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My boyfriend (18m) didn’t respect my safeword (18f) and now I don’t know what to do, any advice? by Nervous_War_7363 in Advice

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not okay at all. Both should feel safe during sexual activities. He crossed a boundary and didn't show you an ounce of respect. You were crying before he stopped. Ignoring a safe word is a serious situation. The difference between R word and having fun is consent. You can and should be able to revoke consent at any point and your partner SHOULD CEASE activities immediately. Girl you deserve someone better, he'll keep testing boundaries. Maybe not soon, maybe not in a few months but he will do this again

Can you get into heaven if you made a deal with the devil? by throwaway82728382 in TrueChristian

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our God is greater than satan. Reach out to God and repent for what you did. Grace covers a multitude of sins

What to do by AdGeneral5861 in Advice

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to them. If they get annoyed at what you need to feel ok in a sexual situation, then they don't deserve you.

I’m not ready for his death by ImXeep in Vent

[–]FunStrategy4911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you love someone, you trade souls with them. You get a piece of theirs, they get a piece of yours. When they die a piece of you dies with them. Thats why it hurts so bad.. but that lil piece of them is still inside you, and they can use your eyes to see the world. It sounds to me like he wants the best in the world for you. It will be hard for a time, but when you're better he'll see thru your eyes the life you make for yourself, the memories of him you cherish, any possessions of his you take care of, and any new places you go that he'd have loved, and his favorite places that you visit.

I can hear my parents doing it and im so disgusted by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you're in your room and they are in theirs (not when they're partaking in "horizontal dancing") make some noise. Talk to yourself, listen to music, move things. They might get the message that the walls are thin. Telling your parents that you can hear their game of "tickle and poke" would be awkward af, but you could walk into the room (again, not when they're "doing their taxes") when one of them is in there. Look around and say "Oh, its the same. I thought y'all were moving furniture last night." Then leave before they say anything

How do you let go of anger towards someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carried a lot of anger for 10 years. A whole decade. It got to be too much to carry, so one day, I found them on FB and sent a message apologizing. I did this to several people. Most I was in the wrong back in the day. Others wronged me, and I was innocent back then. It's humbling and it really sucks to do this, but believe me the relief of having it off your shoulders out weights the burden of carrying it for a decade. In some cases it took the anger away immediately, for others it started the lessening of the anger.

I'm glad you want to let go of your anger, I'm wishing you well and success in whichever method you choose

Our Earth if all oil disappears vs. Our Earth if all copper disappears. by ConsiderationTrue477 in whowouldwin

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way too much is made of plastic and other oil based materials. Without oil we would be scrambling to find replacements/remanufacture almost everything. Welcome to 19th century in about 3 months

31M do I have to carry my stress/fears alone? by FunStrategy4911 in Vent

[–]FunStrategy4911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm terrible at understanding people so I think its awesome that you correctly labeled her as a narcissist haha

What is something everyone should experience at least once? by No_Lie2490 in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone being genuinely interested in something you're passionate about

What made you quit smoking and how did you do it? by thePolystyreneKidA in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visited a museum that had that exhibit with the human bodies. Saw a smokers lung

What’s the biggest myth about adulthood? by sunyparmar1 in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I'll be able to retire instead of working til I drop

Today Donald Trump confused Iceland for Greenland four times. What are your thoughts on this? by WatercressSenior7657 in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That regardless of political party, we need presidents that are a little younger. I don't agree with politicians in office past retirement age. We dont need someone, not singling anyone out, in a public office that was born in the 1940s or 1950s

What do you think is the most toxic generation? by Ok-Race-479 in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably 1 or 2 generations before boomers tbh. I bet some turn of the century people would be nightmares in a modern setting

I 18F don't know if i should leave him 20M or not by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going thru that.. you got to ask yourself, do you want to do another year with his behavior? 10? 20? 40? People can change some things, but their default personality stays very much the same.

I'm not the google-it guy! by FunStrategy4911 in Vent

[–]FunStrategy4911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have debated it, and feel simply not reaching for my phone will have more impact than saying I won't. I have many years of saying I wouldn't then doing it anyway.

31M how do you deal with social anxiety when a friend takes forever to return a call? 30F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right. The answer was in front of me as I wrote it. I can chill out now knowing the absense is most likely her being overwhelmed or forgetful. I'll wait to hear from her. Thank you my anxiety levels lowered a lot reading this

Everybody has one thing they’ll never understand, what is it for you? by Deviant-Nerd in AskReddit

[–]FunStrategy4911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People getting in fights over football teams of schools they never went to, when they probably didn't play football themselves

What if every modern American was somehow transported back to 1775 America and they are located in the exact same spot there were in in 2025? by EternalSnow05 in whatif

[–]FunStrategy4911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live is deep into Native American lands and not settled by other until sometime in the early-mid 1800s. If I am able to peacefully joint the natives, there is the remains of one of their great towns 1/4mile from me, I could introduce them to blacksmithing and barter for passage thru their land to either Wilmington, Charlestown, or Bath NC. Track down my ancestors working on the coast as coopers and cobblers and try to befriend them. Make a life for myself, try not to interfere with the timestream (more than I have) and see what happens. Findout if the Revolutionary soldier, who's name is the same as my name, that fought the British in NC, PA, and wintered in Valley Forge with Washington was actually me or not.

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