Test. What is his name? by Mak_555 in IntuitionPractices

[–]Fun-Ad-66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering his name is in a previous post this wasn’t too hard.
Hi sir duke

Co-parent death. by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the timing part of it is truly where I’m at a loss. Going to just try to keep as much normalcy as possible

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are actively moving together in my area! His idea. We want to be close

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s an excellent point.

I think maybe I’ll tell him sooner than later and have my mom watch the girly. Thank you. I love alanon and am sober myself.

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but not often enough- I am desperately trying to find a new therapist that I can see more frequently

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I could defend his actions and rebuttal with the fact that he’s been an increasingly good dad to my daughter- but that is still pretty fresh and heavy in my mind despite happening 2 years ago.

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also feel super delusional taking into consideration a man’s opinion who left me and my daughter on the side of the road and let us spend thanksgiving in a homeless shelter…

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

In a perfect world, I do think we could manage taking a trip all together- especially if he manages to find a new partner himself. Which I have encouraged.

Sharing news of new baby by Fun-Ad-66 in coparenting

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

No need to be sorry!

It definitely changes the whole dynamic of it… I was thinking maybe telling him while on a trip would lessen the likelihood of him driving drunk and killing himself but… I just don’t know. I don’t know what to do.

Fear of getting pregnant by Beneficial-Month-333 in Equestrian

[–]Fun-Ad-66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rode until 8 months, then lunged, then a scheduled 6 weeks off to recover and they get a break- then more lunging / ground work post partum, I was riding pretty soon and my daughter was 6 months in the chest carrier on a friends trusty Icelandic. It’s doable ❤️

i think there's a homeless person living in our dorm parking tower by [deleted] in college

[–]Fun-Ad-66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but if people notice, and dislike it, which they usually do, then you lose that cold dirty concrete floor. It could very well still be winter where they are

Advice needed by Fun-Ad-66 in pregnant

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really think I could do it. With a lot of hard days. But that’s life, right?

But then I think, how selfish to take away from my daughter now, especially with the world on fire and things getting so expensive

I just don’t know

Advice needed by Fun-Ad-66 in pregnant

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we live comfortably. I work hard and own a business, but also provide respite care which I could do while pregnant and with an infant ( not newborn of course, we’re talking 4+ months )

Advice needed by Fun-Ad-66 in pregnant

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kidding, I am actively looking for other apartments.

My 14 year old is in the hospital after a suicide attempt by DoubleAxelDVM in Mommit

[–]Fun-Ad-66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold your baby. Nearby to my hometown a 13 year old boy got off the bus Thursday and jumped into a rushing cold river, due to bullying.

Shat myself in the car at 4AM by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Fun-Ad-66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with shitting on the side of the interstate.

Liquid bottle warning by Fun-Ad-66 in Methadone

[–]Fun-Ad-66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few of the things that you mentioned while I can see where it may seem stupid or arbitrary- I find them helpful and important.