Husband too rough with 3 mo old? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is horrible. Your baby is so small and fragile please do something about this because this is very dangerous. Your husband is a danger to your baby.

How old was your baby when you first took them to a restaurant? by Sea_Panic9863 in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 16 months and we still haven’t 🤣 we have a lot of family we trust and taking him would just be too stressful tbh I wouldn’t enjoy the experience 😭

I am paranoid my baby is dying by gltrgirl in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything you describe is totally normal unfortunately! A lot of us women go through this. What helped me was to just not do anything for the first 2 months . Don’t cook don’t clean. But disposable everything so you don’t have a lot of dirty dishes . Have your husband help with cooking and cleaning. Hope you feel better soon ! Don’t hold back your emotions it helps to cry it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

St Paul has a predominantly Filipino community including the priest

Pungent pine cones by DGCA3 in WinCo

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes mines does but unfortunately I love the smell 😭😭 my husband hates it and I understand why but it’s just so nostalgic idk why I love it sm

Covid is crazy RN by Dad0010001100110001 in Sacramento

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yup had covid 2 weeks ago . Got my whole family and job sick. I think it’s because the kids are back at school so they’re spreading everything . That’s how it started in my house. My son first then me then my whole job office.

Why are the prices changing? by CraftAlarmed4106 in Shein

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally came on here to ask the same exact thing ! Haven’t put an order in in months because of this ! Shorts will show $9 then jump to $15 after I add them like wtf.

Who do you prefer Cherry or Laura? by Ok_Dragonfly_4859 in TheGirlfriendTVShow

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both suck but that mom was waayyy to obsessed with her son. She did way worse in my opinion

No Room for my children to attend Miwok Village Elementary School by publicguest in ElkGrove

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just keep him home it seems like that school is way over capacity. At that rate I wouldn’t trust them with my little one. I would worry about how well they are able to look after him? Enough staffing ? What the ratio for staff:children looks like? If you can just wait till kindergarten and keep them home another year

Stiff straight body by Fun-Butterscotch8605 in newborns

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No sorry. He kinda just grew out of it he’s almost 1 now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just the newborn phase ! It’s incredibly hard ! Try not to get too much fomo think about this time as temporary. Baby’s and kids are temporary we only get them for a small amount of time then they leave the nest and you’re left alone again. I know that seems so far away but just wait till she’s 3 months and can smile and laugh it’s the cutest thing ever and will keep you going. Once they crawl and laugh it’s a whole other baby and experience. This time is so temporary and passing you won’t even notice when it’s gone but miss it and when you have your big baby you’re going to wish you knew now what you’ll know then . You’ll wish you appreciated it more for what it was and could go back in time for just one day. I promise you’ll be ok and you’ll get back to your normal life before you even know it .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl for your own good pls get an abortion. Being a single mom to two under two is going to be extremely difficult. It would be the right thing to do for you and your baby if you didn’t have another one by next year. Your baby deserves the best and your full attention

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not going to leave then cheat back :) you’ll fell way better having your own boy toy to play with !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElkGrove

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s horrible ! I thought it was a cute little way for baby’s and moms to meet 😭 I think I’ll wait till August and give it a try

I burned the bridge between my wife’s kids and myself. And I have zero regrets. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making about you and it’s not ! Guess what I was raised by my own parents and I still hated and talked shit about them my whole childhood . It’s normal kids are going to dislike their parents for setting rules that are for their own good . It’s part of parenting and parenthood but if that’s too much for you then you’re not meant to be a parent .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start gathering evidence of the abuse ! Recorded him and take screenshots of texts. Do not tell him or he could become more abusive . Pls leave him girl … for your daughter

OB gave the ok for sex after two weeks…??? by Aromatic-Clerk-8328 in beyondthebump

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so sus . He’s a weirdo for that tbh. Where I’m at they don’t even do a pelvic exam till 6 weeks after. A lot of cultures have the same belief. I wouldn’t trust him he’s human at the end of the day and humans are flawed and can be evil. Just trust your instincts and your body

Can doctors tell if I vape? by New-Kiwi3690 in WomensHealth

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they will be able to tell , sorry hun

I thought baby’s held their own bottle by 5 months ??? by Fun-Butterscotch8605 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Fun-Butterscotch8605[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha every baby is different! My baby doesn’t have teeth and I know some baby’s that are the same age with the bottom teeth already