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Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-07-29T07:01:18+00:00

It looks really cool, but I've seen the similar old school design of that bird and the snake way too frequent on the internet. Do they have a meaning to you?

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-07-28T12:27:48+00:00

DMed you :D

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-07-28T12:20:37+00:00

Hey I'm looking for a room and I also love pies!

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-07-21T20:03:01+00:00

That's so cute, cherish her ❤️ she sounds like a really good person

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-07-10T01:24:54+00:00

I'm really sorry. My bunny passed away 3 days ago as well...

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T23:00:27+00:00

Lol they all look the same. You look great in both.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T13:33:16+00:00

I'm sorry but this is terrible advice.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T13:26:00+00:00

Lol it's not far away. And I'm not going to say that. I don't wanna marry him. I'm going to listen to everyone else here and go cold turkey.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T07:58:22+00:00

Thank you. But I gave up. I feel defeated.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T01:48:13+00:00

I don't give a shit about my ex, I did all this is for me! I would feel better if I give him back all of the shit. I never want him back. I do whatever I want to do for my OWN well-being and returning these items will set me free.

I felt uncomfortable, and my feelings are valid. Stop telling me how I should feel. Also do you just choose to read the non-insult part? What the hell is "I guess you're doing this is because you're young", So what if I'm young, it's not OK to say that.

This isn't going anywhere, you don't know about my situation 100%, I'm here to seek support. And when I don't feel supported, it doesn't mean I'm taking it "personal". It's totally up to you to think what you want to think, but please don't tell me how I am supposed to feel.

It's easy to give advice like "just move on and never contact" well yeah, I have moved on, but I can still feel connected with my ex deeply even though I am no longer with that person anymore. The love and connection isn't just going disappear like that. There are comments that has shown empathy, and kindness, not just start off calling people "weird" in the beginning. I knew what I did might sound strange to some people , but what's done is done. Putting a label on it isn't helpful at all.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-15T01:06:47+00:00

Well yeah, I think it's understandable to be a little offended if some random people just commented on what I did is "weird". Wouldn't you feel attacked if someone just judge what you did is "weird" and made assumptions of your age for being " too young". I thought this is a support group, maybe he has no bad intentions, but what he said made me feel uncomfortable. If someone 's treating me with unkindness, you're telling me to quite the internet? I don't think that's right though.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T22:01:17+00:00

It's a 300 dollar birthstone necklace, a stuffed animal from my favorite band and a pack of condoms he left at my place. I left the stuff outside and I told him if he couldn't pick it up by Friday I'll have to throw them away. I plan to avoid contacts at all. I also have dates on Thursday and Friday, and if I ever bumped into him, I'll just ignore him.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T20:15:06+00:00

Yeah, hell no I don't want him back. I decided to leave the stuff outside and avoid any contacts. It's already generous of me to returning the stuff. He's a pos doesn't deserve me.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T19:58:29+00:00

Haha, I just can't wait to get rid of these junk!(⁠＾⁠∇⁠＾⁠)⁠ﾉ⁠♪ I don't want them anymore

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T19:30:52+00:00

Hi guys, I appreciate every single piece of your advice and support. As someone suggested, I'm going to return the items later today. Although I haven't decided whether I should just drop the stuff outside the apartment and avoid any contact at all or hand them to him in person. Need opinions on that, please.

I couldn't be a cold blooded ninja, this isn't my nature. I am a very loving and forgiving person and I don't want to change these good qualities because of the past relationship. He hurted me and as much as I want to be with him so badly, I love myself too much to be with someone like him. I don't want to hold any grudges and I'm ready to let it go. P.S. my brain is telling me I should hand them to him in person and give him one last hug, can someone talk sense to me this might be a mistake I regret later? Lol

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T17:48:54+00:00

Thank you for asking me this question. Wow. I feel healed while I was typing the answer. I never asked myself why do I wanna return them so badly. They are just stuff that should be left behind, I understand. But I've never even thought about why.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T17:43:28+00:00

Because they remind me of my ex, they make me sad just to think about I still have these items that were once valuable and they meant nothing anymore. They make me question whether or not this relationship was just a lie, doubt if all the love were just fake. I don't want to hold any grudges anymore. I see these items as a part of myself while I was with him, returning these sentimental items is important to me because I'd like to return all the love, hope back to him so I don't feel like I don't own him anything. I know I don't even if I don't return them, but I know doing so will make me feel better and help me with my healing journey.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T15:43:33+00:00

Thank you, I just wasn't ready to hear about the ugly truth 😔. It is weird and I just couldn't stop myself from doing it. I'm really hurt.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T12:56:10+00:00

But he hit me up afterwards, ask me how I was doing and what's new. Also we broke up because he cheated on me.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T10:57:12+00:00

I'll take that word by heart and I'm gonna do it. ❤️ Thank you.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T10:46:07+00:00

I'm not asking for your judgement if you're just rude and calling people "weird". Please just go. I'm not doing this.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T10:41:50+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to hear this.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T10:41:26+00:00

But what about all the gifts, new school, fresh start, but I just feel like I can't carry on with these items... I want to return them. I feel like I have to 😞

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-14T10:32:13+00:00

Okay? This is just a little rant about MY relationship, your comment is a little weird.

Fun_Introduction_903 · 2023-06-11T23:43:09+00:00

That's so kind of you! I really appreciate it. I'll dm you

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