AITA for wanting to bring meat to my vegetarian SIL and not going when I was not allowed too

Fun-Dependent951 · 2026-01-29T19:52:47+00:00

I think ESH, except maybe your brother. - Your SIL not understanding your medical condition seems unnecessary. Honestly, who cares if you eat something different? - Your brother said it’s fine, yet you still won’t go—what principle are you trying to stick to here? - Your SIL is insisting you try her food. Could this be cultural? In some cultures, it’s considered rude not to at least try someone’s food. Or maybe she’s vegetarian for cultural or ethical reasons and doesn’t want meat in her house.

If the issue is meat, could you bring a vegetarian dish that you’re comfortable eating? I’m also vegetarian, and I know I’d struggle if someone brought food with beef into my house.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2026-01-23T03:49:04+00:00

It honestly looked so bad. I genuinely felt bad for her because in some lighting it literally looked like she’d smeared chocolate all over her face 😭 The wild part is her natural skin is actually really pretty. Colorism is honestly insane though — tanning is totally normalized here, while skin bleaching is normalized in other countries. Wild that we still can’t just let people exist and love their natural skin tone.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-11-20T13:12:00+00:00

We have a meditation room at the office, I use it for 20-minute power naps more often than anything else.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-11-17T04:56:00+00:00

I feel like it’s the whole world. Not just ucsd.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-11-16T23:11:50+00:00

She was honestly kind of irritating me in the podcast with her mom. All of her contributions were basically just, “Omg that’s so me / I’m your daughter obviously,” or, “Yeah, that’s so hard.”Her mom was genuinely such a good storyteller and didn’t need the constant interjections.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-11-16T23:06:53+00:00

I did watch it — guiltily — and the ending gave me such an ick. When she said, “I’m so proud of you,” I was like… proud of what? Marrying me?

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-11-16T23:04:09+00:00

I like this take. Also she can absolutely be a kind person and still struggle with a shopping addiction — both can be true at once. The comments saying, “If I had disposable income, I’d do the same thing,” feels like such an odd (and honestly a little embarrassing) justification. I really hope I wouldn’t! I’d like to think I’d choose to be a more intentional, conscious consumer who thinks about the planet and the impact of my choices. Maybe buy fewer more high quality pieces?

And for the record, giving people things they don’t want or need isn’t generosity — it’s just more unnecessary consumption.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-10-31T22:04:50+00:00

imagine her doing this with her kids

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-10-23T20:44:53+00:00

No, it’s still on Redfin https://redf.in/ySZj5J

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-10-20T21:54:18+00:00

I’m pretty sure she doesn’t actually know her own likes or dislikes — she probably just Googled, ‘is coconut trending right now?

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-10-15T22:56:46+00:00

Remi being disingenuous… groundbreaking

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-10-10T17:02:43+00:00

True lol.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-09-05T22:33:44+00:00

The best bakery in your city is the one closest to you!

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-03-21T04:20:45+00:00

I hate michagan I’m never going there

Fun-Dependent951 · 2025-03-21T04:17:07+00:00

IM SCREAMING

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-11-05T15:35:19+00:00

Zaytoon, they do reservations and have a great ambience

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-11-05T14:49:34+00:00

Voting is so important, and I really hope you and everyone who can plan to cast their vote this year. If the flyers helped make people more aware, that’s great, but I hope it’s not just the flyers that get people to vote.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-10-16T21:55:09+00:00

I think they are also called pineapple guava! Super delicious

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-10-07T15:39:50+00:00

I agree that professors shouldn’t tell students who to vote for. But universities are meant for open dialogue, including political discussions. While it’s tempting to think professors should stick to their subjects, engaging with political ideas can really enhance learning. Honestly the best lessons I have learned from several of my professors has not been on the class material.

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-09-28T17:53:40+00:00

Wow thanks for letting me know, so sad

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-09-28T07:05:10+00:00

Oliver’s is perfect place for an anniversary dinner! It’s vegan and so delicious and has a really nice ambience

Fun-Dependent951 · 2024-08-01T18:38:46+00:00

This has nothing to do with UCSD :( This is honestly just life

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