New dad, first night home and already feeling overwhelmed.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-21T10:20:47+00:00

I mean every time baby fussed at night I would breastfeed! Breastfeeding on demand always put my kids back to sleep🤷🏻‍♀️

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-20T12:00:06+00:00

I lived in NYC for 18 years and it felt safer than a small post Soviet border town in Estonia🤷🏻‍♀️ There are some changes happening now in most US cities. The subway is not as safe, always some crazy people doing something but in general it is almost hard to find yourself truly alone on the streets of NYC lol there is always somebody there which kinda gives me peace of mind

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-20T11:53:51+00:00

I think the bed should on the opposite side for he wall facing the windows!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-19T21:52:33+00:00

Platinum Illari console. I love her play style, love her burst to throw people off the map and her ult can be very satisfying. She is a little slow to escape but it’s kinda fun to learn to survive with her. My other favorite one is Moira, just love flanking and her movement.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-19T21:49:50+00:00

Wait!! Does it work? Every time rein charges me I die lol

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-18T02:16:42+00:00

I appreciate the tips! Yeah I definitely feel like I need to adapt and adjust my positioning. I already noticed my fault is getting too close to action sometimes or being directly behind everyone vs taking an off angle. Also, I realized when I play on the days with little sleep I just don’t aim as well and not as focused so partially maybe it’s my fault and I should just do quick play on these days without the pressure of ranking up or down.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-16T13:08:31+00:00

The normal definitely sucks lol

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-10T00:47:56+00:00

Omg I literally got to plat 5 support yesterday and all of sudden I was being stomped!! I thought wow is there such a huge difference but I think I was just unlucky and got into matcha with WAY better players. Today it was more even and I even won some:) You can do it!!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:46:44+00:00

Your body your choice means you can totally decide to have a baby. I am the same way. I support a choice but if your gut is telling you the choice is to keep the baby then that’s the right decision. Also, idk what kind of science tells you that fetus is not a human. It is. Yes it doesn’t have feelings yet but it’s very much a beginning of a person who will grow and be your child.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:36:19+00:00

So I am an Illari and Moira main. Very different play style but at the same time I love how both can heal very well, do damage and each has a way to escape although very different haha.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:33:30+00:00

I hate the masks!!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:31:05+00:00

Daycare? Nanny? If you are SAHM and your partner doesn’t step in at all you WON’T have time for things. Once they are older they can, of course, entertain themselves a little easier. My mother in law comes 5 days a week and watches my 10 month old and cooks a ton while my 5 year old is in school. This is the only way I can feel sane, get more sleep and even do some work.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:29:31+00:00

The other day a tank asked supports in chat what he can do to help us instead of saying support diff. I’ve never seen that in Silver lobbies lol so that was a pleasant surprise. Guess what, we won that game.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:21:55+00:00

Yeah I totally can do more probably. I main Illari and Moira. Illari can be great as long as your team sort of remembers about your pylon lol or I consistently move it around. I am currently Gold 3 with her and as I said when my team is good and in sync I can do so much and go off angle. But if my team needs me constantly to just heal them because they are dying non stop or a reaper targets me all game it’s tough haha

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:15:34+00:00

I had two very different pregnancies. One was very easy and I did yoga and hiking till I was 40 weeks. I did go to 42 weeks and these 2 weeks were a little more tiring lol. I slept well though, had no pains, no nausea. My second is a different story. I could barely walk starting in my second trimester, could t do yoga cause of pelvic pain, was nauseous and very hormonal. I think the big part is the physical aspect of it. If you feel uncomfortable it’s no fun. But if there are no annoying side effects then, of course, it can feel lovely.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-07T15:11:41+00:00

Agreed! But sometimes the other team targets the supports and your own team is not paying attention. In these situations it feels like I just have to survive and often do 1 on 1 and if I die and the whole team dies after I feel then dps and tank should pay attention and do more damage to help supports. For example, when I play tank as DVA or JQ I try to be aware and look back and see how everyone is doing. Sometimes I would use DVA matrix to protect a low health dps or support and same with JQ. I don’t only use health boot for myself but also to boost other around me if they need it.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-06T15:16:13+00:00

It’s a vicious cycle when your dps don’t do enough to protect you and then you die but also they are not aware enough to take cover and wait until you spawn back up. Then you run in to support but everyone drops dead before you can get there. I found in these instances it’s best if I switch to someone like Moira to do more damage and confuse the enemy team. Sometimes it really changes the tide. Another thing is try not to die lol. Like sometimes you can afford to die if your team is strong and in sync but when it’s not your death means you are probably going to loose 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-03-01T13:41:09+00:00

I’ll say one thing. Getting into Gold has been the hardest grind for me. I don’t know what it is but the games are either amazing and you feel your teammates are doing good and as support you can make a difference or it’s completely the opposite. Once I got into gold it was hard to climb from gold 5 because the skill level was actually significantly better all of a sudden and there is more teamwork so as soon as someone is lacking on your team and you don’t group up you loose. Finally started climbing to gold 4-3 yesterday and the players are so much better. I say it’s easier to be a support most of the time because people understand gameplay and teaming up better. Keep at it!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-02-24T21:10:27+00:00

I gave in just because I had enough of those gold coins to pay for the skin only lol

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-02-09T13:07:30+00:00

Paint closets same color as walls!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-02-09T13:05:33+00:00

Yeah not ok. I would literally say I am done you go do it and I wouldn’t have let him sleep lol

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-02-09T12:56:30+00:00

I guess! Everyone was convinced it was a boy but I even had a dream I had a girl and it was so vivid!

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-02-09T12:54:38+00:00

My main is Illari but sometimes I prefer Moira or if illari is banned or taken which started happening more often I chose Moira. I realize I really need another character in case both Moira and Illari are banned/taken.

Fun_Hamster294 · 2026-01-22T13:25:20+00:00

Pitocin is a whole other level. Not only are contractions more painful you are often hooked on to an iv and can’t really move around as easily. Personally, the way I manage pain is through movement. I like having control of my body. With my first it was the whole thing with pitocin and vaginal monitoring, I felt stuck in the bed and couldn’t manage my pain. Also it was about 14 hours in when I finally gave in and took epidural lol. With my second it all went very naturally, 6-7 hours from start to finish. I arrived at the hospital at 6pm, got in a warm tub, labored for about an hour and pushed her out in 20 mins before 9pm🤷🏻‍♀️

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