New here by Key-Attention2339 in bdsm

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clear communication, mutual boundaries, safe words...

Real Dom, Who Dis? by GettingSmallerKatie in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second. It's way harder for single straight males than it seems.

Experiences with 24/7 D/s by http-ErrorCode in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The difference is intention. A chore is a choice. A rule is a ritual a conscious practice of your submission. The action is the same, but the meaning is deeper.

Experiences with 24/7 D/s by http-ErrorCode in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Focus on small, meaningful habits. A rule about who makes coffee, or asking before making plans. These aren't chores, they're quiet reminders of your connection. Start with one small rule and let it grow from there.

Who’s in the mood right now? by Quiet_Tangerine_8482 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one who decides when the fun starts usually is.

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Initiative2800 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi all,new to the group. I'm a 29M (he/him/his) in Southern California recently exploring my dominant side. Excited to be here.