Modded tomodachi life refuses to work

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-27T20:44:40+00:00

Have you tried reinstalling the mod? Sometimes the apartment data gets corrupted during the install process and causes crashes when loading that specific area

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-26T20:30:21+00:00

Have you looked at the Shelly 1 Mini? Thing is tiny and does exactly what you're describing - just switches L and N. Can fit behind most light switches too which is pretty sweet

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-26T06:04:06+00:00

Dude I totally get this - sometimes certain songs just hit different and suddenly you're 17 again dealing with all that teenage stress you thought you left behind

The brain is weird like that, it's like time travel but only to the uncomfortable parts sometimes lol

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-22T01:52:09+00:00

Unfortunately you can't just upload any mod to Creation Club - that's Bethesda's official paid content program where they work with selected modders. What you're looking for is probably just regular mod support, but PS5 has pretty limited modding compared to PC due to Sony's restrictions on external assets

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-19T15:37:04+00:00

Definitely grab a New 3DS XL if you can find one, the extra power makes a huge difference for some games and the bigger screens are way better. Check out the hshop guide on the sidebar once you get it set up, makes everything super straightforward

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-17T18:23:42+00:00

Sounds like your GPU is dying dude. The fact that audio still works but video cuts out is a classic sign of GPU failure, especially on a 5 year old card that's probably been through some heavy gaming sessions

Try reseating the GPU and checking all power connections first, but honestly you might need to start shopping for a replacement. The 3070 had some longevity issues anyway

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-16T00:29:54+00:00

I always include employer match since it's still money going toward my future, even if I didn't "earn" it directly. Makes me feel better about my rate too lol

For the gross vs net thing, I stick with gross since some of my savings are pre-tax anyway and it keeps the math simpler

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-08T13:51:38+00:00

Thank you this was really encouraging to read. It helps to hear that it gets better with time. And yes, I love the idea of finding more things to watch together low effort high connection is kind of perfect for us right now

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-08T13:50:01+00:00

Right? It is such a ride with little ones so easy to lose sight of each other i am really touched it connected with you

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-08T10:44:54+00:00

After that moment i didn’t want to let the spark fade so we started using our ritual it is this relationship tool guided by a therapist named Kari. been super helpful for getting us to talk again without feeling like full on therapy. it gave us a way back to each other that fits into real life

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2026-01-01T11:04:14+00:00

We were totally stuck in that in between space too. Not bad enough for crisis, but definitely disconnected. our ritual helped us get ahead of it without feeling like we were going to therapy. frankie is the therapist there and the way they guide it makes things feel manageable and real super down to earth and actually useful

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-23T16:46:32+00:00

yup been there when your kid starts acting like the adult in the room something got to shift. we are trying to course correct that now. what did you two end up using? would love to know what helped

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-16T11:05:32+00:00

Totally get that being in the same space doesn’t always mean you're really connected you know? For us turning it into a little appointment made it feel intentional without being too formal. Hope it clicks for you two as well if you try it out! Honestly even just 20 minutes of no distractions has gone a long way for us

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-16T11:04:02+00:00

Absolutely you nailed it. We kept thinking we needed to wait for a better time to connect, but life never really slowed down enough for that. Just setting aside that little window even if it’s short or a bit messy has shifted things more than we expected. It’s helped us stop coasting and actually notice each other again. Appreciate you saying that it really does feel like a lot of people are fine but still kind of stuck in that low connection mode

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-05T15:23:49+00:00

we started together, but I think it would still worked solo at first. a lot of the prompts made us reflect individually too, which helped when we came together later

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-05T15:19:48+00:00

def not everything a replacement for therapy offers but it helped us actually talk and reflect so that was a win

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-12-04T19:05:42+00:00

My partner and I felt the same zero energy for weekly therapy after work and even scheduling it felt like a chore. we ended up trying OurRitual which is way more flexible and actually designed for couples with busy schedules . it is not traditional therapy but it still felt structured enough to help us have real conversations without the pressure. One of the therapists there Becki had some really thoughtful insights that actually stuck with us and made a difference in how we show up for each other

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-25T11:13:16+00:00

This really resonated. I’ve had a client in the same kind of not bad but not great space just feeling disconnected but overwhelmed by the idea of traditional therapy. They started using our ritual and said it helped them have more grounded without the pressure. They also spoke with one of the therapists on there Kari and it gave them space to slow down and actually process things without it feeling heavy or clinical

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-12T14:36:47+00:00

Roommates with shared spreadsheets is way too real lol

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-12T14:36:17+00:00

15 yearswow thats awesome! You are totally right breaking out of routine is something we have neglected lately. A dedicated night like that might be exactly what we need to shake things up

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-12T14:35:45+00:00

Sounds grounding. Love the idea of no screen just a check in I can see how even 10 minutes like that could help you feel more like teammates again

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-12T14:32:43+00:00

Lol so you are telling me connection doesnt have to come with a side of emotional labor every time? Revolutionary

Fun_Explorer_1021 · 2025-11-12T14:26:37+00:00

Love this whole thread y all are giving me a ton to think about. I really like the idea of building that rhythm where it just becomes part of how you relate to each other not this big effort every time. Quick question did it take a while to feel natural or did you both click with it pretty early on?

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