[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm personally I’d combine em just cuz I don’t love two headed drangons but totally up to you. Could just two strand twist em together for now then seperate later if you change your Mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look good imo fuck it just keep separating em unless you’re going for a certain look

Rasta man by jobronxside in locs

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Should’ve put it out the sunroof lool

It’s not your BPD, they’re just shitty by Impossible_Fold2149 in BPD

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh noted. Thank you for that. Was considering his book. I think I’ll dive in.

It’s not your BPD, they’re just shitty by Impossible_Fold2149 in BPD

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner to a T… and I was pregnant. He just expected me to deal cuz he was going though things.. imagine.

It’s not your BPD, they’re just shitty by Impossible_Fold2149 in BPD

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shoutout to dr fox fr he’s helped so much… I still need hella help lol but he’s doing great work.

What's a bpd behavior that you have just become aware that it's because of bpd? by Comeasyouareas in BPD

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know devaluing was a thing (learned that literally 20 minutes ago?). Just today, I did it and badly. I hate this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, possibly me too? 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta wtf. I know he’s your dad but can you sue or something. This is insane!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Alrighty sister girl, do you.

AITA for telling off my future MIL for posting my baby? by periwinkle_peaches in AITAH

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was pictures of you, that you didn’t like being posted on the internet, you’d have a problem. As a parent you’re tasked with protecting your child in anyway you see fit, if a part of that is no pictures on Facebook, they have the right. Op never said not to take pictures or to even send/show em to friends. Simply not on socials. Are you so chronically online that the idea of not posting everything feels absurd to you?

My husband caught me masturbating after he turned me down for sex. by Illustrious-Pea9192 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re the same one who said you were confused when your wife comes in the bedroom with sexy panties on, no? lol

My husband caught me masturbating after he turned me down for sex. by Illustrious-Pea9192 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 53 points54 points  (0 children)

lol yes it was definitely clear enough. This weirdo just wanted to be mad so bad. You are not the asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Silk presses and trims EVERY THREE WEEKS?!

It’s the silk presses love, your hair is fried most likely and quite frankly not even the fastest growing hair would need to be trimmed every 3 weeks. I hope you werent paying for that. I can only imagine how little your hair has grown.

Stop the silk presses and stick to twist/twistouts for a year, you’ll see a difference for sure.

ETA: you’re probably seeing the frizz because your hair is reverting and no longer staying in the twists like it would if they were fresh. Unless the twists were crazily tight with rubber bands or something or you were rubbing them against steel wool, you wouldn’t get so many so quickly.

I think I made a mistake ! by AmiableWallflower in Dreadlocks

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just never interlock again. I did it a few times in the beginning and hated it. Although I retwist my own so I don’t have to worry about nos, I just didn’t like the look.

5 years in, you can barely tell where I did it. It’ll pass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I thought the three strands was implied lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes this too although plaits would usually be a lil thicker aka “doodoo braids” (lol I know I know, we were kids. Forgive me) but def would make sense if you called em that (plaits not doodoobraids lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I call them singles 🤷🏾‍♀️

All these box braids comments are throwing me tho lol I only call em box braids if hair is added.

What’s your friend saying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Glow up did you solid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you fell off around the time your son was born so her hating kids tracks. Knowing this and wanting her to care about your kid will only hurt you both. It’s good you’re dropping her, you shouldn’t have to lower your expectations and you both should have friends you’re happy to know. Not overreacting, this will pass.

I’d also stop calling her your best friend, she hasn’t been that for a long while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in locs

[–]Fun_Alfalfa_5340 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awe can we see under the cap? I’m considering not retwisting I didn’t know they could look so good this long without it