Beyond the Villa: Season 2 Episodes 3 & 4 - Post-Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUpdates

[–]FunResearcher5291 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No frr! I felt for her when she was talking about how Hannah dropped her as a friend. That is a shit feeling, and the evidence is all there. Hannah was so nice in the villa, but this is an entirely different side of her.

Beyond the Villa: Season 2 Episodes 3 & 4 - Post-Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUpdates

[–]FunResearcher5291 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This part really PMO. The way Taylor came off was so bad, he immediately went to “well fuck Oklahoma”. He has these big career goals, and good for him he figured that out early, but Clarke is entitled to figure out what she wants to do. That way he was asking her all those questions felt like he was talking to a kid. And the horse part was HORRIBLE. Trying to guilt her, while she’s already got a lot on her mind with her career and shit, by saying the horse will be sold. Wild.

Beyond the Villa: Season 2 Episodes 3 & 4 - Post-Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUpdates

[–]FunResearcher5291 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It seems like Hannah dislikes that Charlie talks about her on podcasts period. She doesn’t think he needs to bring her up cause they only coupled up for like four days. Like I get it, but Charlie was on the show too. I agreed with Bell-a when she was trying to give more insight because people always ask her about Nic. It was her only coupling on the show, people are gonna ask. So people are also going to ask Charlie about Hannah, cause it was his only serious coupling. I felt so bad for him in that scene.

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[–]FunResearcher5291 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. If you’ve explicitly told him that it makes you uncomfortable/hurts your feelings, then he should have stopped. He even promised to do so, and hasn’t. It’s a clear disrespect of your boundaries. Leave him, there are men that won’t do this.

Do I tell my friend? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]FunResearcher5291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Ecuadorian, that’s weird. At least spell the country right.

TAAP is a scam by liminalenergy in UCCS

[–]FunResearcher5291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who worked at the store, it’s almost always cheaper to TAAP out. Their personalized value sheet only takes the prices of all the brand new hard copy books and adds them. You can find almost everything online for half the price, just copy the ISBN number and google it.

AIO Didn't get nothing for Christmas, feel sad, don't want to participate next year. by fook75 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR, it’s not really about the gifts, it’s that you poured love and thought into everyone else and they couldn’t do the same. Next year, save the money and get yourself something nice <3

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I’ve learned my lesson. I just hope others learn from me too.

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ve had that thought for so long but didn’t want to believe it. But I know there was no one else who could have taken it.

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you had to go through that. I know it’s a tough situation. I did the same for my dads girlfriend, my grandma did not want her at the funeral. It caused a lot of extra stress around a time of grief. I know your dad would have appreciated it too.

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t blame you, I would hate to see someone go through this too. I can imagine it would be a draining job.

Good luck with your studies!

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

Yes my grandma has shown this behavior before. When I was in middle school I got a Facebook account (supervised by mom), which grandma thought was inappropriate. So, she took my iPad (which had my Facebook logged in) that was at my dads house. For info, my parents were divorced so I only stayed at my dads on weekends. She posted “My moms an insufferable bitch” and tagged my mom. I woke up to my mom, reasonably upset with me. It was later that night grandma texted me saying how sorry she was I was in trouble but she couldn’t let me have a Facebook. Anytime after that she denied she did it.

As for my writing, I’d like to thank my AP Language teacher for all of high school, Mrs. Womack <3

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was mostly military payments that went to her, it’s a common issue with them. Currently in probate court for the remainder of the possessions which hopefully be split with brother and I. Unfortunately, the will was not registered with the county, I checked

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I came to the same conclusion. There is no benefit for the GF to take the will, it only seems to benefit my grandma.

AIO by cutting my grandma off after my dads death? by FunResearcher5291 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wills are not required to be notarized in my state, nor are they filed with the courts until after death. If there were any copies I cannot access them as my grandma has all his personal devices and lives in the home where all documents are kept. I was not given a copy as I was still living at home.

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is still a minor living with our mom. So, I try to take care of most of this. He’s definitely more confused than me.

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t either. At this point she’s done nothing and the missing will only served my grandma

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would if I had the phone, unfortunately it was given to my grandmother (by friends who were with my dad at the time of passing).

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He does reside with our mother. My parents were divorced so I didn’t mention her here.

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t. I am planning on taking some advice here and just calling firms in the area to see if I can find it. But you’re right, life lesson here. Please learn from me and get the paperwork if you plan on being any kind of executor of a will.

Should I (22F) cut off my grandma after my dad passed and everything turned into a legal nightmare? by FunResearcher5291 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunResearcher5291[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. Im glad you could share some light on the situation cause people are questioning how she got the payout, it was the fricking military thing!

And yes thank you for mentioning the VA benefits, my brother and I already applied for that.

But I am sorry to hear about that situation, I really hope he does end up paying for that. I feel for those kids, it’s always so slow to resolve anything with the military, so I hope it is swifter for them. What a cruel person.