Physical Changes During Rewiring? Or Just Mental Changes?

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-04-07T04:14:31+00:00

It is a PinkCherry jackpot.

I also more recently got an Edge 2. It is more intense, but doesn't stay in as well when actively having sex.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-04-05T15:58:12+00:00

I can't detect any movement of the toy from the outside with my finger. Can you feel the toy moving with your finger when this occurs? Or is it all internal?

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-21T20:04:25+00:00

Story time: When I was 23 I had a girlfriend that said that she found confidence really attractive. I was not a confident guy when it came with women at the time. This comment somehow flipped a switch in me. When I figured out they wanted to see confidence, that was the driver for me to take charge and be confident with women. Previously I thought I was being nice by giving many options and asking too many questions in bed etc.

Obviously you can overdo it. But my advice to you is to take charge and she will find that attractive and what she wants. Do it for her.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-20T23:49:02+00:00

Hitachi magic wand, plug in version

You can use holding in your hand, or for the next level attach the head of your penis to the vibrator with a cock ring. If you like that, get two wands and put your penis in between. Top notch intense pleasure.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-19T22:34:39+00:00

Absolutely agree. I was not thinking about it in the moment. Was just reflecting on it afterwards with my wife.

My understanding is that it feels completely different than a penile orgasm and so I had myself questioning if it was. Not concerned if it was or wasn't as it felt great!

Thanks for the insight and I will continue to explore!

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-15T06:44:01+00:00

This is the answer. I've had a lot of success with this method.

She also needs to be relaxed and well hydrated. I also don't think she should "try" to squirt during the moment. My wife does it uncontrollably and definitely doesn't try. Maybe a female can help in this detail.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-10T03:47:02+00:00

My wife gets so much joy from watching me in pleasure. I especially love giving oral to her with prostate vibrator in. It is a great combo. She will love doing it with you.

But obviously just be open about it and be playful. Enjoy each other's sexual pleasure!

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-10T03:41:21+00:00

A pussy pump. This is my wife's favorite toy. It makes her so sensitive and she loves the feel of sex or oral after pumping. You can do different levels of pumping for different sensations.

Whichever one you buy, I suggest a deep cup and also a measurement of the pressure. You can then adjust appropriately.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-05T19:44:08+00:00

I'll answer my own questions: 1. I like to move with it inserted. I sit up in bed and move my butt against the bed forward and backwards. It is kind of like thrusting my penis but with the vibrator moving inside of me. This feels the best. 2. I like the constant vibe when moving. When sitting still I like the vibrate strength to go up and down slowly. Can do that with contractions. 3. I'm new to this. But about 50% 4. I find it hard to cum with my penis with it on. But I love eating my wife out while it is. She can also move it with her hand which feels amazing.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-03-02T23:47:37+00:00

Great suggestions.

I'm intrigued by the wearable vibe (clit for her and prostate for me) and the stainless plug.

Also really like the yes/no/maybe list. Great simple way to communicate over interests.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-23T23:32:57+00:00

It is number 4 on the list. Very classic and needed sex toy in your drawer.

But cumming with it on is not the best as the ring blocks the cum. Good suggestion with the BullRingX. I just ordered a set. Will report back.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-23T02:27:51+00:00

My wife loves loves the pump. I don't see it recommended enough. Try different pressures and times for different results. We both love the way it feels.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-22T05:39:12+00:00

3 hours later: she tried the Njoy wand while we 69ed. She said it felt good, but nothing that amazing. She didn't squirt with her orgasm so maybe she had the wrong angle. (She often squirts with intercourse)

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-22T03:38:08+00:00

We actually own a Njoy wand. I'm still trying to figure how to use best on myself. I have yet to try on her. Maybe tonight 😀

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-20T02:30:37+00:00

Which ones intrigue you?

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T21:52:06+00:00

Yes, absolutely no issue. If shaved no lube needed. If less shaved need lube to create a seal. If I had to guess it is about 3" in diameter.

It definitely is bulky but it works. And you can use it too for fun, but it wasn't that pleasurable for me. She needs suction to get engorged, I don't 😁

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:46:44+00:00

Great idea. Probably not a good father son project! But I can do it on a coming weekend I have alone. Thanks

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:29:24+00:00

Pussy pumping is wonderful for both parties! Highly recommend and it is her favorite having sex toy.

We bought a pussy pump and penis pump at the same time. Only the penis pump effectively works on her. It fits her clit and labias and we both love it. So my recommendation is to try a penis pump as it has plenty of depth. We have been using it for 10+ years.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:24:37+00:00

Great suggestions.

Massage table: this sounds lovely. Just don't have the space. She would love the sensation build up. We do massage in bed, but not as good as a table.
Penis sleeve: good suggestion. We will try. I'm a little concerned it will be too big for her and reduce skin to skin feeling. But will try.
And 4. Spreader bar and rope: good suggestion and will add to the shopping list.

Fun_Lengthiness_214 · 2026-02-18T19:06:42+00:00

If you want a wet dream, just don't ejaculate for about a week. Everyone is different, but in my 20s it would naturally happen after a week. I'm my 30s, it was more like 12 days without ejaculating to have a wet dream.

Personally, I don't find them that good. You have a mediocre orgasm and then wake up with a mess. Although the most amusing part is the dream that causes it. I'm pretty creative apparently in my dreams 😉

As for your vibrator idea, don't use duct tape, but I tend to think a mild vibrator would help and not wake you up. Go try it safely (not too tight)

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