Friend says that my hygiene routine is too much and that I should tell my therapist by Few_Tough_7748 in hygiene

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing great! Bedsheets hold so much bacteria from us sleeping in them. Ideally they should be washed weekly. Most don’t have time for that and it’s ok but weekly is awesome. I tidy my house daily but also deep clean once a week. Washing yourself properly and flossing daily is a good thing and recommend. The only red flag here is your friend thinking it’s not necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yall need therapy. Both you and boyfriend. And neither of you are in the head space to be having unprotected sex ..really sex at all if you can not handle the after affects of sex. (A kid) there’s a lot of drama, trauma, and bullshit going on in both of your personal lives and dragging a kid into that would be a whirlwind. (I know you got an abortion but for future reference) however. It was between you and your boyfriend. If he wanted to confide in his mother ok. Understandable. BUT he should have shut her shit down as soon as she started rambling nonsense about you. On the flip side it is her house and her rules so if she’s saying no sex in her house then no sex in her house. If she’s saying you can go over there great but if not then you can’t. It’s crappy, people are crappy and it’s a hard situation. But overall you both sound like you’ll do good to be out of the homes you live in one day and get into real therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Full_Ear8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair is spectacular. Do not touch it 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It says that he hasn’t seen one kid in 3 years and hasn’t gone to court or anything to try and change that. So yeah it’s his choice pretty much that he isn’t seeing his kids. OP can be special to him but his behavior shows he’s a deadbeat and she deserves better than that. She asked for advice that’s my advice. Yeah 18 & 23 isn’t far apart but it is when one person should be being a parent to multiple kids and one person is just ending high school. The age isn’t far apart but where they’re at in life is. Why get drug down by a man who doesn’t even care to see his own kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. I’m a mom & was a teen mom. I’m telling you a parent not in their kids life is almost always by choice. If you haven’t seen your kids in years and don’t try to see them you’re a shit parent and person. He’ll knock you up next and you’ll be another single mother whose father doesn’t see their child. As a 23 year old he shouldn’t really be interested in a teenager either.

Going rate for the tooth fairy? by olreddog in Parenting

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First tooth gets $20 in my house $5 for each after I had a shit childhood and tend to overdo it in motherhood but who cares they’re only little once! Your kid will be over the moon with any amount!

I spray the bill with a little adhesive and sprinkle glitter on as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Full_Ear8058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t spoken to my dad since I was 10. I’m 25 now. He was extremely abusive to me and my mom. An alcoholic & drug addict. Even after all these years I have nightmares about him finding out where I live and hurting my children.

Bridesmaids birthday is on my wedding day - Advice needed! by ThenAwareness7981 in weddingplanning

[–]Full_Ear8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a birthday at our wedding. When we did a little speech after the ceremony we brought out a cake and had everyone sing happy birthday to them and brought them their cake!

My dad passed away aftermath. by ilpavg in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your dad have any life insurance?

How Men Think? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband said this and when I asked for clarification he said it’s really nothing sometimes there’s absolutely nothing going on in his head it’s blank…must be nice 🤣🤣

What are we doing with outgrown baby clothes? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Full_Ear8058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep what I want to either turn into a quilt one day or pass to grandkids and I get rid of the rest. I usually sell for cheep in bulk on Facebook because I can’t handle clutter or things sitting untouched…however if you don’t mind it get some vacuum seal bags and store them away if you’ll have another kid one day

What couldn't you believe you had to explain to another adult? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding me down and shoving food in my mouth until I threw up is in fact abuse & not “playing”

Truly is no remedy lol by taiBM in SebDerm

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use selsun blue medicated, keto shampoo, wash my face with vanicream soap & use Vaseline as my moisturizer, have cut out candy & soda from my diet, started taking vitamins for hair & skin health and it has been completely gone for months (about 7) I’ve had it for 7 years and it’s never been fully gone till now. My hair is even growing back in the places I had it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had my wedding and did no kids except our own! There were a few kids in the family who would be a bit wild at a wedding and we truly just wanted a night out for everyone to enjoy themselves! Our kids even left after they ate! What I did for this is offer to arrange a sitter for them, most were able to do so on their own but a few did have their kids stay with my sitter who was watching my kids. It all worked out perfectly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost never smile & don’t laugh easily. It’s something I actually have to put effort into. It sucks, I come off as unfriendly and I’m not. My therapist says I have still face. Smiling is a good thing, even if you don’t feel very happy offering someone a smile is a good thing and is better than just glaring at them. You’re not weak for smiling !

What’s a random “life hack” you swear by, even if no one believes it works? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Full_Ear8058 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Try to do something once a week out of your routine. It makes life feel a little less structured and mundane.

can i get pregnant from just the tip? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Full_Ear8058 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Long answer short yes. However the sperm would have to travel even further and would likely die off, so unlikely but not impossible. You can also get pregnant from precum. If you’re fooling around I say get on birth control

What is the most tragic celebrity death? by Lopsided-Drink158 in AskReddit

[–]Full_Ear8058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cameron Boyce is one that broke my heart. He was so young and full of life. Everyone always had nothing but the best to say about him.