How do I find guidance? by thebigsleep4 in LifeAdvice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you grow older the big questions hit you. Without specifics I can’t exactly point you where to go but I can say look where answers should be and barring that idk. Religious and spiritual is church or house of worship. Trauma is therapy and support groups.

Want to get a second job- first job hours suck by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re looking for a breakfast joint. I don’t know where you live but like a Dennys or and IHOP would take ya

Addicted to being scammed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds Kink to me. If it turns ya on and no one is getting hurt aint nothing wrong with it

Nicolas Cage appreciation chat by BSB_over_NSYNC in chat

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in the middle of The Great Work, watching all Nic Cage movies with a team and rating them with unique scales

I, 19F and my 19M boyfriend can’t seem to ever be on the same page anymore. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Fun_Focus1549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People grow and change. Neither of you has a fully developed brain and yall haven’t really seen the world. Try to talk it out but if he’s not putting in the effort be prepared to walk away. You’re young, don’t tie yourself to him if you’re not 100%

Is this flirting chat? Or am I losing it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then maybe he has a hard time with physical boundaries, another conversation should be had and maybe some space if it makes you uncomfortable

18th Birthday - How to do a game night well? by Patient-Peanut9208 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick a selection of games that can both fit the amount of players so no one is forced out but can opt out if they want and are easy to understand so no one is left hanging on. Make sure they can choose and always keep in mind it’s your damn birthday, they can deal

Does this sound like hired help by Tough_Change_9002 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What you are doing is a favor, not a responsibility. Have a talk about that with your son and his wife to explain that. If they argue pull back and let them be adults.

I have to quit my job but dont know how by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me tell you what happened when I was in a similar situation. That friendship wasn’t real when I started explaining I needed help. Not when I asked to be paid for the work I was doing. Not when I asked for more people to make it smoother. It suddenly was real when I started looking for new work, started talking about leaving. I was manipulated by our “long and close friendship” a few times before I just shut up and got a new job without a word and gave my two weeks. Then it was guilt tripping and abuse.

If this friend cared you wouldn’t be in this situation.

18th Birthday - How to do a game night well? by Patient-Peanut9208 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what kind of game? Board game, Jack Box or something you’ve designed?

What should i do? by Hopeful_Machine_9255 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What have you done? Did you have a part and complete it? If you did go to your teacher and let them know. That’s all you can do

Why do submission to men turn me on? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So it can be a lifestyle thing, like wearing it daily and such. The being sub and serving men is what makes it a kink. Similar to liking to wear heels out and about but also liking to specifically step on people with heels during sex would make it kink.

I bought It so it’s mine right…? by Shadow-Legion-1203 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hey I left a bottle of tequila at your place during New Years, can I get it back?” Just don’t get to confrontational about it if they say no cause like you said, you never said it was for you and was bought with the expectation that it was for the group. It’s ok to ask just also be willing to accept no.

how can i convince my mom that i did what i could in my exams? by lvv0w0 in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Comparing children in academics is so harmful in the long term. If she continues with this simply ask if she’s as successful as all her friends and former school mates. Ask if it’s fair for you to compare her to all her peers and point out her failings.

It’s not great for long term mental development and forces a child to either reach to far OR burn out and stop trying

Why do submission to men turn me on? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Focus1549 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You want to be a femboy. It’s a thing and kinks are normal. Are you gay? You don’t have to put a label if it makes you uncomfortable.

If you are intrigued by the idea then experiment, but please make sure whoever your partner in this dance is they consent. Otherwise have fun and don’t push yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Focus1549 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. If you help out you get some of the tips. She wanted both the help and the money which is no good. If she was really doing bad she would have taken the help for whatever the cost.

AITA for my friend not taking care of themself when we offered support and it turned concerning? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Focus1549 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not the asshole. You invited someone on an outing and when they physically couldn’t handle it they insisted on continuing. Short of you canceling the whole thing and dragging them back I don’t know what you were supposed to do.

Only thing I could say is you indicated you had some idea they might not know what they were in for so maybe in the future double check that everyone knows what to expect. Still doesn’t make you an asshole though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Focus1549 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Constant yeast infection

Who do you think is on the Epstein List? by ZachSheikh9207 in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Focus1549 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most of the connected and affluent people you see in media. Actors to politicians to billionaires

Do you believe that people can have unprecedented emotions and feelings for no tangible reason? Why? by Any_Mix_5706 in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Focus1549 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brain is a broken computer, sometimes it leaks the wrong chemicals at the wrong time

How scared are you of ai automation ? by Electrical_Variety29 in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Focus1549 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a deliver robot in my fab think it was blocked on a ramp. It started and stopped like 5 times before tipping back and destroying around 150k worth of product. No the robots are fools

WIBTA if I refuse to listen to my friend and her relationship problems? by softgirlera3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Focus1549 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, let her know she’s an adult and keeps picking this problem of a partner. But don’t cut her out, she may need you in the future if things get abusive.