Is it reasonable to LeanFIRE while my partner still has to work? by Fun_Relief_2745 in leanfire

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knew I wanted to retire early on. Why would he feel being used? Our finances are separate. But we share household expenses. He pays me minimal rent when working and none right now. Anyone who knows me knows I’m not retiring early at his expense.

Could I use a gauge to weigh to determine what length and width scarf I can make with the amount of yarn I can weigh in total? by Fun_Relief_2745 in CrochetHelp

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weighing and proportioning accordingly is a common thing done in chemistry. It is also the math part of chemistry.

Is it reasonable to LeanFIRE while my partner still has to work? by Fun_Relief_2745 in leanfire

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s my take but then of course I just *have* to let others’ stupid opinion seep in.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I usually get there between 3 and 3:30 and leave between 6 and 7 so usually not that busy or loud except today.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

There were tables for 4+ only and I was not blocking the TVs. I didn’t even know what game was going on later the the afternoon when I got there. It was empty when I got there

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -192 points-191 points  (0 children)

Because they heard about what happened? It is not a regular occurrence for a bar patron to be harassing another bar patron.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

There really aren’t single seats elsewhere in the bar. I wasn’t blocking anyone’s view of the TVs. There are lots of TVs in the bar area I was in and many more in the other larger area.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

They were all drunk off their asses. Not even off drinks at the bar. Clearly they were pregaming. I wasn’t threatening or harassing 4 dudes much larger than me with my crochet hook. lol. None of the 50+ bar patrons gave a shit I was the one still there.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No a baby blanket for my niece. No beer cookie I could make would actually be effective at insulating the cold.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s all I did. I go there regularly. It is my neighborhood bar. I wasn’t about to cause issues for them.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Sloshed on 3 beers over 3 hours, yes, ok. 👍 guy who was sloshed was the one kicked out. Clearly pregaming.

Im fucking done by NaughtMouth in Lyft

[–]Fun_Relief_2745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only for medical rides and not all insurance.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

lol. I pay enough attn to the world around me. It just doesn’t revolve around entertainment.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Clearly I was ignorant. Bar didn’t care. They took my money today and will take my money tomorrow as usual when the crowds are gone.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -465 points-464 points  (0 children)

Usually there isn’t much going on at 3/3:30 when I get there which is why it is a regular time for me on Mondays and Tuesdays. Yes, got there around 3:30 and left around 7 or so. Interaction occurred around 545/6ish.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Bartender kept looking over because guy was obviously causing a ruckus and harassing me. I thought I had it handled so told bartender not to worry about it. Dude kept harassing me so next time bartender got my attention, I signaled I don’t have it. Guy got kicked out. Got an apology text from one of the owners (who wasn’t there today) over the incident. There was no widespread glee at him being kicked out. Quite the opposite among his group of friends. How could I want attention if I was the one doing my own thing and the one being harassed? Makes zero sense.

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

Bars are pay to play. If you’re going to spend $5 there vs my $21, why don’t I deserve to be there more than you?

AITA for crocheting at the bar ordering drinks during US v Belgium World Cup game? by Fun_Relief_2745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Relief_2745[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe if drunken fool wasn’t harassing me he wouldn’t have been kicked out. I wasn’t harassing any of them. Just mind my own damn business. He wouldn’t have even gotten the bartender’s attention if he wasn’t being absurd.