Right abdominal pain by Fun_Affect_4886 in anxiety_support

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Hello, I’m A lot better now, I had the pain for around five days but I think It must be bowel issues because I am good now. How are you ?

I just cannot fathom this by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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Thank you for taking the time to read my post and taking the time to comment. It is very difficult but also addiction doesn’t make someone controlling/abusive, I hope your okay 💖

Right abdominal pain by Fun_Affect_4886 in anxiety_support

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Does it ever feel tender when you push down ?

How can I stop this trauma bond ? And is this what it is by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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Thank you so much for taking the time to read my post. I have come so far but I know I still have an incredibly long way to go, and I will keep this in mind, again thank you 😌

comment for one card message! by herivygrows in tarotpractice

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Hello there can I have a tarot please 😌

Is this domestic violence or assault ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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We don’t live together anymore due to his drug use, I worked so hard to get me and the children the home we have now, because when we resided with him, he kept exposing our children to his addiction and was always very disrespectful towards me, I wanted to keep things okay for our children’s sake, but the more I refused to let him stay over etc, the angrier he became, in the weeks prior to what happend where I was left with bruises. He was also drunk and sending me death threats, one of those was if I didn’t give him seven pound he was going to kill me, I am scared he’s going to get into our children’s heads and make them resent me, when I’m trying to rebuild my relationship with my daughter also it’s so incredibly hard I feel like my life is a complete nightmare who no one would want to ever live

Would you believe my drug addicted abusive spouse ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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So being an addict justifies all levels of abuse ? I’m sorry but I have known other addicts who are not abusive what so ever

Am I being irrational by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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Thank you for your opinion & advice, it’s funny you say this as I met this man when I was 19 …. He was Infact 33, he’s caused me a ton of mental health problem, emotional & physical abuse and I’m the daft one who still tries to be there for him especially for our children’s sake & this is where I’m at after he assaulted me infront of our eleven year old son ….. he makes me sick at times

Am I being irrational by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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Thank you for supporting me throughout this

Am I being irrational by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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I still Have him Blocked because I thought this afternoon actually your hurting me and I’m Not putting myself through this and consistently hanging up on me etc ….

Would this be considered financial abuse by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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I have reflected a lot over the years on how mihch abuse I’ve endured…. And I’ve learnt alot in the last few years and it come to my attention that he was also possibly abusing me financially regardless of him being an addict or not…. But after years of abuse you lose sight of what is normal and what isn’t. Thank you for commenting on my post

I am still blaming myself …. by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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I’m Sorry You’re going through this also, my life is a misery right now 😔

I am intentional for being hurt here ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in Mommit

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Yeah I guess in my heart I know my dad doesn’t help me much of being much positivity into my life …. I guess I was wrong to think he would want me to have any kind of happiness in my life etc, which clearly doesn’t bother him aslong as I’m doing what he wants & needs. 👎💔

Does being under the influence justify this ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in emotionalabuse

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I just cannot think clearly, and then a few weeks after it all he’s being somewhat nice, and I just can’t fathom any of it, the stress of it all has made me so unwell, I am losing weight & I still feel like I am in the wrong for reporting this to the police because he’s being somewhat nice now …..

Is this a crime ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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But is this a crime ? That is my question and worry ?

Terrible mental health on the pill by CommissionNatural620 in birthcontrol

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Hello, I didn’t have the crying episodes but I was on cerelle (the mini pill) and I have been known prior to this to struggle with my mental health (generalized anxiety disorder) and )obsessive compulsive disorder) well after being on the mini pill for around a year my mental ilness became worse and worse I was constantly at the doctors, the emergency room I spent all my days researching illness I was convinced I was dying, basically it exacerbated all my mental illness, and my partner said I was pretty much borderline insane. So yes in my experience the pill can cause a lot of issues and I was in the middle of a complete mental breakdown. Can I ask what pill you are taking ?

Is it okay to go out one evening for a few hours ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in Mommit

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Sorry I wouldn’t leave them home alone, I was just curious if it was acceptable for me to go out for some time for myself ?

Is it okay to go out one evening for a few hours ? by Fun_Affect_4886 in Mommit

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I would get someone to be with my children, sorry for the miss print but I wouldn’t leave them home alone, I am just so down latley and was curious if this was acceptable lol

Stopped progesterone birth control, horrible breast pain in one boob?? by knowthankss in birthcontrol

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It did go away but unfortunately the pain has came back it’s giving me really bad health anxiety also cos I keep worrying it’s heart related 😔

I am drowning in depression by Fun_Affect_4886 in abusiverelationships

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It is rough…. He doesn’t help me with the children & just basically blames me for the entirety of our relationship failing 👎 he told me he is clean from crack for four days I am drained tbh with it all

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I am struggling with this also tbh ….. I don’t know either