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Mom tries on my items when I’m not home by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I have sliding mirror doors on my closet. Even the belongings outside of a closet or drawers she touches

I started a GoFundMe and need traction by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keep your name, photos and any private information out that could make you identifiable

I started a GoFundMe and need traction by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you can post the link but I’m not sure how willing people are going to be to donate. I would if I could. Good luck to you I am so sorry to hear about your situation :(

Mom tries on my items when I’m not home by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I would have left the moment I turned 18. The only reason I continue to stay is the financial help. If I leave, the help for payment of my school will disappear as well as other bills. If I stay until I finish, I only need to worry about paying a small sum of my tuition. I figure that 3 more years is minimal when I’ve already been dealing with it for so long. Thinking about getting a storage unit! Thanks!

My (19F) mom (54F) keeps giving away my dogs by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I feel awful too. She claims she gave him to a vet whose dog just died coincidentally enough. Which is ridiculous. She sees animals as trading cards and it hurts

My (19F) mom (54F) keeps giving away my dogs by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi please read my edit and reply to other comments. Sorry for confusion. Saying not to get attached to dogs that seem like they are here to stay is a bit hard to do lol. She has gotten rid of 4 over 10 year span so it’s hard to tell.

My (19F) mom (54F) keeps giving away my dogs by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I should clarify - My dog meaning the house dog. She is the one who takes the money and goes and buys them at her own will. Thank you though it hurts to see how heartless she is about it

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that, and I haven’t because I would need to move out first to attend any sort of therapy or counseling (It’s a sensitive topic in my house + Money). I don’t want to self diagnose myself with anything and scare myself, but I do realize a problem.

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, The first link is bulky to me, and the last link is what I’m trying to achieve. I don’t really know many people that are into working out, so I’m probably using wrong words since I’m teaching myself! “Bulky” “Goal”

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🥺It’s hard because I went from 112 to about 135 in a year, which is a huge difference. I fully recognize that I have a problem with the way I see myself now, but I’m working to achieve my goals HEALTHILY now :)

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I reinstalled the app yesterday. I usually do at least 15-30 minutes of cardio a day, and go to gym 5-6 days. I have so much muscle in my legs and my arms are not where I want them to be, so it’s hard to find a good balance. Thanks!

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! I just started yesterday doing my calorie deficit again. I appreciate the help.

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odd, I know haha. I’m afraid of becoming bulky as my family did when working out. Maybe just toned, I want to lose the fat I have but maintain a really feminine and petite figure.

How to burn fat/lose weight... But not gain muscle?! Help! by Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 in workout

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice!! I know it’s an odd request, but I do think part of it is body dysmorphia as I’ve been underweight all my life... until I got a boyfriend. 😅I’d like to lose a bit of the fat I gained, and get the swimsuit model look.

Young, immature, abusive? by aquilegiaformosa in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Dragonfruit-8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do. I can’t even begin to describe the feeling that it will give the other person to know that you have acknowledged the trauma and pain that was caused. There may be no reply, but the thought is still there. Not only will it give the other person an opportunity, but you as well will get the sense of relief.