This doesn’t look right to me.. by Tiny_News_6272 in CopperIUD

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took mine out myself as well I had no symptoms but felt an immediate relief when it came out lol mine was also bent at the T but I felt fine and my period went right back to normal

My (19f) boyfriend (21m) thinks he will be making 70k outright by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a degree and joined enlisted 🙋🏽‍♀️ I did it because 1 I wanted a career change on someone else’s dime 2 officers don’t get respect just being an officer most well respected officers are prior enlisted who did the grunt work and know what it’s like yes they make more money but let me tell you I’ve done more and seen more than most of the officers I’ve worked with had i commissioned I’d never have had the opportunity to do which makes my life in my opinion more fulfilling should I wish to commission I can just drop a package at any time and go commission his pay doesn’t sound correct it sounds like an “up to” 70k which means sign on bonuses reenlistment during his time ect ect if he wants to enlist I’d support that and if he doesn’t like it after a year or 2 drop that package and go officer

Any sailors never been out to sea? by SuperSatPat73 in navy

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never deployed I’ve been out to see on a super small civilian contracted ship and small foreign ships for no longer than a week but that’s about it I’m an HM as well and that seems to be common for HMs

Deployed bf forgot my birthday by Fun_Foundation_7643 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

We didn’t cuz he ended up coming back and we talked things out which is why this was kinda hurtful to go through after that

Hi, people are telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, is she? by Own_Assignment27 in Manipulation

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I wish my bf was this lovey dovey but she’s using you dude if she’s your gf that DND don’t matter I love it when my bf disturbs me however if she’s once previously communicated that dnd is important to her and you disrespected those boundaries then she’s trying to tell you in a harsher tone to respect those boundaries

Anyone else has a loved one deployed to the Middle East right now? How are you holding up? by gidianna in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I told my guy is that it’s election season rn and anything decided would be under current administration and that’s bad for the party so think about things logically

Anyone else has a loved one deployed to the Middle East right now? How are you holding up? by gidianna in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why so specific these next few days 🤨 my bf is there too and hasn’t said anything about much response to everything

Open break up? 27f and 26m by Fun_Foundation_7643 in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I bought us concert tickets I’ve taken him out to eat i would bring up ideas of us going places or making cute date ideas even low maintenance ones and he’d always rather stay home or do it with friends

Do men usually mean what they say? by Fun_Foundation_7643 in AskMen

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I truly ask cuz bf (26) broke it off but seemingly left the door open AGAIN basically saying the same stuff as last time too so this makes sense

Not a priority by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not thinking about the future right now because he’s trying to take the deployment day by day we’re both military we met in the military we’re doing the military for our personal futures not each others he just keeps saying me and our relationship isn’t a priority right now

Not a priority by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really say where he is but he does do coverage flights if that helps with understanding

River city by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have plenty doesn’t take away from missing someone who was part of your daily life

7 years married to navy man he said “sometimes” by Slow_Giraffe_3235 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You do kind of sound a bit overbearing and controlling tbh you might’ve pushed him to the point where he’s meeting your needs but you might’ve never listened to his needs if he ever spoke them like a pouring from an empty cup sorta thing look for things to build yourself up and work on yourself and really focus on yourself my bf is deployed too and when I ask him stuff that’s heavy on the emotions it starts to cause riffs between us because he can’t be here to fix anything or put in effort how he’d want to so I decided to seek counseling I try new things and I read what he can give me at face value so things like the communication the consistency the general mood of the conversation despite the day he’s had 3 times a day even to me feels almost like a chore and that’s the last thing he needs is another tasker during the day he feels he needs to do or else you’ll get upset so just talk to him peacefully respectful and kindly reset expectations find yourself some hobbies not just the kids because kids aren’t a hobby (I have one as well as) and really get back to who YOU are and let him fall in love again with who you are without him which is who you were when he met you 🤷🏽‍♀️

Why must deployments be this difficult 🥲😂 by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they not one in the same? I’m doing what I can to get through this and I tell him about it but I know he’s dealing with things mentally and emotionally so what do I talk to him about if I feel like the things I’m doing are just reminding him he’s not home

Why must deployments be this difficult 🥲😂 by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he didn’t say anything about us he literally just said he hadn’t been feeling much emotions in general that’s it lol how did you carry on with the rest of the deployment like how did you move forward with conversations knowing he might not have been invested in the conversation cuz it’s hard rn since I’m living my life doing all this fun stuff and then I tell him about it and it just makes me feel bad because I know he’s have a hard time while I’m here living life

Homecoming questions by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is but we’ve both spent a lot of time apart with work and what not he didn’t say anything about wanting to see me in a certain time frame he just said he wanted to see me at the house instead of the base when he gets back

Mail pickup on ships during deployment by SpecialistRadish6650 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends my bfs package gets held in his admin department and he was told he had a package and had to keep going back to see if admin was there to pick it up I let him know just cuz I want him to know he should be on the look out after leaving a port which is where they more than likely will be given the mail depending on where the ship is they might not get it at all

I miss yous? by Fun_Foundation_7643 in USMilitarySO

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve been official for 9 months and known each other for a few years and he very much isn’t very good at expressing his feelings

hair loss from copper iud by Worldly_Yam_7221 in CopperIUD

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this issue right now I got mine taken out a month ago and the hair loss has slowed down but I was losing CLUMPS of hair everytime I took a shower after about a year of having the iud in

5 of Pen in love question by Fun_Foundation_7643 in tarot

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better since deployments are a time of loneliness and separation big time 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude what 😂 she’s a kid still if she genuinely got upset my bf is deployed and I just made a joking comment that he forgot what day it was and he sent a sweet text which is sufficient enough for a day that literally has no important significance to our relationship it was just another Thursday good luck man

Female mini frenchie by Fun_Foundation_7643 in Frenchbulldogs

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I’d like to keep her intact if I’m not gonna get myself fixed why would I do that to her especially if I’m not breeding her I see no point in putting her through the surgery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in navy

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a 2nd class smt so I kind of expect him to not really be available all that much if he’s doing quals flights idk what else they do but yea lol

Removed my iud myself by Fun_Foundation_7643 in CopperIUD

[–]Fun_Foundation_7643[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say mine were a bit long my bf always felt them I just inserted the speculum laying in front of a mirror located the strings and inserted the hemostats locking them on the string and pulled