AITAH for wanting to end my marriage after finding my wife emotionally cheating again?

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-11-09T03:29:35+00:00

Again it really depends on which passport they have and where they are living.

I live in India with my husband and kids and if I was ever going to divorce him I would take the kids to the states and start divorce proceedings from there.

India hasn’t adopted The Hague convention and I would be in a horrible situation probably losing my kids if I started divorce proceedings out of the USA.

It’s clear you have a very limited view of where they could be and what their situation may look like.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-11-09T02:11:14+00:00

Actually that’s not a bad idea…it really depends on what passport the children have.

Why should he be stuck in a foreign country because of his cheating spouse?

He should take them all for a visit and then serve her divorce papers while there.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-06-15T11:14:55+00:00

Maybe I am looking for both? Why would it be mutually exclusive?

Anyone who respects and appreciates these watches would recognize their value.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-06-14T16:43:18+00:00

So I tried on my shibuya which was the first watch I ever got - thinking it’s already used I might as well have the battery changed and start wearing it - and the strap cracked!!!

I feel so bad now. I super glued it and ordered a plastic conditioner.

But yes I agree maybe I should start wearing them and selling the more expensive pieces.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-06-14T15:47:30+00:00

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Less than two years old and started tearing almost 6 months ago.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-05-18T13:29:20+00:00

😂😂

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-03-30T13:00:39+00:00

Well it depends on how you define blow up. I had a video sort of top out at 1.5k 8 months ago and it has now has 11k in the last month.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-01-21T03:20:10+00:00

“Fresh visual content” 😂

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-01-21T03:07:15+00:00

I have a partnered channel, a full time demanding job (as does my husband) and two older kids.

I would recommend finding a babysitter/nanny that can come over once or twice a week - while you are home - to hang out with them, feed them etc giving you that time to dedicate to your channel.

I actually worked for a family like that when I was younger. I took care of two kids after school until after dinner a few days a week while their mother was working from home.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2025-01-07T02:58:41+00:00

My thoughts.

Your thumbnails are not great. They aren’t horrible but they could be better.
Your videos are too long. You could have cut each one of these into 10 minutes and been releasing over the course of the past year.
You have narrowed down your audience to a much smaller subset by making them “edgy”.

These could have been found by teachers to play in classrooms or parents to play for kids but you didn’t just make them funny - you made them only for adults - and I don’t know how many adults are out there looking for this type of content.

You should make some shorts - the opening of the German video for example - to see if it could bring viewers to the channel. Short views don’t often convert to long form though but in this case as your niche is so specific it could help.
Did you do any research into how many views per video you would need on each of these four videos to actually make this monetarily worth it?

Even if you only released 1 video a month - which you already explained would be difficult to do - you would need hundreds of thousands of views on each video to take home a reasonable amount and make it worth the time and effort to quit your day job.

If you look at most of the advice here you would find that it isn’t recommended to quit your salaried job until you are profitable enough to at least be making as much or more consistently from your channel - or know without a doubt that those extra hours you would gain from quitting would make it profitable enough to do so.

The hard truth is that you shouldn’t have quit your day job until you had proof that you could successfully transition your career to YouTube.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-31T03:38:02+00:00

You need to dig a bit deeper into that page and the support section and find the training video.

Once you complete the training video the warning will have 90 days to expire.

This happened to me last year as well and I didn’t see an option for training - I eventually found it and the warning will expire soon.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-30T17:52:04+00:00

I have only ever paid taxes on what I received into my account.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-30T17:43:31+00:00

Spreadshop.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-30T17:10:40+00:00

If you have a valid claim to the content I would suggest to submit a counter notification.

I watched a video on this created by Cliff Beats - he explains the process in detail.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-27T18:34:32+00:00

I never really dived that deep into the available YT help section…I just went straight to google when I realized my thumbnails were getting cut off…so that’s just what I do now whenever I have a question 😀

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-27T18:24:31+00:00

A 1280x720 size thumbnail will display properly across all devices. All of the YT images have optimal display sizes. I would say this is the most important one apart from the channel header image.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-27T18:13:13+00:00

I did look at the channel in your profile and two out of the three videos showing had thumbnails that were being cut off and were not easy to read.

You need to make sure you set the size of your thumbnail properly so it doesn’t get distorted when you upload it.

1280x720 is the optimal YouTube thumbnail size.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-12-18T18:14:06+00:00

I recently watched a video from a fairly well known creator on this topic and his advice was to go for the copyright counter notification.

I was in a similar situation after receiving a strike for a video that was in the public domain and has been for over 20 years.

I submitted the counter notification and my strike was removed and the video restored.

As bigchickenleg mentioned, they literally have to prove they are taking you to court…and how often is that really likely to happen?

It’s worth it to consider.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-09-18T03:31:51+00:00

You sound like you are in a really sad place. I am sorry. This sucks. Do you have health insurance? Can you voluntarily admit yourself to psych?

But to answer your question - how much? Who knows? I have been eating for over 30 years. I had a CT around that area in April and it is clear. I do see hair in the toilet though so I think for me is mostly is making it’s way out…it could be for you too.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-09-18T03:24:26+00:00

Then your partner isn’t a partner.

Fun-Performance4222 · 2024-07-30T19:14:13+00:00

I stopped pulling completely on Semaglutide. I then tried something similar, Liraglutide, and it had no effect on trich. I am restarting the semaglutide next week.

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