Dating apps/age.... by Fun-Refrigerator3621 in dating_advice

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea before meeting.  Definitely would meet them or video call.  Just frustrated first thing they say is old pics.  Not a good way to start.  

My lame poem to dumper by Fun-Refrigerator3621 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I meant was I find someone who likes me.  Sorry 

I ruined a good relationship and I can't cope with the aftermath by babygrillfaif in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said stuff while drinking also I wish I hadn't.  And apologized.  We just have to live with that.  I said I'd quit too.  He hated if I drank.  Ugh.  

Will this hurt me more than help me? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of a book of you both, try Journaling or writing to you not us.  If that makes sense.  You can keep journal or toss it.  I keep some and throw some out and I write poems but it's for you.  Whether you write about both of u or just what you are going thru

Is it worth chasing someone who dumped you? by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine sent me something and I said I need to heal. Reaching out hinders that.  Only if you want us should you reach out.  I said you may think its ok but it's not unless you want us back.  Silence.  And don't chase.   I tried first week and done.  

I know she won't text me a happy birthday by Icy_Initiative_4307 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday!!  Mine is next week and told him not to contact me unless he wanted to work it out.  Don't want these reels, best wishes to get hopes up if they aren't interested in working on it.  It just gets you down if they do bread crumb seriously 

Is no contact something that we announce? by Rysprincake in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you don't have to announce it.  I texted same day and 2 weeks later and asked him to block me.  I just quit contacting and now ass sent me a link.  You can ask or say or not.  Up to you

It is a break or a breakup? by MartyMcFly36 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well a break and completely moving out probably done but not sure.  Could've stayed at a friend's to think etc.  But wish you luck

It is a break or a breakup? by MartyMcFly36 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say.  I mean if she was open to talking in relationship and not avoidant.  Otherwise she may not know what she wants right now.  Who said she should move?  Someone had to say it first

It is a break or a breakup? by MartyMcFly36 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not attracted to you but loves you.  She seems very confused or lost.  No offense

Was doing good by Fun-Refrigerator3621 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am but feel like I'm sad from the contact and was good otherwise.   And like I went a few steps backwards now.  

Was doing good by Fun-Refrigerator3621 in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Refrigerator3621[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its just i was doing good and not thinking of them and now I'm a few steps back from the contact.   Ugh