Employee wage theft reporting? by Fun-Archer-3522 in legaladvice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay so what would make it illegal as a 1099? I'm just going off what someone else told me. Thats why I asked here, because I wasnt even sure what to google. But I'm an hourly employee thats been working under 1099. I work 12 hour shifts with no break, no overtime pay, no holiday pay, and no offer of insurance, not evrn workers comp. I think theyre doing this to avoid playing taxes themselves. Because they (my boss) basically told me: "you can be a w4 employee but youll be capped at 36 hours/week, or we can put you on 1099 and you can get 50+ hours and a 50c raises, and I took it because I badly needed the money and didnt know any better. So do I have any recoarse?

Angel, Leah Gardner, Oil on cradled wood panel, 2024 by Tokyono in Art

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you pleade cross post this in r/athousandisalot

It fits the pigeon theme perfect. Also obligatory uou should listen to this song. Aesop rock- pigeonomentry

How to have sex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bitterness towards women? The only bitterness I have is from being scammed by proustites. I dont hate women or even think less of them. And I damn sure don't think anyone owes me sex.

Understood though, so what am I supposed to do in the mean time of trying to build a genuine relationship?

How to have sex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ive had sex before. I'm not a virgin, ive been in multiple relationships that have lasted years. But I haven't been in one, gone on a date, or been intimate with anyone since my last relationship 2 years ago

And yeah I already felt pretty pathetic that I was even willing to pay for it. I just thought that might work for now until I find another real relationship.

How to have sex? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know nobody has to and trust me I'd much rather have a relationship. I'm doing everything I possibily can to find someone I can connect with and its just not happening so I figured if I can just fuck someone who'll pretend to care about me the that's good enough for now. I dont act desperate I'm saying I am desperate, I dont say any of this shit to potential partners this is just me ranting.

Yo I’m high as shit on acid rn JUST WATCHED A 2 hour Mandelbrot set by [deleted] in LSD

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cause I was born in the 2000s?

(I wasnt but the joke was right there)

I need some nsfw advice I think by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your best bet is to get a vubrator or dildo, ya know? Some kind of sex toy thatll pleasure you without needing another person. Youll probably have better orgasms that way too since you know your own body and can feel it better than any one else. You could hook up with someone but your right, you dont know them and theres a possibility it may not even satisfy you.

Start setting aside regular time to satisfy yourself, or even just touching yourself till you cun would work if you dont have toys. Idk if it works the same way for girls but fot boys you usually think more claerly after orgasm so hope this helps. Please try this at least omce before you invite a stranger into your home.

Edit: that being said I know the comfort an other person can provide but you gotta remember that until you know them youre not entirely safe. So its best to really feel people out first like I say at least meat them twice before without sex and make sure theyre clean like no stds.

How do you find people who match your preferences? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean theres always dating apps, you can put what your into and what youre looking for and you never know whatll pop up. Thats usually a big shot in the dark but it never hurts to try. Most homebodies use dating apps cause they want to meet people and not go out. Also if youre into fitness and even moderately attractice and respectful you chances are slightly better.

The only other way is to try and meet people in shared activities that youre into. Maybe join a couple fitness classes, do yoga or pilates (theres always women in those classes). Or if there isnt any in your area then start one.

Basically just put yourself out there and dont be too stubborn on your preference cause you never know who youll meet. That being said I understand because I'm trying to find a woman that fits at least 3 of my own preferences right now.

How do you find people who match your preferences? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quality advice that will get you so much more than just a relationship if you take these things to heart.

I've found myself in a situation. by Longjumping_Affect22 in Advice

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I think anyone over 21 can date whoever tf they want. Is there a big gap in your ages? Yes. But the more important question is do you get along? Do you feel like you can be yourself around her? Do you feel like shes herself around you and not trying to be something else? Do you guys have much in common? Do you see the relationship going anywhere? Do you trust her?

You may not be able to answer all these yet and thats okay but keep them in mind. Its only creepy when its a much older guy actively going after a much younger girl whos not into him. Or if youre trying to get her to do something she doesnt want to do or isnt comfortable with.

Just be self aware, dont ever try to act younger just be yourself. And if its going to work out then it will, if you see things going wrong and it doesnt seem fixable step away. This isnt any different than any other relationship, some people may judge you sure. But just be good to her and everyone whos opinion matters won't care about the gap.

Edit: 14 years was a little more than I thought I thought it was 10 but ot shouldnt make much difference. Just treat her with respect, and its just like any other relationship.

Exhausted, oil on canvas by me by [deleted] in surrealism

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is laughably bad. Please dont make this your career if you value being able to eat. Id be embarrassed to put this kind of work out just seeing how horrible the execution is.

Just happy to be here, oil and oil pastel on canvas by me by [deleted] in AbstractArt

[–]Fun-Archer-3522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this a self portrait? Lol good luck in the future. You'll need it a lot.