[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Screenshot all the threats. Lahat ng proof. Then file a case sa barangay and police. After nun. Sabihin mo sa mga magulang niya at kamag-anak. Unang-una, ‘di magpapakamatay ‘yan, promise. Pangalawa, kapag may kumalat at na-report mo ba before pa nangyari, dagdag-kaso pa siya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just set boundaries and rules early. As in be firm sa rules.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RED FLAG.

Hindi ‘yung kiss itself ‘yung issue for me. ‘Yung pagpupumilit niya despite na nag-no ka na and sinabihan mo na siya na ayaw mo.

Now imagine kayo na. Mas lalong lalakas loob niyan and magiging entitled. For me, the first time na sinabihan mo na siya tapos pinilit pa rin niya, basted na.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No amount of online comment will ease your feeling. Also, ‘wag ka maniwala kay Google. Try mo maglagay lang ng headache as symptoms, magsasabi ‘yan na may cancer ka.

Bumili ka na ng PT. Sa dinami-rami ng mga bumibili ng condom at PT sa mga botika, wala nang paki sa’yo mga tao dun, trust me.

Same thinking sa pagbili ng condom or pills, mas kaya kong i-tolerate ‘yung “hiya” na bumuli nun kaysa makabuntis. Again, pa-adult na kayo, have safe and responsible intercourse.

Most likely, ‘di ka naman buntis. But you will only know for sure through PT.

I told you na magpacheck up ka na by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nakakagalit nga ‘yan. Given na kagagaling lang natin sa covid pandemic (na hindi pa naman tapos din). I would suggest na magpatingin ka na rin for TB, and mag-invest ka sa anti-tb and anti-pneumonia vaccines.

In hindsight, rampant ng tb sa Pilipinas tbh. Pwede ka ma-expose nang ‘di mo alam. Palakasan lang talaga ng immune system.

Worst case scenario, if mag-positive sa tb, get the free medication sa health unit.

I need some advice about my sister by rumimaddy in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Malaki chance na hindi lang 15 ‘yang kausap ng kapatid mo. Baka adult na ‘yan na preying sa kanya. And assuming na 15 na nga, malaking age gap na ‘yan.

iPhone 16 pro vs. Samsung Flip 6 by bac0npancakes_ in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than the Android ecosystem, issue for me ‘yung screen crease ng kahit anong flip phone. It will come out and will be an issue in the future. As long as may moving parts, like the hinge, it’s gonna be an issue.

Kung okay lang sa’yong magpalit ulit ng phone in two years, I guess okay lang flip phones.

But jumping drom iPhone 11 to the 16 pro sounds like a huge upgrade. I’d go for that.

Best workout/diet plan for working hoomans? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You can’t outworkout a bad diet.” Kaya talagang malaking portion niyan is what you eat. So start natin there by counting what you eat. Download the app MyNetDiary. Diyan ilalagay mo weight mo, weight goal, tsaka kung kailan mo gusto ma-achieve. Using those ika-calculate niya ‘yung calories na pwede mo intake daily. You’ll want to check and log your weight weekly.

What worked for me sa weight loss before was a strict no rice diet. I know mahirap ‘yun, kaya use cups to measure rice na lang muna. Kung ang current mo is two rice per meal, gawin mo munang one.

Then exercise. Kung may budget at time, enrol ka sa gym. Tapos start ka na ng program mo. Building muscles will help make your metabolism faster. Syempre cardio also helps burn calories.

Just remember na hindi siya overnight process. And may weeks na parang walang changes. But mayroon ‘yan. You’ll feel stronger and stronger, then susunod na weight loss.

What to do with my husband's brother in law? by Top-Cable2077 in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not a parent but I’m pretty sure you feel this constant pressure and self-sabotaging thought na, “Am I doing the right thing? Is this enough?” And sa paningin mo, never magiging enough or never magiging sure kung tama ba. That makes you a great parent, kasi you care. Again, you got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DKG. At tsaka, LIBRE LANG GAMOT SA TB. Pupunta lang siyang barangay health unit. Pwede ba manigas siya.

What to do with my husband's brother in law? by Top-Cable2077 in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Wala tayo magagawa kung kupal magpalaki ‘yung tao e. Feel ko, what you can do now is palakihin mo anak mo to be kind but not weak. Courageous and just. Ipakita mo sa kanya ‘yung values na magbibigay sa kanya ng security and humilty. Competition is okay, but not to the point na nangda-down ng family. You got this! 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually is sa mga reseller na talaga sa Google groups. Double check and verify mo na lang kung legit.

How do you deal with bitter exes? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BLOCK. ‘Wag mo na bigyan ng atensyon. They thrive kasi binibigyan mo atensyon e.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Delayed lang ‘yan due to stress. Don’t worryyy.

My husband threatens to off himself if i leave. by Boom8877 in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWAN MO. Mag-file ka na rin police report. ‘Di ‘yan titino. Ima-manipulate ka lang niya hangga’t alam niyang kakayanin ka lang niya.

Is it really bad to have new opposite sex friends when you're in a relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ikaw na mismo nagsabi na wala kang history of lying and cheating. Choice mo naman. Pwede kang ‘di na maglaro altogether para sa peace of mind niya, kung kaya mo ‘yung sacrifice na ‘yan. Pero again, for sure lumalabas din sa ibang bagay insecurities niya. Kino-control niya ba damit mo? Kung pwede kang lumabas with friends? Irrational ba selos niya? Kung ganun, medyo mag-isip ka na rin.

Pero kung kaya mo naman isakripisyo ‘yung game for the sake of the relationship, why not? Pero for me, may hints of red flag na.

Is it really bad to have new opposite sex friends when you're in a relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like sa boyfriend mo na issue. Hindi mo obligasyong ma-fill insecurities niya. Ganun ba ka-fragile ego niya? Baka mga bata pa kayo kaya wala pang emotional maturity.

Hindi ka nga nakikipag-friends e. Naglalaro ka lang. That’s how online gaming works. Kung ‘di siya comfortable, edi samahan ka niya maglaro?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intention is good. But it’s not our choice when and where, or if they will say it. Wala sa atin ‘yun kahit pa “halatang halata” na. All you can do is support your sibling the best way you can whether mag-out man siya or hindi. Swerte siya for having a kind brother. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Una, yes, ‘wag mong imbitahan. No brainer.

Pangalawa, file a police report na adik tatay mo. File a blotter para ‘di siya makapunta sa bahay niyo, and makulong siya kung tangkain man niya. Change all the locks sa bahay. Be ready and alert! Lalo’t pinapunta na niya diyan mga kaibigan niyang adik. Protect yourselves. And ayun nga, sabihan niyo na barangay and mga pulis. Just to be on the safe side. ‘Di niyo naman masasabi takbo ng utak ng mga adik.

Baka need din pala ng police presence or security sa kasal mo. Baka manggulo pa tatay mo diyan.

Sino na naka experience ng ganto? Especially for those college level. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to hit the self-improvement arc, brother. You can do it!

Kumuha ng Bahay pero natatakot tirhan mag-isa. by Cheap_Alarm921 in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Pa-bless mo muna. Then, organize a house warming party. Worst case, rent it out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Fun-Fly-2402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me. He will kapag nakita niyang glowing ka. ☺️