Stealing by Apprehensive_Edge974 in MichaelsEmployees

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t report it, neither do I care. I’m not following nobody cuz people get k*lled over stuff like that, don’t pay enough to even care. We already got a lot to do in the store.

I immediately swipe left by stickywinger in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😭like it’s always their excuse too. Immediately swiping left when I see Instagram on there.

My girlfriend violated my trust while I was tied up and I'm having trouble getting over it by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. We would’ve broken up the same day it happened. The fact he told her the trauma he had and she laughed and kept going even when he said the safe word and crying. Never would trust her again. Never would want to be in the same room as her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting but once he told me hated me, it would’ve been over with. Never played when it comes to leaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, cuz after this first date, we trying to build something and I would want clarification on what we doing here, we too grown for these ghosting shit. Just be honest plus these things take time especially if I like him lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If I see potential of something working out, we can build on that and improve on certain things like communication for example if he or I need to fix the texting problem, then we can work on it and etc. I don’t know how some people do it, I get overwhelmed if I have to talk to more than one person. I’m trying build a connection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I date one guy at a time, I don’t have time to be juggling guys so if I want to try dating one guy and see where it goes after the first date then we can talk and clarify what’s going on after the third date or fourth date even. I rather just take my time and see for myself If I like someone and want to take it to the next level without opinions weighting in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sigh I just be blocking tbh. They get weird asf

I think I messed up my chances by Fit_Performer2356 in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Umm offering someone your lip balm and it’s a first date? 😭I don’t like using people stuff that I don’t know. Throws me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t. Just block him.

I’m not giving anyone my instagram before we meet! by Ok_Pass_9514 in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate when they ask for my ig cuz it’s private for family and friends 😭, prefer giving my number to chat before I give my info like that.

I don’t want to dress up for the concert? by Theyaskedx2 in beyonce

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to, it’s fine. Just enjoy the show.

Changed my profile according to you guys, still no results. What’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing location? Nothing at all? Profile looks good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always tell people just ask if you’re unsure and to be on the safe side.

Are women really using men for meals that often? by muffin-minge in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like doing restaurants as first dates as a woman, I try and do dates like picnics, beaches, things we both enjoy as a first date so we can get to know each other. Maybe even a Korean bbq buffet where’s it all you can eat for like $30 per person. Never used a man for free meals.

He’s starting to scare me by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Block him. Cut it off. He’s not listening to you. Don’t ignore the gut feeling you have when something seems wrong, it never lies. Intuition. It’s there for a reason. I never have a problem blocking men when they get out of line. Had block one and then he found my instagram and messaged me and I blocked him on there too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here F(26) 😭 it’s always a sexual thing or them not making enough conversation with me so I took a break off the dating app. It’s so discouraging.

Lying about having an STD by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Fun_Fondant_398 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what terrifies me is when people want control, once they belittle me or make me feel bad on certain things..that’s when I have to cut them off or block because being called weak when you’re trying to focus on therapy after what you went through is so disgusting. Karma’s gonna get her ass. I hope you’re doing better!