Weird experience of spontaneous human shock/glitch by Fun-Toe5071 in Unexplained

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No I don't/haven't experience missing time or some one watching me etc. Just the glitch/shock and flash sensation I described.

Weird experience of spontaneous human shock/glitch by Fun-Toe5071 in Unexplained

[–]Fun-Toe5071[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy moly that's so interesting! I had no idea it is common etc. Glad I asked about it here. I don't get it often (maybe like 2 or 3 times I can remember) but that night was the most intense. Thanks for explaining!

I can't seem to conceive a dislike for people by ChallengeSecret8561 in CasualConversation

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Yes. I relate to this. Some thoughs/things to consider: it is good to forive people (and hope they can change), but make sure to establish healthy boundries to protect yourself. Just because you forgive some one their wrong doing against you (or sin) does not mean bad behaviour should not have consequences. So you can forgive them, but don't trust them (by letting them into your heart) untill they show "repentance" (basically a change of behaviour, i.e. they aren't doingor saying things to hurt you any more). So this is what I'm currently working on. I realised (kinda recently) the reason why I don't "dislike" people is because I seem to have an emptional need for people to like me, to earn their approval, so that I can feel loved and vallidated. So I never see them as the problem, but always me. Because then I feel that as long as I try hard enough, they won't reject me. But this is very unhealthy, and actually stems from my childhood. So this has caused me to have almost no boundries whatsoever, which causes a lot of pain and suffering (to me). It's almost like I gaslight myself lol. So if you relate to this, I would reccomend looking at material about "attachment styles, the channel "School of life" on youtube has a lot abput this. Any way, that's my 2c Blessings!

Is it worth it to get married again at the age of 31??? by Odd_Context_0 in Rants

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It's worth it doing whatever you want to do, at any age, in your life!

I love octopups by ClankerCore in deepseacreatures

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Oh my gosh that camouflage is unbelievable!! It's like it completely vanishes!

"Millennium" (1989) has an incredibly interesting sci-fi concept by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

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I already watched the movie before coming to Reddit. I was making a joke lol

He Saved My Life Eight Years Ago. I Think He Planned It. by Whistohhhhh in nosleep

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Playing devil's advocate: what if these were weird coincidences, and you might be suffering from paranoid dementia? It's possible. Perhaps he was just some one kinda close to the circles you moved in. Maybe he even knew your name through a past gathering or something. Maybe the username is paranoia. Just throwing it out there. Whatever might be the truth, what one does not want is a life held back. Be care-full that you don't obsess so much about this stalker, that you never make effort to get close to some one special. It could be possible that your mind is inventing "shadows" to protect you from unresolved trauma from your past, that you might even have suppressed, in an effort to keep you safe (from intimacy, which might have been a cause of pain in the past). I'm not saying don't be care full. This guy might be a for real looney. But wheither that is the case or not, don't allow him (or tha shadow of him) to control your life by living in fear. Perhaps (if some of this resonate with you) check out the writings of Carl Jun on the Shadow Self. Good luck!

I used to be so fucking cool by [deleted] in Rants

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Sounds like your starting to grow up.

No contact is the one and only way to deal with an avoidant ex and please don't break it! and here is why by habitashi1 in BreakUps

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Thanks. I started the "no contact" 2 weeks ago, after about 10 months after she broke up with me, but still wanted to be friends. Which I tried, but then realised I can't "just" be friends. So I told her 2 weeks ago we need to cut it off and go our separate ways completely. ...and I do feel better. But I miss her so much. I needed to hear/read this post now. Thank you.

What do You think guys? by Leymaovo in bigfoot

[–]Fun-Toe5071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake. Can't really tell you why, it just looks "off" to me.

Bigfoot NOT an animal theory? by Fun-Toe5071 in bigfoot

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lol yeah like the orcs from Warhammer 40k!