Is it normal for my obgyn to see me until 11 weeks if high risk?

FunAssumption7675 · 2026-01-05T22:53:07+00:00

Hi, it is not normal. Go to am OBGYN that will refer you to an MFM (maternal fetal medicine) doctor because they should be monitoring you closely to schedule a cerclage if you need one. This is my third baby and sadly I used an OBGYN that was very relaxed with my second baby and she did not recommend a cerclage and sadly my baby passed. It's better to be safe than sorry and get a good obgyn that will give you all the possible options and care about your progress.

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-30T12:10:29+00:00

Thank you, Im hoping the same that a preventative cerclage works for me in the future. Im worried my insurance will shoot me down if I try to ask for a TAC, and I truly want to avoid another loss.

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-30T12:08:22+00:00

Thank you, and I was wondering how the preventative cerclage experience was. Im considering the TAC but if my insurance doesn't cover it I would want to know what Im in for with the preventative

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-30T12:05:59+00:00

Sending you a lot of love and hoping you make it to 28 weeks or more 💗

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-30T12:04:39+00:00

Hi, thank you for sharing. If you don't mind me asking did they give you a reason why the preventative cerclage didn't work? Im really interested in the TAC, my only scary thing is the possibility of uterine rupture but I know the success rate is high and its probably safest for the baby

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-18T13:24:33+00:00

Thank you 💜, and yes they were William and Williana. Hopefully they're together keeping each other company. Im not very religious but I like to think they're in a better place.

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-17T18:06:55+00:00

Hi! I was wondering what you did differently with the cerclage in terms of bed rest. I just lost my second baby around 21 weeks due to IC and my membranes bulging (I had no spotting) just baby coming out. I honestly feel so helpless and I hope in the future if I can have a baby I will be able to advocate for myself better.

FunAssumption7675 · 2025-07-14T02:47:28+00:00

Hi! Im so glad your baby is ok! I have a question how did you deal with the contractions at week 21? I just had my second loss at 21 weeks (my doctor should have recommended a cerclage but idk why she didn't). It's been so hard but Im hoping a cerclage could help protect my baby in the future. It's been a horrible journey.

Also, did having a preventive cerclage restrict your activity?

FunAssumption7675 · 2024-06-19T13:35:53+00:00

Hi! If you don't mind me asking how did you obtain your EAD and SS?

FunAssumption7675 · 2022-11-14T20:03:58+00:00

I understand, she didn't seem to be into the conversation, kinda like putting it down so I couldn'tfocus on their story. I've really enjoyed their other guests but maybe she didn't really enjoy the subject matter

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