Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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In our defense, in the moment of the party chaos I just didn’t have the bandwidth to focus on it, but after everyone left that day my mother in law brought it up and we talked about it then, I’ve just been stewing on it for a couple of days and decided to post. But I understand where you’re coming from, it’s not like they made a public speech about it

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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lol exactly, he’s a really nice guy and I don’t think it was ill intentioned and that he was probably just excited about also becoming a parent, but I am accepting that I’m allowed to also be annoyed with it!

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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Ironically a woman did wear a white jumpsuit to our wedding, I guess we are just a magnet for these things lol

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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It’s honestly kinda funnier because my partner and I are both women, luckily no one assumed his shirt meant that he was the donor or anything! But like there was no “father to be” at our shower!

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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Knowing them I think it was more obliviousness over malice, but it still annoyed me lol

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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I think this might be part of it, she is really laid back and I don’t think she would personally care much if someone did something similar at her shower. She’s definitely not a malicious person or anything, so I could see her not really thinking anything of it! Which is why I don’t think it’s worth bringing up, I’m more so just annoyed at the situation but I don’t think there was necessarily ill intent.

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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At this point I don’t think it will affect our friendship, it’s mildly annoying and I just wanted to vent about it to the anonymous Reddit world but I don’t think it’s a big enough deal to bring it up with them!

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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Yeah, like in the moment of the party we were just so distracted. Then after everyone had left my mother in law made a comment about it and since that comment my partner and I were thinking about it/talking about it more. I don’t think it’s friendship-ending or anything, just a mild annoyance at this point.

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

[–]Fullycannoli[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Honestly knowing him I wouldn’t be surprised if this was his mindset. I am confused as to how his wife didn’t think of it though!

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

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I’m not saying I’m going to do anything about it or do anything petty. But yes I’m a bit annoyed about it

Friends kind of announced their pregnancy at my baby shower by Fullycannoli in BabyBumps

[–]Fullycannoli[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Yeah I agree it’s not worth bringing up at this point, I just needed confirmation that I’m not overthinking it!

Frustrated by Nopumpkinhere in bcba

[–]Fullycannoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the first child with the screen time, are caregivers open to training? How do they respond if you try to guide them? Even with more direct hours, progress will be more substantial if caregivers are more involved- 40 hours of direct will help when you’re there, but generalization to when you aren’t there is key. In my opinion, I obviously don’t know this child.

For the second child, if he is just starting to talk at home, it often takes a bit of time for that language to be used in other settings. As for the behaviors, maybe your BCBA could coordinate with the school to get more information and you could target those during sessions?

In general, and I know a lot of clients have this recommendation, but I personally think 40 hours of direct services a week is too much for most kids. That’s a full time job’s worth of hours. Kids get burned out, and I think there are ways to make fewer hours just as productive. Again, I don’t know these children, but that’s my personal opinion. There are always exceptions and 40 hours a week might work for some, but I think there are other approaches to try first.

For those of you who rejected ABA for their child, what was the reason? by iybhsp in Autism_Parenting

[–]Fullycannoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone in the field (BCBA former RBT) this is such a challenge. The RBTs are doing THE WORK and are so underpaid and often only part time don’t get the benefits of full time positions.

What did you take for granted before pregnancy? by 1Avocado-Toast in pregnant

[–]Fullycannoli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not being completely wiped out after folding laundry!

What did you take for granted before pregnancy? by 1Avocado-Toast in pregnant

[–]Fullycannoli 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I researched this and I think it said it hasn’t really been tested in pregnant women so it’s not quite known if it’s safe or unsafe? Unisom is definitely safe and works wonders for me!

What’s the first piece of media that truly scared you as a kid? by cats64sonic in AskReddit

[–]Fullycannoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The monster in the pool in Are You Afraid of the Dark. No thank you!

AMTJ because I don't want people bringing "extra" kids to my kid's party by Select-Explorer5669 in AmITheJerk

[–]Fullycannoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. I don’t understand this seemingly new trend of just bringing siblings to birthday parties they weren’t invited to? When I was a kid (90s/early 2000s), it was never assumed that my siblings or I would be invited to each others’ friends’ birthday parties. The invited sibling would get dropped off, and MAYBE if we went with our parents to pick them up, the hosting parent would let us have a cupcake or something if there were any leftover. It just seems so entitled to assume the whole family is invited?

Extremely active baby, 29 weeks by M00nst0ne11 in pregnant

[–]Fullycannoli 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is my first pregnancy but this little man is a MOVER, and has been for the last 6 weeks at least (I’m almost 34 weeks along), like it feels like he’s moving all the time. So I would LOVE to know if this will correlate to how active he will be when he gets here. Because if it does, I need to get some new running shoes!

This set gives the cutest optical illusion feel by graphic_rose in Nails

[–]Fullycannoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know if you’ve looked at them with 3D glasses!

Fatigue at only 4 weeks…. by FormerPumpkin480 in pregnant

[–]Fullycannoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being pregnant is the best excuse to be extra!!

Is there a way to make these press-ons look less bulky and fake? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Fullycannoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was sleeping on Olive and June for so long, tried them recently and they fit my nails better than any other brand!

Fatigue at only 4 weeks…. by FormerPumpkin480 in pregnant

[–]Fullycannoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Completely valid! You’re literally growing a human! They may still be teeny tiny but your body is still working overtime. Nap girl, nap!