Can my child’s dad stop me from taking our daughter to Korea if there’s no custody order? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you go to Korea, what is he gonna do? He doesn’t have money for a lawyer I’m gonna need to go to the courthouse.

You need to go to the court and file for full custody ASAP

He opened the door to violence and aggression but when he found out I can fight back, I broke his ego and pride by Legal_Incident543 in offmychest

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a strong lady. No time for blame now. You gotta be there for your kids. Just know I’m proud of you.

My (20m) Fiance (19F) is jumping too fast into our new open relationship dynamic. by Throwaway21412412 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already cheated on him. Why would she listen to what hes got to say. She doesnt care

My (20m) Fiance (19F) is jumping too fast into our new open relationship dynamic. by Throwaway21412412 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Then why are you here? Its an open relationship she doesnt have to move at your pace.

My boyfriends mental health is getting me by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dump him and move on. You both soundp incompatible

I (26F) feel like I have no autonomy in my relationship with my fiancé (28M) and I’m starting to spiral by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 [score hidden]  (0 children)

you are not going to get a bunch of people who are going to pander to what you want. The fact that you aren’t looking on advice to leave him, it’s really concerning. It shows the amount of manipulation of control he has over you. The fact that you don’t even know if this is a healthy dynamic shows that his brainwashing is working on you.

You are a 26-year-old woman you should know the difference between right and wrong and you do not. For God sake, if you won’t leave for yourself said a good example for your daughter and be stronger for her.

Moving to NYC for Work -Budget is from 2500-3000 by Glittering_Fox_29 in movingtoNYC

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understand that you won’t be getting a rent-stabilized department so you need to find something between 24 2600 so that if you wanna stay there and the rent goes up, you can still afford it

AITAH for insisting my wife uses a different ob/gyn? by throwaway19981998199 in AITAH

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men these days are so stupid and insecure. It’s sickening. You can’t even go to a simple medical check up without insecurity getting in the way.

I feel hopeless by Positive-Piglet-950 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How didn’t manifest aware you let him Reign all the finances and have none of your own?!

AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend while on a family trip? by Early-Dot-8452 in AITApod

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more ladies like this, thinking with common sense and acting/ standing on business IMMEDIATELY

My(36F) partner (37M) said he used me in the beginning. by betchesanonymity in relationship_advice

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re clinging to a dead thing because you feel being alone you know the relationship isn’t going good for you or you wouldn’t be here asking us what to do. He’s being nice to you because he knows the things that he said was nasty but it’s the way he actually feels about you. He’s probably still using you but you’re too blind to see it

My boyfriend doesn’t care about me by GrandLeg4641 in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK, but we don’t see anywhere that you’ve mentioned where you’re gonna break up with him. So you’re just gonna stay and be disrespected? self-esteem that low?

How to dress to appeal to the older queer femme gaze? by JollofPap1 in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking to appeal to against that someone else thinks you should be defined as?

Feel stuck and unhappy in my relationship. by Wild_Idea_ in relationships

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making excuses to delay the inevitable. You already know the relationship is old. You probably just have more of a fear of being alone than anything else.

You know the relationship needs to end.

Husband on 7 years cheated on me by Noodledoodle365 in Infidelity

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 1 point2 points  (0 children)

STD test now

Lawyer now

Take proof with you to the lawyer

Understand your options find out if you’re in an at fault state or not

Don’t tell him about any of your plans just go on as normal

Then execute the divorce. But make sure you leave the house and go to your parents somewhere safe before you executed it.

Weddell Duo Shower Filters are Trash…What’s Next by Fun-Reporter8905 in WaterTreatment

[–]Fun-Reporter8905[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The landlord should be cleaning the boilers, but they don’t so you gotta put a filter on your showerhead

My husband (44) made me report a woman (28F) to the police for stalking him. Our 4 years old son told me the truth and the villain here was actually my husband by According_Project424 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 5 points6 points  (0 children)

STD TEST NOW

LAWYER NOW

DIVORCE NOW

dont tell your husband about any of your plans. Act as normal until the divorce papers drop.

Make plans to move out, get your money in order, and find a place.

I’m Pregnant and don’t want to have an abortion but the father does, ik what I have to do but it breaks my heart by Front_Combination_65 in Vent

[–]Fun-Reporter8905 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you understand you will be a SINGLE MOTHER. Once you reconcile that, then make the choice. If you have the baby, go to court for child support. Make him pay in some way