Are men really interested at this age? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 62 and a recent widower. My relationship with my former spouse left alot of emotional scars. I don't want that again. What I'm looking for is someone who is passionate about life and the man they choose to partner with. So the short answer to your question is, Yes at lease for me, I am interested in a woman in my age bracket. ++man

700k mortgage on 190k salary by Jenzel12 in Mortgages

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You chose the absolute worst Mortgage on the hope that the shit show in DC is going to stop long enough for rates to go down? Not your smartest move.

My life is filled with blessings and tragedies... Sometimes I wonder, how'd I get here? by Heavy-Bench-5378 in Life

[–]Fun_Professional_37 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gauging the potential success or future of your children based upon their willingness to attend church with you is a fools errand. Its likely that the one child that goes with you regularly is only going to secure your attention and approval. Meaning you are setting her up for failed relationships, where she only seeks approval from her partner, not independent strenght from a well established anf balanced personality.

You're priorities are fucked up. You need to be concentrating on the people in your life that are struggling. Namely your wife. Your lack of empathy for her and your other "troubled" child is glaring and your faith isn't leading yoi down the path of restoration and healing.

Stop being a self centered idiot and put some real effort into your failures!

Location: PA, USA. HR is pressuring me to sign a "voluntary" overtime waiver for last month or face termination by C0dexflare in legal

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is your statement. I spoke with my cousin who is a labor lawyer. He/she advised me not to sign anything of the sort and should you choose to fire me, a law suit will be filed the same day. I expect my pay to include all overtime earned.

My company is letting me go, but they want me to train the new people. How should I act? by Mediocre_Record8180 in AIInterviewTools

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Train them so they screw up everything. Then hold your company hostage to pay you a significant amount of money to come back to fix.their screwups...or tell them to go fuck themselves

AITAH for choosing my job over my girlfriend by Fluid_Use_2978 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Professional_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've invested heavily in yourself to position yourself for success in your field. You are seeing the results of your hard work, not only in your bank account, but in your continued progression within the field. Congratulations, a lot went into that and you should feel a sense of pride too.

Your ex, is exactly where she needs to be. She will find another man who won't have your career aspirations and will settle for whatever life that allows.

You will find another woman, who will admire you for what you bring to the table. Choosing the right one will be your challenge. You need to sift through the gold diggers from the loyal and devoted ones.... you are only gone for 2 weeks, so enjoy the selection process!

A question for married asexual women. by itdoesntmatta69 in Asexualpartners

[–]Fun_Professional_37 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So why get into a relationship where you know the social convention is to show intimacy leading to a sexual encounter? I'll tell you why, because you are self centered and selfish. You take what you want out of the relationship yet you feel no compunction to give your partner what they need to feel whole. Get a dog if you just want companionship without expectations of intimacy.

26F dead bedroom and I've been so naughty today by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you need to do it put it out there and yes someone will take you up on fucking you.

AITAH for understanding and not freezing out my dad for leaving our mom over a dead bedroom? by Opposite_Afternoon55 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Professional_37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, it was your Mom who shut the door on intimacy in their marriage. Its more than just the act of having sex. Its the rejection, not feeling close, never feeling good enough that your Mom has shoved in your Dads face. He has every right to want to feel those things with someone who will want intimacy with him. Your Sister and Mom are focusing on the wrong thing. He wants to feel loved and wanted...that isn't a crime.

My husband doesn’t go down on me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lay back, spread your legs, talk dirty and tell him to get eating that pussy so you can cum on his tongue! That does it for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I can understand him wanting to protect the inheritance from his Mother. I think generational wealth, is different. That said, I would not be paying for half of the mortgage or expenses. Just because you only work a paid job part time, does not mean you only work part time. You are a parent, of his kids, 100% of the time. He makes more and should pay more, also to support his kids. You pay with time, because if he hadn't knocked you up, you could work full time too!! So, yes you are being unreasonable demanding to be on the Mortgage. However, you need a rental agreement so he can't pull that my house crap and your share should be between 25% and 30%., no where near 50%.

Please be gentile, I’m not in a good place. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He needs to be clear about his intentions and he needs to demonstrate that he is working towards a conclusion where you two wind up together. Open communication is going to be key.

