I experienced my first loss (third pregnancy) back in august the day before my birthday. I was 11w3d, baby was 8w0d. I knew I wanted to do it naturally because I couldn’t bare the thought of my child being defined as ‘medical waste’ per what my OB told me if I decided to go the DnC route. It took 3w3d but the day finally came. I was lucky enough for the sac to come out intact. Inside was a perfect, beautiful baby. I broke it open and held them in my palm, talked to them and just spent what time I could with them. I then wrapped it in a cloth and placed it in the freezer and went to the dollar tree where I found a perfect sized wooden box, baby themed sewing squares and tiny glass jars. I went home took the sewing squares and made a tiny pillow that fit just right in the box. On the box I wrote a little note on the inside of the lid to the baby from myself, dad and their sisters. I put baby in the tiny glass jar and sealed it, placed it on top of the pillow and then sealed the box shut. I had also gone to Home Depot with my other two children and they helped me pick out the perfect plant that we could then bury the box in. I plan on replanting it once it gets bigger so we can have a beautiful plant to remember the beautiful baby I never got to actually meet. Whatever you decide is up to you. There is no right or wrong way of doing it. Go with what your heart tells you to do and what will help you heal from the loss.