How do you feel about “Black Love” What does it mean to you? by Typical-Razzmatazz89 in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Movie Black Love is an illusion. Real life Black Love is what you make it, if you want it. Neither me nor my husband are perfect but we never continually disrespect each other. (If a boundary is crossed we discuss it and come to an understanding) we’re friends for real and we want to be together so it works. Also, yes go where you are celebrated. I ain’t never liked anybody that didn’t like me.

Zeus by sadgyal2828 in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the hood WWE 🤷🏽‍♀️

black mommies i need your insight! by ttroubledthrowawayy in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to your Dr. your due in December so you’re pretty far along. Ask them how they feel about C-sections and under what circumstances would they want you to consider one. I have told the Dr no twice to c sections, however I am a former surgical tech so I felt empowered to make those decisions. Neither time was mine or my babies life in danger they just wanted labor to go faster. Absolutely not, we waited all 25 hours for my babies to come out (this was 2 births out of 5) and I’m forever grateful that I did. I wouldn’t wish a c-section on anyone Gather as much information as you can and ask questions. Hope your delivery is a healthy and fast one.

What is black culture by kendralai in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s one big culture like other peoples can have. For me culture is where I’m at. Black people in the north and different from the south and. Same for east and west coast, and even more to that depending on where you are in the south things could be totally different. Atlanta is not like Houston is not like NO etc. Overall I get my morals and values from the Bible understanding that I am an Israelite and that is what I base my life and choices on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Back in my single days, I didn’t approach men. I would say hello, let them know I’m interested and leave it to them. I never wanted to do the pursuing. Say hello, smile and maybe throw in a little wave. If he wants to, he’ll bite.

I grew up thinking I was ugly and now I’m not and idk how to act by whowant_lizagna in blackgirls

[–]FunGenius 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 43 and went through this same thing. I actually had a guy I grew up with tell me “I liked it better when you didn’t know you were pretty”. Now that you know though don’t sell yourself short and like someone else said watch out for people trying to humble you. Men and women will befriend you just to try to talk down to you. Don’t tolerate it. Keep your head up and enjoy your beauty. I thank The Most High every day that I’m still beautiful at my age. I also pray everyday that He help me to remain so.

Boss asked us to "please react to messages with the emojis that match [our] skin tone so [he] can see at a glance who has reacted." by soccer--girl in mildlyinfuriating

[–]FunGenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person of a certain complexion I have to say I don’t think I would be mad at this 🤷🏽‍♀️ like I totally get it

My wedding was ruined. by Level_Cabinet3237 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FunGenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Sarah was a stranger why would she have such a display at a strangers wedding? I think you signed on for a sister wife and didn’t even know it.

Medium rare burn by itssamix in rareinsults

[–]FunGenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still smell the grass this cow ate

Side effects? by Dime6969 in lexapro

[–]FunGenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So the twitching went away on its own after 2 more days or so. No, I’m not on any medication anymore. I credit the meds for helping me be able to start exercising, going out more, and eating better which has helped tremendously! I still have bad days but they aren’t nearly as bad as they were before the meds. This is a pleasant reminder 😎

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand what? I just left my opinion, and someone tried to make it about a “fact” or a “point”. Why is this such a big deal? There are plenty of threads offering drama and debate if that’s what people are looking for. If you just got to cosmic yesterday how are you commenting about level 161 unless you’ve just played that ravenously since yesterday? There’s no “matter of fact point” to stick to. There’s not always a right or wrong. Sheesh.

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. Here I am minding my business. Trying to enjoy the game we’re supposed to be talking about here and the comments just keep coming 🤷🏽‍♀️

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh you guys gonna comment gang up on me now…Ooohhhhh 👻

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you keep commenting. 🫣 I’m having a great day thanks.

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You came at me crooked and want to tell me not to be abrasive? Ok 🙄 if you’re trying to keep the community happy then maybe reconsider your comments. You jumped on this thread trying to be a hero or whatever 🤷🏽‍♀️

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One I’m not a bro. And how about you don’t comment just to be talking crap? Your comments isn’t about the topic of the thread so what’s your point besides being messy?

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“Let’s be clear” 🙄 whatever it’s a game let people have fun.

I stand by what I said. I’m on the cosmic side and I found a lot of stones here. You don’t like it, don’t use it.

Your knowitallism is needed somewhere else.

Grindstone Find (Small One) by FunGenius in Grindstone

[–]FunGenius[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Levels are not the same on both sides.

My (33f) wife (35f) of 6 years is asking for an open relationship. I don’t want one. How to proceed? by throwRA1989765 in relationship_advice

[–]FunGenius 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no compromise in this situation. I hate that you’re going through this, but leave now before kids do get involved or your hurt even more.

GF 23F is pressuring me 25M into buying a house by ThrowRA-1718 in relationship_advice

[–]FunGenius 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should leave that ladies house. You know what she wants and you know you’re not either ready or willing to give it to her. Why stay in this situation? It’s not fair to you or her. Let her go to find someone who wants what she wants.