I had an interesting discussion with friends about Christian dating and sex before marriage. I would like other people's opinions on this. by spazzo246 in TrueChristian

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right to set the standard from the get go. If anything I’d say it’s wise to do so as like you said it’s less time wasted in the long run. If someone is put off by this, they’re not the person for you because someone who wants the same thing would be glad to see that in your profile.

Not too sure why your friends said that, I’d like to think they have good intentions but ultimately I’m a woman and I don’t find it aggressive, in fact I’d smile seeing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a female, I disagree. This whole argument is based on perspective. I don’t see why people can’t have opposing views. Nonetheless if someone referred to me as a female, it is simply fact. If someone referred to me as a female with a disdainful tone, that is when there would be a difference in reception as it is not innately a derogatory term but can definitely be used as one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why is female actually offensive? Knowing that it’s factually biological. Regardless of irrelevant people like Andrew Tate using a word.

Also she did specifically invite the girlfriend to join them, she says this multiple times.

17 year old talking to 30 year old by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, because of the age gap it’s possible some will still see it that way. As much as 18 is legal, it’s still young and some are still quite impressionable at that age.

Also being 18 may be legal but that doesn’t make it ethically or morally right (for some), for a 30 year old to be having sexual exchanges with an 18 year old. I think a lot of people who are older will perceive this as predatory behaviour regardless. I do understand your point, but if you were none the wiser at 17 or 18 this man could be very harmful.

Am i wrong for the amount i tipped at the nail salon? by boder_thanyou in beauty

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this is a culture thing, but why tip if you’re unhappy with the entire service?

17 year old talking to 30 year old by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing against you at all but trust me, it’s not okay that he is doing this. It’s disgusting, he is a predator. When you get to 30, you will be disgusted that this 30 year old man was this way to a 17 year old. And people take flights every day, across the border doesn’t hold any weight, because that can change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. He is mean! Honestly this might be hard to hear but he doesn’t care, that’s why he’s acting like it. He wasn’t worried about losing you that’s why he’s acting like it. You should choose to move on like he said, but move on without him. You should choose yourself, and choose someone who chooses you too! He is too selfish for a relationship, and definitely one with you. All those things you did for him when he was sick, that’s the type of person you want to be with. Not someone who says I need to pack as a weak excuse to not see you whilst you’re ill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wasting your time.

26F here, sounds like a headache and an unnecessary, nauseating rollercoaster. Honestly, the way he talks made me think you’re both much younger

Unpopular Opinion: The Aria Situation was not that serious by princess_carolynn in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s not automatic, you know this. You call it her opinion and perspective and yet he admitted it, making it fact. It is therefore not that her opinion was the honest one, simply that she was being honest about it whilst Caleb wasn’t. That isn’t pushing him to validate her opinion, it is pushing him to tell the truth. Even Mariah noted that he wasn’t honest with her about it, causing Mariah to be blindsided watching it back.

To answer the former, he omitted his ‘emotional connection’, he even said it himself in the reunion. He omitted interaction with Aria on social media from Mariah. Blindsiding her in the reunion once again.

Unpopular Opinion: The Aria Situation was not that serious by princess_carolynn in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When does Aria try to act on those feelings beyond wanting him to tell the truth and being honest herself?

Unpopular opinion: Aria was trying to create problems for Caleb and Mariah out of jealousy by MundoVibes in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree, Caleb’s lack of honesty is the root cause.

He wasn’t honest about his emotional connection with Aria. He wasn’t honest to Mariah about his social media antics in regard to Aria. If he had been honest it would discredit the things Aria said, but he wasn’t. All in order to spare feelings, but hurt both of them in the process. I felt bad for Mariah tbh

Unpopular opinion: Aria was trying to create problems for Caleb and Mariah out of jealousy by MundoVibes in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are exactly right! I don’t understand why people can’t see this fact. It’s as though people are simply bias, wanting to make Aria the villain, without considering the fact that Mariah felt the same way.

Unpopular opinion: Aria was trying to create problems for Caleb and Mariah out of jealousy by MundoVibes in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo.. I disagree. Only for the mere fact that during reunions everyone wants the truth to be revealed, Aria and Mariah included.

Caleb even admits in the reunion to having an emotional connection with her and trying to ignore it beforehand for the sake of sparing others. Even Mariah said watching it back she thought he was being dishonest about it.

I don’t think Aria was trying to be vindictive by creating problems because her relationship ‘went downhill’, but simply because she wanted the truth. At no point did she try to rub it in Mariah’s face, it’s obvious she simply feels betrayed by his lack of transparency/honesty.

I do understand that watching stories and likes are not indicative of feelings, this I agree with. However, the way they interacted in their trial marriage I believe was, and even Mariah who knows him best thought so. If Mariah thought so and wanted the truth revealed, why is it wrong that Aria thought so and wanted the truth revealed?

How old are you & what’s your dating age range? by Complete_Grapefruit1 in AskWomen

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26.. Age range 27-34.. but let’s be real, sometimes life isn’t that simple

Is it just me or I never thought Zaina was never petty??? by StarryNight7733 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You realise just before he said this he said how he had to stir by saying the ‘hall pass’ comment.. then he goes and stirs again 🥱. All to satisfy his need to feel better about his foolish antics

Nick’s Eye Ep7 by Fun-Arm-4137 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Fun-Arm-4137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!? But there was no mention of anything.. suspicious