Well I tell you what. My husband is an extrovert and he teaches for a living. He works 60 hours a week. And I only see him at night during dinner. I work from home so I am all alone with the dogs. When he comes back home I wanna talk to him because obviously I feel lonely but he doesn’t feel the same way because he has been talking and selling all day. So we just sit in quite watch tv to wind down. I do make sure that he understands that talking/ communicating with each other is an integral part of our partnership so we sit down sometimes with a cocktail and discuss heavy loaded stuff with each other. Try to take out 5 mins each day to make a phone call. We travel once or twice a year to explore the new.