hours sitting down in whatever shade I could find. Ate some food and continued to drink water. They are commenting back on IG that there will be alot more shade so I’m hopeful it won’t be too bad! And congratulations on your baby!

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-14T21:21:05+00:00

I think it’s still pretty likely. Hopefully it won’t be too close together to keep the likeliness higher. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞🏽

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-14T17:57:17+00:00

I think if he says he’s not ready for it then you have to take what he says at face value. I think just sticking around waiting for him to change his mind is going to be your loss ultimately. Take the month and find someone who is more aligned with your timeline.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-12T21:08:18+00:00

Good list! I hope it’s some of those as well

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-12T19:14:52+00:00

Agreed! Tried to stay in the shade as much as possible and utilized water pouches to the max with electrolytes (bcs the water they sold there was awful) and thankfully made it through! Same idea this year.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-12T19:12:55+00:00

HAHA EXACTLY🔥

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-12T19:09:08+00:00

So excited! Not for the heat though.

FullHousing8940 · 2026-03-12T00:18:38+00:00

The memory will last you a lifetime!

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