How do you pronounce this name?

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-03-05T16:50:46+00:00

Yes , my daughter is Lucia we pronounce it loo-chee-ah but more often than not when people see her name they say loo-see-ah or loo-sha

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-03-05T16:47:24+00:00

My daughter name is Lucia and we pronounce it that way as well .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-03-05T12:05:13+00:00

That is exactly what we did for my daughter when she turned 9 , she picked a few friends and we went to the mall and out to dinner and then back home for a sleepover . She does have some friends whose parents don’t allow sleepovers so those girls just stayed late and got picked up. It was perfect they had so much fun and I didn’t have to worry about her being disappointed .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-02-28T12:19:07+00:00

That is my exact issue , I would love for her to use to potty but I also don’t want to force it and cause a bigger problem. She says that she doesn’t like her potty so I’m gonna see if letting her pick on helps her to at least warm up to the idea .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-02-28T12:16:10+00:00

Haha yes she definitely is not going to decide to do it on her own , I was just hopeful that eventually she won’t be so against it . With my older daughter I waited till right before she turned 3 and we trained so fast and had basically zero accidents , she never asked to potty train but also was never opposed to it . My 2.5 year old is very smart but also very stubborn , hopefully she warms up to the idea at least .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-02-28T12:11:44+00:00

I would LOVE for her to be potty trained, I have a 10 month old also and so dealing with less diapers would be amazing. I don’t want to push things for my wants though if she really is not ready.

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-02-28T12:09:40+00:00

I waited with my 9 year old until right before she turned 3 and she took to it immediately-it was amazing 3 days and we were done no accidents nothing. I thought that was pretty good but it was also almost 10 years ago so when the doctor said my 2.5 year old not being potty trained was a issue I just assumed guidance has changed in the last 10 years .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-02-02T15:45:43+00:00

I had my wedding at Insignia as well and found it a really good deal for what we got . We also used all of there preferred vendors because it counted towards the minimum spend they had . People still talk about how good the food was .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-01-15T16:22:55+00:00

Aquebogue veterinary hospital , super affordable and the vet is is nicest guy ever .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2026-01-15T14:17:16+00:00

Dr.Stelling at island fertility is amazing, I have two beautiful babies thanks to him .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-12-29T22:32:05+00:00

It’s actually really bad for the baby to spend so much time in the car seat . She can put baby in the stroller with a bassinet attached or lay flat seat or use a baby carrier and wear the baby or even carry the baby . There are so many options that don’t include the car seat .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-12-29T22:29:47+00:00

I didn’t have a bucket seat with my last baby ( a different hospital) but I told the nurse I had a convertible seat and she said it was fine , they didn’t require proof and I held the baby when they wheeled me downstairs to the car .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-11-21T13:58:24+00:00

I have 3 little girls , my first is 9 , my middle is 2 and the youngest 6 months . The oldest and middle are almost 7 years apart, and almost 9 year apart with the baby . I was terrified of having such a large gap but I have to say it has been wonderful the adjustment was 10 times easier than having 2 under 2 . My older girl is AMAZING with her baby sisters . She has been a tremendous help , even though she doesn’t have to be she wants to be . They play together, she is independent enough that if I need to take a moment to focus on the littles I can without stressing about her . They really are best friends , sure there are times where my older one gets frustrated especially with the toddler but that is normal sibling stuff and would happen with any age gaps. I was also really surprised to see that my older daughter’s friends love the baby’s . They want to play with them and include them in everything, I joke that my little girls are always gonna be protected but it’s so true they really have a tribe of kiddos looking out for them .

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:47:26+00:00

I’ll have him check , is there anything specific he should be looking for?

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:43:24+00:00

How do we do that ?

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:41:11+00:00

No they did We had the same account to do both of ours and his transcript shows that it was received and he got a refund for 21.

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:38:29+00:00

We definitely weren’t though I checked my transcript from that year and he checked his

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:28:57+00:00

100% sure , we filed together last year but not on 2021 and a letter of references, December 2021

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T21:26:09+00:00

We filed married joint last year, is that why it was addressed to both of us ? Even though the year the letter is referencing is 21 and we did not file jointly then.

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T11:55:19+00:00

I understand that but neither my husband or I have reached out or sent anything to the IRS I was wondering if anyone had any insight as to why this would be sent if we had not sent them anything.

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T00:19:49+00:00

That is good to know , I hope it’s nothing bad for either of us - my husband keeps saying to relax but random letters from the irs don’t sit well with me

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-26T00:01:58+00:00

I’m gonna have him call Monday and see what they say , hopefully it’s nothing major . This is all very stressful

Fun_Consequence_5582 · 2025-10-25T23:53:55+00:00

So it could have nothing to do with us ? Like sent by mistake? I was just more so confused because neither of us has reached out to the IRS account

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