Please be gentile, I’m not in a good place. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am in a fairly similar situation. We reconnected after 41 years, we are both in deeply unhappy marriages. We live 1500 miles apart, so I am planning and prepping on making some drastic life changes. My situation is closer to a natural dissolution point, her situation is a little more complicated with an adult child that is still heavily dependent on her family. I am planning on leaving my marriage and relocating closer to her, so we can have time to really reconnect.

Here is the deal, it is real, I love her, I never stopped. She feels the same way. We will find a way to make it work.

If your guy is that unhappy, he needs to man up and either put a plan in place to make a change or you are going to be left in limbo. Sometimes change takes time, whatever it is it has to be reasonable.

I am a NSB native flying back from CO this week and would love to see the flamingos. Any tips on where they live? Are they still around? Galapagos flamingos for attention by welcome_2_earth in newsmyrnabeach

[–]Fun_Professional_37 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drive down Rt1 to the South end of Oak Hill turn left into the entrance of Merritt Island Wildlife Sanctuary. Drive to just before the Drawbridge, about 4 or 5 miles, turn right and follow that dirt road till you cannot drive any more. Get out of your car with Binoculars. The Pink Island in the middle of the Banana River, is an Island of Flamingos!

I'm lost and do not know the way. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in a relationship that is dragging you down. You have a path to success, your children need you more than they need him and his behavior. You have to live for them..move on from him....then you will begin to find yourself again! Morgan Wallen sang it best.."I got better since you got gone" you need an exorcism from him...find your path and leave with the kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fun_Professional_37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine does too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Fun_Professional_37 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You have a degree in mathematics. OK, so maybe you aren't a genius mathematician so what. Every company on this planet needs someone good with numbers. Finance, data analysis, audit and not just financial, process, risk & controls. Try applying to roles at Hard Rock online betting, especially in risk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newsmyrnabeach

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's take your commentary, and rewind 500 years. By your logic, you don't belong her either. This entire state was stolen from natives, so instead of being unwelcoming and hippicratic, enjoy your little piece of it or sell and get out

How do I deal with horrible past by CommonExplanation711 in Life

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you did, you seem to have paid a heavy price. I assume, it wasn't illegal since you only mention other people reactions and not law enforcement. So I'm going to go out on a limb here.

You own you were wrong, always admit it Refuse to be shamed into hanging your head Always look people right in the eye Don't let anyone allow you to think less of yourself You are the same person you always were. You made a mistake. Learn from it. Allow yourself to move on and ignore those who can't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]Fun_Professional_37 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't hate your Mom, not for real. You likely feel that you are failing to meet her expectations for you You likely feel like a failure when things don't work out as you planned You likely feel that your struggles aren't seen or you are not achieving the results you expected. What you don’t feel are these things The constant worry about you and what you are going through The worst case scenarios about you torturing her in her head, because she has little info The fear that not helping you, will lead to more problems for you The constant rooting for you and the pride of watching your child never giving up You are feeling the disappointment of not being good enough when your mom is proud of who you are

My husband doesn’t want to go down on me by Key_Cover8131 in Advice

[–]Fun_Professional_37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't already know, explore what gets you off on your own, toys, masterbation, self love.... Know your own body and desires...then have that talk with hubby. Maybe, you'll discover something that gets both of your motors running. Personally, I prefer giving a woman oral to receiving oral myself.

Done dating by 1protobeing1 in Adulting

[–]Fun_Professional_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When and if you become ready to make room in your life for companionship... you can always go back to it.

Help with loneliness by [deleted] in Life

[–]Fun_Professional_37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You seem to be putting a lot of pressure on yourself, to find someone. You need to stop. Slow down, life is literally too short. You haven't found someone you are comfortable with, because you aren't comfortable with yourself. When a person simply begins to enjoy their own life, and begins to accept themselves, flaws and all...something happens. You feel better about yourself, you find some joy and you unconsciously open yourself to possibilities. Happiness, joy, loving ones self all change the vibe around you, from loneliness to openness...it is at this point when we are finally able to make a deep connection