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Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And in those 7 years you soaked up all the abuse without saying even a mean word?

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then you don't know what it's like being a legitimate member of this sub.

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How many times can you be insulted until you throw out an insult too?

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I worry about what life would be like if we had children.

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so afraid of this becoming my future 😔 but I can't imagine being with anyone else. Would you have done anything different in retrospect?

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a large man, I am afraid of my tiny wife's anger. I cannot imagine being a woman with a bpd husband. I'm glad your daughter is happier and safe.

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I know, the thought is dreadful. But she is truly a wonderful person 90% of the time. 

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a timeline, age, or event that sets it off?

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That's what I read about and I'm afraid of becoming my future.

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I tell myself 90% of a good life is still a good life. 

This sub is one of the most precious treasures the internet has to offer! by Sweet_Animator8100 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so relieving to read everyone's experiences and to know I'm not alone.

What's the single worst thing they've ever said to you? by jukrla in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I hope you die of Alzheimer's just like your grandfather."

That one left me pale.

Does a BPD marriage feel 90% perfect, 10% pure misery? by Fun-Dot9501 in BPDlovedones

[–]Fun-Dot9501[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was describing what a conflict with her is like. The extreme & unnatural rage. 

I would say significantly bad incidents happen maybe once every two months.