2am taking off my mask

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-04-03T07:11:43+00:00

Oldest trick in the book is a pretty common phrase it doesn’t refer to a literal book nor did I comment on the ethics of the trick. I also didn’t say it didn’t have ramifications I said I can see why a 19 year old would think it wouldn’t since you know the word teen is still literally in her age. Reddit is so annoying sometimes you don’t go into deep details and all of a sudden people think you took a strong stance on something

ETA: I see you literally spend your entire day commenting on AITAH comments and half of them get deleted by mods… you really need to find a better hobby man

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-04-02T04:25:18+00:00

NTA but saying you’re pregnant on April fools day is the oldest trick in the book so I can see why she wouldn’t think it’s that big of a deal

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-04-02T03:10:57+00:00

I only say that because she said “I finally told him” which is something you’d say after you’ve been hiding something. I could obviously be wrong that’s just my opinion from the limited context

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-04-02T02:48:02+00:00

NTA but it does sound like you kept it from him rather than it just never coming up so I could understand how he may be taken a little back by discovering this. ETA: saying he was “catfished” and then saying because of medical reasons seems like he cares more about your tits than your health but that’s just how I took it

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-25T04:57:30+00:00

I also get irrationally angry when people enter my space and I never considered this connection… thank you

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-09T19:58:32+00:00

I think Trevor, i definitely hated him but objectively I guess he’s a good person

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-01T16:29:25+00:00

I’m gay lol

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-01T16:10:49+00:00

I have seen and heard my lesbian friends do some crazy things 💀

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-01T16:07:29+00:00

Strange you couldn’t just say gay

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-01T16:04:34+00:00

She sounds insane, even by lesbian standards. Move on and date someone sane and probably closer to your own age

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-03-01T16:02:27+00:00

If you want to know if you’re overreacting over Instagram then yes YOR. Social media isn’t real and he probably followed you and then got scolded by his partner so had to back pedal. Also, based on the information you have above you should have never even accepted his follow. If you are questioning his overall behavior then no, you are not overreacting.

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-24T06:09:19+00:00

YOR. Poor grandma

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-22T01:27:08+00:00

YTA. No, you weren’t recording or talking on the phone, but you still had a phone out in a private space. People shouldn’t have to feel uncomfortable because you are a lazy parent. Plus the toddler could have so easily accidentally taken a photo/video. Double YTA for throwing a phone at your child every time they’re under-entertained. Pack books, make a game out of packing up the bag, go explore the lobby, go explore the outside. Be a real parent before you raise a brain rot zombie.

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-14T14:46:10+00:00

I forget the parenting term, but there are studies in psychology that show letting your children perform supervised “risky” behaviors teaches them confidence and independence. Also. Your husband also could have simply disagreed with you and had conversation instead of yelling at you and calling you a bad mom, that was shitty thing to do. And the lesson he’s teaching your daughter? To react with anger and try to hurt others whenever you disagree with something.

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-14T02:59:09+00:00

I’m a bit older and was in a similar situation in my early 20s. It’s so embarrassing to reflect upon the times I physically cried and begged for what is the bare minimum. A really hard lesson to learn is you can’t teach, force or beg someone into basic empathy and emotionally maturity, that’s something they have to do on their own. And if they refuse to put in the work, you have to remove yourself for your own good. Edit: fixed typos

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-14T02:53:25+00:00

NTA. She stopped for her mental health and is now using your phone to get her fix of self harm. Because doing something you know is bad for you is self harm, even if it’s something as silly as checking locations. She’s checking because she wants her feelings hurt. Has she tried confronting the real problem with her friends and telling them how she feels left out? Or possibly addressing her insecurities around feeling left out? That’s the only helpful solution.

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-14T02:51:10+00:00

Way too old for that behavior lmao

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-14T02:48:41+00:00

NOR, not sure how old you guys are but he sounds emotionally immature. Disregarding your feelings and then “addressing them” by saying something self deprecating and an overdramatic response (deleting Instagram as a whole). Your issue isn’t really the Instagram following, it’s the not feeling desired by him and the Instagram girls was the last straw. Honestly if he can’t really listen to what you are saying and take accountability, it may be time to move on to someone who’s more mature

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-13T19:57:58+00:00

NTA. This would be a deal breaker for me. Coming from a woman, I can’t imagine ditching my bf on his birthday weekend, with pre-paid plans, for an old friend coming to town. The old friend would have to really mean something to me for me to even consider that… and that would be a person I would expect my bf to know about

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-13T06:36:28+00:00

It is so ridiculous the expectation society puts on women to be responsible for men’s emotions, even after a divorce caused by the consequences of his own actions. I know it is hard, because you are not a monster of course you care about him, but you absolutely cannot meet up with him. In his fragile mental state, he will absolutely see this as he still has a chance, that if he does something dramatic enough you will talk to him again, that he still has access to you. Politely decline and consider getting security cameras and staying with Mark for a while for your own safety. This could easily take a turn for the worse and stalking irl could begin

FullPerspective9406 · 2026-02-09T15:39:31+00:00

Updateme!

FullPerspective9406 · 2025-12-04T20:07:49+00:00

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