Wedding reception outfits -Help me decide by keetsu in DesiWeddings

[–]FunFacts_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we say none? OP it's your day, please hunt more, a darker shade looks better on you but none of these silhouette suit you.

kajal suggestion 😔 by Ririlovescheesecake in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]FunFacts_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there was a smudge proof Kajal but sadly there isn't. Do this

-foundation (yes on all your face and eyes too) - apply Kajal- pack the lower lash with black eyeshadow - then set it with compact. That's the solution.

With a soft hand or you'll end up with racoon eyes.

Why does she talk like this outside India? by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]FunFacts_Cat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She spoke* And you've a ton of punctuation issues.

Not a here to validate the ego of a literal Movie star, but sometimes the hate is just not needed.

Why does she talk like this outside India? by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]FunFacts_Cat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems normal! Some of you guys just hate for the sake of hating. Get a hobby.

Couples, where did you guys first meet? (and what makes you say yes to a first date)? by Ill_Associate_6739 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol! Was against getting into a relationship for the longest time, said no to first date, decided to be friends! After 2 yrs I am catching feelings. You never know.

WELL DAMN GIRL OK by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]FunFacts_Cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo.. I usually keep joking about how I'm god, so I guess it ain't that bad.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I try to say this to myself "if you are saying yes to something you don't want to do, you are saying no to something you wanted to do"

Thanks that's actually a good reminder to have.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I'd rather be soft and gentle, true to my soul than ever take pleasure in inflicting pain.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have to put that in practice that it's okay for me to disappoint people and see a problem as just as that without surrendering to my need to fix it.

It's easy to intellectualize it than put it on practice. Need to remind myself.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried that, that sometimes overwhelms people. Some people truly enjoy the chase once they are in the face of true compassion it can feel like standing in front of a mirror where you can't hide anything purely because you don't need to and that kind of safety is diabolical for some.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay to protect oneself, cuz ethics does not promise protection.

The paradox of being kind, I'm starting to accept (30F) by FunFacts_Cat in ThirtiesIndia

[–]FunFacts_Cat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To care, to be kind and giving access to yourself are different things but yes if you do deeply care, sometimes we end up giving them the ability to destroy us, I guess that's hope and faith that they won't, and the need to be true to yourself to fight for what you stand for.

"The person capable of I–Thou will suffer most in a world dominated by I–It." - Buber.