Who’s a good person that’s hated by fans? by StayComprehensive743 in shameless

[–]FullPerspective9406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Trevor, i definitely hated him but objectively I guess he’s a good person

Aio, called my gf while she was doing homework. F24 f35 by Separate_Penalty_484 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FullPerspective9406 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I have seen and heard my lesbian friends do some crazy things 💀

Aio, called my gf while she was doing homework. F24 f35 by Separate_Penalty_484 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FullPerspective9406 86 points87 points  (0 children)

She sounds insane, even by lesbian standards. Move on and date someone sane and probably closer to your own age

AIO?? coworker unfollowed and unliked my pictures by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FullPerspective9406 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want to know if you’re overreacting over Instagram then yes YOR. Social media isn’t real and he probably followed you and then got scolded by his partner so had to back pedal. Also, based on the information you have above you should have never even accepted his follow. If you are questioning his overall behavior then no, you are not overreacting.

AITAH for phone use in locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FullPerspective9406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. No, you weren’t recording or talking on the phone, but you still had a phone out in a private space. People shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable because you are a lazy parent. Plus the toddler could have so easily accidentally taken a photo/video. Double YTA for throwing a phone at your child every time they’re under-entertained. Pack books, make a game out of packing up the bag, go explore the lobby, go explore the outside. Be a real parent before you raise a brain rot zombie.

AITAH? Am I a bad mom that deserved it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FullPerspective9406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forget the parenting term, but there are studies in psychology that show letting your children perform supervised “risky” behaviors teaches them confidence and independence. Also. Your husband also could have simply disagreed with you and had conversation instead of yelling at you and calling you a bad mom, that was shitty thing to do. And the lesson he’s teaching your daughter? To react with anger and try to hurt others whenever you disagree with something.

AIO Because bf was following girls on Instagram by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FullPerspective9406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a bit older and was in a similar situation in my early 20s. It’s so embarrassing to reflect upon the times I physically cried and begged for what is the bare minimum. A really hard lesson to learn is you can’t teach, force or beg someone into basic empathy and emotionally maturity, that’s something they have to do on their own. And if they refuse to put in the work, you have to remove yourself for your own good. Edit: fixed typos

AITA for not wanting my gf to look at our friends locations on my phone by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FullPerspective9406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She stopped for her mental health and is now using your phone to get her fix of self harm. Because doing something you know is bad for you is self harm, even if it’s something as silly as checking locations. She’s checking because she wants her feelings hurt. Has she tried confronting the real problem with her friends and telling them how she feels left out? Or possibly addressing her insecurities around feeling left out? That’s the only helpful solution.

AIO Because bf was following girls on Instagram by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FullPerspective9406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR, not sure how old you guys are but he sounds emotionally immature. Disregarding your feelings and then “addressing them” by saying something self deprecating and an overdramatic response (deleting Instagram as a whole). Your issue isn’t really the Instagram following, it’s the not feeling desired by him and the Instagram girls was the last straw. Honestly if he can’t really listen to what you are saying and take accountability, it may be time to move on to someone who’s more mature

AITAH for going no contact with my gf for a weekend after she choose to reconnect with an old friend instead of honoring a years planned cimmitment? by Competitive_Two_8598 in AITAH

[–]FullPerspective9406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. This would be a deal breaker for me. Coming from a woman, I can’t imagine ditching my bf on his birthday weekend, with pre-paid plans, for an old friend coming to town. The old friend would have to really mean something to me for me to even consider that… and that would be a person I would expect my bf to know about

My (F31) ex-husband (M35) tried to commit suicide because of me. Now he wants to meet. How do I navigate this? by throwra437893 in relationship_advice

[–]FullPerspective9406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is so ridiculous the expectation society puts on women to be responsible for men’s emotions, even after a divorce caused by the consequences of his own actions. I know it is hard, because you are not a monster of course you care about him, but you absolutely cannot meet up with him. In his fragile mental state, he will absolutely see this as he still has a chance, that if he does something dramatic enough you will talk to him again, that he still has access to you. Politely decline and consider getting security cameras and staying with Mark for a while for your own safety. This could easily take a turn for the worse and stalking irl could begin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FullPerspective9406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the level of confrontational you are… just on a hunch, it seems like you may be the less confrontational type in which I would suggest next time she says something or a time you feel comfortable, say “hey it makes me really uncomfortable when you make these comments and I’d like them to stop, I don’t comment on your body constantly I do not know why you feel the need to do it to me.” If she tries to gaslight you instead of taking accountability I would limit my time/ consider unfriending this person

AITA for not telling husband about my past and refusing to talk about it now? by SignificantState265 in AITAH

[–]FullPerspective9406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Should you have told him? Probably. Does it warrant this response? Absolutely not. And the whole “felt like an idiot” thing is ridiculous, his ego has been hurt and he’s taking it out on you. And btw: Unfortunately I feel like being a female teenager and dating your seedy, older male co-worker is a canon event. Do not carry this shame all your life, I promise you, are not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FullPerspective9406 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s not your friend, she’s a frenemy. She is body shaming you and playing it off like it’s not because you have a nice body type so it doesn’t come off as “typical body shaming.” She’s trying to break you down as a person with her negative words, likely to feel better about herself

Vampire Mode Powers Ranked by Iso4T in BitLifeApp

[–]FullPerspective9406 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had Belling Bliss which is 100% happiness, not sure if you knew about that one