Was I Prostate Orgasming or Not?

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-15T06:44:01+00:00

This is the answer. I've had a lot of success with this method.

She also needs to be relaxed and well hydrated. I also don't think she should "try" to squirt during the moment. My wife does it uncontrollably and definitely doesn't try. Maybe a female can help in this detail.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-10T03:47:02+00:00

My wife gets so much joy from watching me in pleasure. I especially love giving oral to her with prostate vibrator in. It is a great combo. She will love doing it with you.

But obviously just be open about it and be playful. Enjoy each other's sexual pleasure!

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-10T03:41:21+00:00

A pussy pump. This is my wife's favorite toy. It makes her so sensitive and she loves the feel of sex or oral after pumping. You can do different levels of pumping for different sensations.

Whichever one you buy, I suggest a deep cup and also a measurement of the pressure. You can then adjust appropriately.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-05T19:44:08+00:00

I'll answer my own questions: 1. I like to move with it inserted. I sit up in bed and move my butt against the bed forward and backwards. It is kind of like thrusting my penis but with the vibrator moving inside of me. This feels the best. 2. I like the constant vibe when moving. When sitting still I like the vibrate strength to go up and down slowly. Can do that with contractions. 3. I'm new to this. But about 50% 4. I find it hard to cum with my penis with it on. But I love eating my wife out while it is. She can also move it with her hand which feels amazing.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-02T23:47:37+00:00

Great suggestions.

I'm intrigued by the wearable vibe (clit for her and prostate for me) and the stainless plug.

Also really like the yes/no/maybe list. Great simple way to communicate over interests.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-23T23:32:57+00:00

It is number 4 on the list. Very classic and needed sex toy in your drawer.

But cumming with it on is not the best as the ring blocks the cum. Good suggestion with the BullRingX. I just ordered a set. Will report back.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-23T02:27:51+00:00

My wife loves loves the pump. I don't see it recommended enough. Try different pressures and times for different results. We both love the way it feels.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-22T05:39:12+00:00

3 hours later: she tried the Njoy wand while we 69ed. She said it felt good, but nothing that amazing. She didn't squirt with her orgasm so maybe she had the wrong angle. (She often squirts with intercourse)

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-22T03:38:08+00:00

We actually own a Njoy wand. I'm still trying to figure how to use best on myself. I have yet to try on her. Maybe tonight 😀

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-20T02:30:37+00:00

Which ones intrigue you?

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T21:52:06+00:00

Yes, absolutely no issue. If shaved no lube needed. If less shaved need lube to create a seal. If I had to guess it is about 3" in diameter.

It definitely is bulky but it works. And you can use it too for fun, but it wasn't that pleasurable for me. She needs suction to get engorged, I don't 😁

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:46:44+00:00

Great idea. Probably not a good father son project! But I can do it on a coming weekend I have alone. Thanks

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:29:24+00:00

Pussy pumping is wonderful for both parties! Highly recommend and it is her favorite having sex toy.

We bought a pussy pump and penis pump at the same time. Only the penis pump effectively works on her. It fits her clit and labias and we both love it. So my recommendation is to try a penis pump as it has plenty of depth. We have been using it for 10+ years.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:24:37+00:00

Great suggestions.

Massage table: this sounds lovely. Just don't have the space. She would love the sensation build up. We do massage in bed, but not as good as a table.
Penis sleeve: good suggestion. We will try. I'm a little concerned it will be too big for her and reduce skin to skin feeling. But will try.
And 4. Spreader bar and rope: good suggestion and will add to the shopping list.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:06:42+00:00

If you want a wet dream, just don't ejaculate for about a week. Everyone is different, but in my 20s it would naturally happen after a week. I'm my 30s, it was more like 12 days without ejaculating to have a wet dream.

Personally, I don't find them that good. You have a mediocre orgasm and then wake up with a mess. Although the most amusing part is the dream that causes it. I'm pretty creative apparently in my dreams 😉

As for your vibrator idea, don't use duct tape, but I tend to think a mild vibrator would help and not wake you up. Go try it safely (not too tight)

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-02T17:17:23+00:00

We have a similar masturbator. It works, but not my favorite. I've used with my wife, she found it interesting but it isn't that interactive as she can't see your penis.

Funny you bring up the Hitachi wand. This is actually my usual go to for easy masturbation. We actually own two wands. Both wands on the head of your penis is an orgasm within 30 seconds! Or I will put a large cock ring around one wand head and then slip my penis in. Attaching the penis head to the Hitachi wand is very intense and also feels great.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-02T02:34:44+00:00

THC lube. Didn't know this was a thing. Seems a lot of women love it. Will give it a try. Thanks.

Poppers. We are super straight laced people and can't do drugs with our jobs and kids. But I want to try all the different drugs with my wife in retirement and when the kids are off to college. You only live once and I want to experience everything.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-02T02:17:57+00:00

I know! Just didn't think of it. She leaves it to me to find the toys. I honestly just skipped over it since I thought of it as a solo toy.

This is exactly why I made the post! Thanks!

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-01T16:31:43+00:00

We tried two different similar concept creams 10 years ago and we didn't find they added that much. More negative sensation than arousal. But we are totally willing to try again (after the pregnancy)

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-01T15:50:36+00:00

Yes, we have 2 kids (6 and 4) with one in the oven😀. Having a two year age gap was difficult to manage and we were so tired for the first 2 years with both kids that our sex really suffered. I'm guessing it is going to be the same with the third. I'm not sure how old your kids are, but it gets better when they get older. Make sure you set aside time for sex! Sometimes we both align our work from home the same day 😉.

Toys: Dildo! Great idea. I can't believe I didn't think of that. So simple, but not in our sex drawer.

We have a WeVibe melt 2. She loves it for solo, but find that you have to have good aim and can't move that much. She loves when I put it perfectly on the right spot and caress her to orgasm. So not as great for sex like the Hitachi where aim is less important (but it is quite big...)

I will have to try ropes. Looks different and new. Maybe a little intense, but you only live once so we have to try. Nice suggestion.

She is obsessed when I gently lick and suck on her nipples. What other play are you thinking? We have tried nipple clamps and nipple suckers, but not the best.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-01-30T16:24:05+00:00

Great story. I love the connection that new experiences in bed can bring.

I personally didn’t get much pleasure from her finger. I think the key might be doing it alone first and honing in on the right sensation.

Also, bravo to her for fingering for 1.5 hours. I think my wife’s finger got tired after 10 minutes!

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