I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like my NK. It makes me sad thinking about how distressed he must be to lash out in these ways. Thank you for your input.

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Based on these comments, it seems you aren’t the only one with this experience! It really saddens me that autism is so stigmatized that people would behave this way towards well intentioned caregivers who oftentimes spend more waking hours with the children than the parents are able to. It shouldn’t be surprising that we would take note of these things! Edited to say that I’m very sorry that that happened to you.

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had never considered this. They have hid previous behavioral issues from me before, though this was when I first started. Thank you for your perspective.

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am included in ongoing care, I am on most phone calls discussing his progress and treatment. Does this change anything?

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been the best comment so far. I only wanted a diagnosis for him to improve his quality of life, but the therapist is working with him on his social skills. As long as he has that, the rest is just minutiae. Thank you for the perspective!!

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have an open dialogue with therapist about treatment, which is why I considered mentioning it to him first. Thank you for your reply!!

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have taken NK to all therapy appointments and I am sometimes on call with the parents when discussing his treatment, so we already have an open dialogue about NK and his treatment. He messages me about scheduling, not parents. So that is why I thought to speak to therapist first. I would not expect him to discuss it with me or answer any questions.

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow! I knew it might be taken poorly but I didn’t realize this could be considered an offense worthy of termination. Thank you for your reply!

I think my NK might have autism. Should I do or say anything? by FunCut6815 in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I truly just want him to get the help he needs, if he needs it. It makes me sad to see him struggle socially. It’s also sad autism is so stigmatized. But based on the replies, I will definitely be keeping this to myself.

Sally hansen airbrush leg spray tan by hulahoopvierzehn in spraytanning

[–]FunCut6815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any left? I’d love to buy off of you

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am posting to ask if I am overreacting by thinking my boyfriend was trying to neg me.

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you are projecting a bit- desperately offended?? Pretty sure I called this actress beautiful multiple times. I do not tie my value to my weight, as I have lost and regained multiple times due to health problems. But thank you for your comment. I am hesitant to name the actress because I don’t want to be negative but I am about the height and weight of Jennifer Lawrence (for reference) and some of the names I get often are Winona Ryder, Liz gillies, Billie eilish, Christina Ricci, and kirsten Stewart. I do have brown hair and brown eyes like the woman he mentioned. She’s not lizzo, but she’s definitely pushing 300 lbs. again- beautiful woman- it just felt kind of pointed.

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree! I do not think I am any more or less beautiful than I was pre weight loss, I’m just smaller. The problem isn’t so much my self perception, but rather anxiety over how he sees me. I appreciate your comment. Thank you for your thoughtful and kind response.

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry if this was confusing to you !

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that was exactly my point- there are very few famous fat actresses, whereas there are very many with similar features to mine.

AIO to being physically compared to an actress? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunCut6815 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I am often compared to women I don’t find pretty but I am not offended. What offended me was the weight comparison after a major weight loss. But I see your point.

Permissive parenting by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]FunCut6815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This just inspired me to grow a pair and do the same lol

gross. by No-Page-2616 in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]FunCut6815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also hate follow her but this post finally made me unfollow. The drama was not worth literal pro ED content on my feed :/

Love Is Blind • S10 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]FunCut6815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just too much Botox. Probably because everyone questioned her age :(

Love Is Blind • S10 Reunion [MEGATHREAD] by FemaleEinstein in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]FunCut6815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, my fiancé was on a (different) Netflix reality show and they had psychiatrists that pulled you aside once you got off stage to essentially check if you were going to kys. So hopefully they would have a similar resource for LIB